I cannot stand myself but I start to love myself when I think about how valuable I am and my career prospects. My current gf wants to be a stay at home mom and I’m willing to do that. I’m about to graduate and have many work prospects and currently have some connections with higher-ups in a large plant near where I live. I will be able to provide but will never have to worry about gold diggers because I’ve already got someone who was here before I had very much. She is trusting enough with me to passionately hug. She takes care of me emotionally and physically. I spoil her every chance I get. But the amount of people that have told me I’m a piece of garbage for my beliefs, like I told someone recently that I would prefer to have a wife that stays at home And cooks and cleans and they got pissed. I reclarified that it was simply my preference that I’d still spoil her and they were still like “BUT YOU SHOULD HELP HER WITH THAT STUFF! It’s not fair to her!” It’s not fair? even if I come home from a 10 hour shift at a fucking power plant, simply expecting a clean house and warm food or at least food I only have to heat up, and having my favorite person in the world, waiting for me when I get home? Okay. See if you can get any quality men with that attitude. Sorry I needed to get this off my chest.