Q for men. I've seen some comments about "preselection" - is what guys say all women only want men that other women want. But then if all women think like that than no woman ever would want any man, since they'd be stuck in an infinite loop of waiting for other women to start wanting some particular man. It just doesn't make sense. There has to be at least a few women who want that man initially that decide to pursue him on their own prior to "preselection" and other women coming, no? That means at any point there will always be some women who "start" the preselection process