Made a post about some misogynistic dude on Reddit, was shit on and called a white knight and an incel for women, told them I'm an egalitarian girl, was still shit on. I can't catch a break, and I feel like I'm losing my mind lol, tell me I'm not crazy! D:

AndyBrown65 · 2021-09-14T03:29:49+00:00

LOL "Tell me you're an incel without telling me you're an incel"

Classic misandrist comment. "so let me try to upset you by using the only currency I know" Those women measure their only value through sexual manipulation.

miketrance · 2021-09-14T03:15:22+00:00

I’m surprised they didn’t call you a “pick me” that’s their usual insult to women who see basic common sense. No you’re not crazy, this is men’s experience with being gaslit over talking about our issues. It’s pretty commonplace sadly.

LoveHotelCondom · 2021-09-14T03:52:45+00:00

People have creeped my post history 10+ times and commented that I'm a poster on MensRights so my opinion is invalid.

Most recently, a poster was talking about how some men refuse to wipe their asses because they think it's gay, and I responded that they didn't. The poster only responded with "oh you post on MensRights," which got highly upvoted while I was at -20.

The thing about men not washing their asses because they didn't want to be called gay was a fucking meme from an LGBT site. That's where it came from. These idiots believed it because they'll believe anything that shits on men.

Don't expect educated and intelligent discussion from reddit anymore. It's a black hole. Every front page community is cancer, bad faith actors brigade communities like MensRights every day without any repercussions, and even if reddit was to shut down the worst subreddits, it's already being coordinated off site. The vast majority of people who recognize this left years back because there's very little worth talking about on reddit outside of niche communities. The hugest turning point was the 2016 election. This place is just Facebook for progressives now, so even engaging someone when you're right is basically pointless.

DrainageSpanial · 2021-09-14T04:15:03+00:00

First I would like to thank you.

Second, reading this over in context with your comments, I get the clear impression that you're having a red pill moment, i.e.: suddenly seeing things the way they are and going oh my god things are not what they seemed like that moment in a good movie when the truth is revealed and the director dolly zooms on the main character's face and it blows your mind.

If so be careful because there are known negative side effects. And hopefully here is a place where we can talk you through it because you don't want to start thinking wow maybe stuff that's real might not be real also.

I'd like to say in my opinion it's not. People are gynocentric for reasons that somewhat complicated for me to thumbtype here but which are actually not all that hard to understand actually. Obviously if you think about the way way our psychologies evolved ti survive. Like, I mean, any primate troop that loses half its females can't repopulate as fast as one that loses half, or even most of its males.

Karen Straughan joke:

Q: What did one australopthicus say to the other? A: "Are the women of child bearing age ok? Oh ok whew that's a relief. Anyway, what about now? Are the women ok? How about now? Whew ok. Wait, what about now? Are they ok now?...

Or say for example there was a precious endangered species and your animal husbandry facility can only take ten pandas or tigers or whatever. To maximize babies, how many males and how many females do you want?

You catch the drift. The point is, no don't feel like you are losing your mind. This is all perfectly normal and to be expected.

And so obviously we need more women like you because there are truths that are going to be much harder to accept when spoken by one sex rather tan the other. Like if I say men as a group are stronger I'll meet more skepticism than if you say that. And you probably are going to have more resistance explaining the roots of male relative disability than when say Lindybeige does it to explain why men tend to do dangerous things.

Adult A: What's that sound? I'm scared. Adult B: Wait here; I'll investigate.... Q: Which person is male and which female?

Anyway, there has been tons of progress in so many areas of human rights and justice that recently even the most entrenched and invisible kinds, extending now even to schoolkid bullying and animal rights and so on that eventually soon if we are careful and strategic even to female on male domestic abuse and female violence by proxy on males and society rushing to judgement in specific cases because people are gynocentric, men even more so sometimes.

CdnPoster · 2021-09-14T04:23:41+00:00

Just so you know, if you're here, you're going to get banned from a lot of sub-reddits such as r/offmychest as this sub-reddit is apparently a "hate sub-reddit."

Anyways, thanks for taking the time to check out men's issues and become informed!

Gaiinahat · 2021-09-14T02:52:42+00:00

It's very rare we see women standing up for men against the Feminocracy. I like you. 😎

MegSaikai · 2021-09-14T03:45:21+00:00

*the enemy has been stunned*

AzasalTheDev · 2021-09-14T08:33:45+00:00

isn't reddit full of echo-chambers anyway? And isn't it designed to keep you in the echo-chambers you join?

SwiftStrik3 · 2021-09-14T03:48:57+00:00

The Feminism you're talking about died a long time ago.

ApprehensiveMail8 · 2021-09-14T02:44:27+00:00

Thanks for being cool.

Remzi1993 · 2021-09-14T05:40:48+00:00

Thank you so much for speaking up for us! I'm also a humanist and a fellow equalitarian.

Also, I can explain one point you made in your post: About the women and children, this was the case for continuing on humanity if a catastrophic event would incur. The first priority would be children and then women (biologically speaking women who could have children, but all women were brought to safety first - because you can't cherry pick like that in a stressful event).

But we're way past that, and I wouldn't sacrifice my life right now for most entitled, shallow and narcissistic women. No offense to you, but most are delusional.

aeoden34 · 2021-09-14T08:03:37+00:00

You aren't crazy.

asasin77 · 2021-09-14T08:25:24+00:00

There are so many more things. We thank you for your support

Some___Guy___ · 2021-09-14T15:48:09+00:00

Absolute Chadette

Ryzon_finity · 2021-09-14T03:56:06+00:00

Hell yeah!

Living-Reference5329 · 2021-09-14T15:04:07+00:00

Bless you op. Although I have no idea what egalatarian is. I have never heard that term before. It’s really nice to see people stand up for us. But it’s truly sad that we need people to . Although I must admit. It’s the first time Iv heard a woman be called a incel lol

Out of curiosity what made him call you an incel

Edit. Iv just googled egalitarian and thankyou!

DanteLivra · 2021-09-14T15:18:25+00:00

You are not crazy, thanks for being able to use your brain.

HelpMeGetAName · 2021-09-14T18:45:15+00:00

I posted a few things a while ago was getting called a misandrist and incel. When asked why they commented "Something that quacks like a duck and doesn't deny it, is surely a duck".

When I pressed further asking for proof they just stopped responding saying "I'm not gonna argue with a sexist like you".

GeneralStoic · 2021-09-14T04:26:15+00:00

I absolutely appreciate you and love your passion. But, I just want to say (and don't take this the wrong way), don't waste your time and energy bringing up anything about men's rights. People (generally) and society as a whole do not give two shits about Men and our struggles. No matter how loud you shout, or how hard you fight, you will never be able to get through to these people, and frankly, it'll only make things worse. So yeah, whatever you are doing for Men's rights, just stop. There is honestly no point. And that includes any public posts/comments on social media, it's only going to censor you.

There is only one way to "fight" feminists. To leave them to their own devices and walk away; ignore them and not give them the time of day; do not participate in the society they are tiring to build, and watch them destroy themselves. There are enough people that are against their ideology and plans, and more and more people are joining the resistance. It's going to get to a point where the feminists no longer have any support from the public. Once that happens, they will lose all their power.

If you still want to do something, donate and volunteer for Men's charities. Whether it's for the homeless, or any other good cause based for Men, that is how you make a difference.

LondonDude123 · 2021-09-14T11:06:45+00:00

"Incel" as an insult always made me laugh, especially when Feminists use it. Feminists say "We dont want to be treated as sex objects" (100% right to be saying that btw), and then insult a mans value based on his ability to have sex with a woman. But somehow that DOESNT reduce Women to sex objects, only used to value men? Like you just cant have this both ways...

CrunchyJeans · 2021-09-14T17:05:22+00:00

I don’t have an award to give you so take this cookie 🍪

No wait I dooo!

day5tar · 2021-09-14T18:57:26+00:00

Those people don’t even know what incels are

your-moms-boyfriend7 · 2021-09-14T20:01:06+00:00

People will stomp on you for being empathic to the plight of others. If you care about people, be ready to stand your ground. People won’t give you a break but rest assured that those with sense appreciate what you did. You have my respect.

VindictivePrune · 2021-09-14T03:01:13+00:00

I agree with some of the that, but the ladies night is a non issue. Men are more likely to come to a bar if women, and especially attractive women, are there, as many men will go to bars looking to meet a woman giving women free drinks isn't giving them special treatment, you're essentially just paying them to be walking advertisements for your bars. And as we see in advertising in most industries, men don't bring in as much as women in terms of marketing draw.

Mythandros · 2021-09-14T07:43:19+00:00

A few things with your post. You talk about "toxic masculinity" as if it was a real thing that actually exists. It isn't and it doesn't. It's a made up term intended to vilify men. By feminists.

Also, why are you wasting your time trying to convince people that are so hateful that they believe ALL men are evil that men are just people?

These "people" are a lost cause worthy of nothing more than ridicule and derision, the same thing they inflict on others. They are not worthy of consideration or any kind of human decency. Don't waste your time on them, you'd use your time better trying to hold back a sandstorm with your hands.

D0wnVoteMe_PLZ · 2021-09-14T09:09:43+00:00

Don't confuse them with facts and logic.

NwbieGD · 2021-09-14T11:35:11+00:00

Can we provide her with some sources for the statements in her picture?

If we provide people with the right sources/evidence it will be much harder to deny.

thatgirlanya · 2021-09-14T17:08:51+00:00

On R/ PCM I’m a lib center and got in an argument with someone who didn’t think I could possibly be a woman and be lib center. They then proceeded to back up their claim by saying I post in men’s rights so I’m definitely a man pretending to be a woman. They apparently didn’t see me talking about lactation on a completely unrelated non-political sub lmfao All in all, I got called a pick me and I ended up blocking them.

zellegion · 2021-09-14T17:42:03+00:00

All feminists are liars they hate men, the world is dead the apocalypse came 30 years ago we're just ghosts

sku11_bit · 2021-09-16T10:43:19+00:00

Feminism was originally about diddling kids and putting women on top also the founders saw baby's, fetus as a parasite

d3ch01 · 2021-11-27T04:38:28+00:00

People like u make me so fucking happy. Thank u, bless u.

normal2131213123 · 2023-01-24T09:49:44+00:00

Nah you were totally in the right, those delusional femcels dont know anything!

They get instantly triggered by a single opinion that doesnt match with theirs and are emotionally insecure, thats why I dont even bother talking with them anymore.

goldrequiem_klk · 2021-09-14T06:32:09+00:00

Did you mean misandry? That’s basically misogyny against men

leachlurker · 2021-09-14T06:07:17+00:00

Bruh u really brought out the biscuits tin on that one she was fucked lol

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