I identify myself as asexual, and I had one single LTR in my whole life that ended due to the fact that he moved very far and he didn’t want to pursue an long distance relationship.

However, I have met alot of other women who feel the same and they struggle really hard to get someone to commit (they are in their early 20s just like me) - in the hypergamy theory it is stated alot of women will have fun in their youth and commit later. But does the existence of different sexualities prove the theory wrong? What happens with women (according to the hypergamy theory) who never were having fun in their youth, but who struggle to find a guy worthy to commit? I feel like no one wants to commit AT ALL, I feel like nearly every guy wants to be a so called RP „chad“, I hardly see any of the so called „Betas“ anymore

  • will those women stay lonely during their 20s and will hardly ever find commitment way up into later adulthood, since RP guys are generally pining for low commitment and weed out every girl that won’t be sexual within the first dates and prefers commitment?