Why objectifying men is okay?

FewCollar227 · 2023-11-28T09:12:24+00:00

It is not okay to objectify men but women just simply ignore the rules they created for men.

frankieche · 2023-11-28T10:00:22+00:00

This is the reality of living under a matriarchal regime.

Otherwise_Amount9854 · 2023-11-28T12:00:48+00:00

This is what i think about whenever they claim that female anime characters are promoting unrealistic body standards. So all the tall teenage anime boys with sixpacks and deep voices are just being ignored? Why?

calmly86 · 2023-11-28T16:01:55+00:00

We men are objectified by women daily, but on height, income, status, etc.

One of the most hypocritical things women do is complain about how wrong capitalism is and how so many people don’t get a fair chance at the basics of human happiness… and then demand a six foot plus muscular man who makes six figures or more who has a six inch or more penis.

ShennongjiaPolarBear · 2023-11-28T13:18:13+00:00

Men's bodies are considered public property.

Humanityhasfallen · 2023-11-28T11:16:11+00:00

Short answer, Men don't have rights. That and we are disposable.

hottake_toothache · 2023-11-28T13:57:59+00:00

People don't care about men.

Mobile_Lumpy · 2023-11-28T16:45:36+00:00

Because the world is shit, always is and always will be.

Buckowski66 · 2023-11-28T19:41:35+00:00

It used to be simple. Under 25 women wanted good looking bad boys, after 25 they wanted guys with money, good job , stability for their big wedding, dream house and babies. Now, particularly on dating apps, they want both which, unless they are 7-10’s, they are not going to get.

Those guys are slaying pussy left and right and, ironically, like those 7-10’s , are very aware of their market value and won’t settle either. They are having too much fun to settle down until their 40’s or 50’s or later, Right George Clooney?

So when you hear women say “ where are all the good men?” Substitute “good” with “ perfect” and you get what the problem is. Long term? It’s good news for lots of cats in animal shelter’s 🐈

BasedShortGuy · 2023-11-28T22:16:32+00:00

Women objectify men’s bodies and shame them for it all the time on social media. If you don’t believe me, just take a look at R/ExposingHeightism. It’s undeniable proof that the problem exists.

If anybody here cares about men being body shamed and want to take a stand against it, please join the subreddit to help expose heightism and make people more aware of it.

Universus · 2023-11-28T23:00:43+00:00

I was doing an event in Texas earlier this year for some biohacking conference and was doing a cold plunge outside in my boxers. A group of older women was walking by some meters away and made some comment, I can’t remember what it was but some sexual implication.

All I could think of was how gross and disgusting it would be socially if men their age did that to women my age, or any women at all.

The double standards I am learning is just part of life as men. It’s a bullshit shit sandwich and we have to eat it.

More and more I’m seeing clearly that all that matters is my personal freedom from others and stacking cash.

gabriel-kornilov · 2023-11-28T12:23:46+00:00

That's how it goes in a gynocratic regime. The law of the land is "Rules for thee and not for me. Now stop oppressing me".

EfficientSimplicity · 2023-11-30T06:41:16+00:00

It was never about equality

Feeling-Series9365 · 2023-11-30T23:28:39+00:00

Men don’t sexualizes women they do it to themselves. See women never take accountability for sexualization they always blame men but not themselves.

sanitaryinspector · 2023-11-28T09:42:46+00:00

Objectification to me means that you are interacting with a real person, but you only use them as a tool with no regards for their safety, emotions, health, etc.

This can translate to relationships, in the way that the other person threatens to leave if you don't serve a purpose, while also demanding care and attention from you

This however is misinterpreted in purely sexual relationships, because many girls get taught that they can't lower their standards to those of men and so if a man only wants a sexual relationship it must be because they totally disregard her feelings and only want an object to get their libido off.

So this creates a lot of sexually repressed women, a shortage of available sexual relationships, a lot of men that are enticed to become objectifiers out of distress, and many sexually repressed men whose girlfriend feel low connection to since they want a different amount of sex

I get that there are biological differences in libido, but men learnt that it's better to control yours in order for the society to be a safe place, so why can't women learn how to make her libido fluorish to make society even better?

rawne- · 2023-11-28T12:53:34+00:00

The way you present this makes it look like you believe women are a hive mind who collectively believe certain things are okay. Just like with men, that’s not how opinions work.

People who defend the existence of toxic things are obviously going to be more vocal than those who don’t because they are more invested in the conversation. So it’s going to look like “most women” are okay with a thing.

As far as your question is concerned when it comes to why some women think it’s okay to objectify men, the answer is the same as why some men think it’s okay to objectify women. There is definitely no double standard going on here.

Striking_Extreme_250 · 2023-11-28T16:53:08+00:00

How is it different from male musician objectifying women in song's?

It's not.

Milk--and--honey · 2023-11-28T19:29:09+00:00

Virgin women on tiktok were calling promiscuous men "community dick" which I think is pretty rude

audax69420 · 2023-11-29T00:29:07+00:00

Watch how women react to Henry Cavill not buying their advances

real_donald_pump · 2023-11-29T02:35:04+00:00

Honestly bro, I'd love to be objectified. It would make me giddy as fuck. Just fuckin notice me for something. For once. I'm tired of being that guy that no one seems to care about. I daydream about having women fawn over me like construction workers do when an attractive woman walks past. Just give me attention. I wish I had the same problem that they do.

TylerDurdenSoft · 2023-11-29T03:25:49+00:00

Women who go see chippendales is very ok. Men going to a strip club is disgusting.

Title	Why objectifying men is okay?
Author	over0053
Upvotes	156
Comments	140
Date	November 28, 2023 8:30 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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