How is dread game supposed to work?

TheGreasyPole · 2015-09-14T21:35:12+00:00

[Edited into a top level answer]

Dread game is simple.

The game starts when a man is unhappy in his marriage. Usually he is unhappy because his wife is not attracted to him. This makes sex rare and unsatisfying when it occurs.

Soft Dread is the start. You've got to understand that soft dread game is about building attraction. For the first 6-12 months of getting fit, grooming well, dressing well, putting in muscles, and developing wit and ways to excite your wife.

What you want is your wife to look at you and think "Jesus, any girl would love to have him. Aren't I the lucky one".

That's the soft dread. The point at which you get to hard dread is when you are de facto attractive. You wife may not think so, the ideal is she realises in the period above. But if she does not think so, you only know your attractive when other women do take an interest. That's when hard dread becomes an option.

You show your wife other women are attracted to you. It demonstrates your value and attractiveness. and you can't do it if you're not attractive, you can't fake the attraction of other women. You put yourself in situations where she can see other women be attracted to you.

If that fails. Just your wife naturally notice other women's interest, you move on. By now your at month 12-14 of a long programme of work.

So now you flirt with other woman in front of your wife. Preferably they come into you a bit, and you can flirt back. Or, if that doesn't happen, a little flirt initiated by you (she has to flirt back).

And either it works.... This last ditch attempt or....

Well, The good news for him is now he's attractive, and has definitively proven it getting other women attracted to him hes in the best possible shape he can be in to get the divorce.

Games up... Divorce ultimatum. Either we stay together and fuck like husband and wife. Or we divorce and he will go make a new life with one of these other girls you can see are attracted to him.

She gets the final choice.

And that's that. Game over.

And not a single thing in it works unless you make yourself as attractive as you possibly can. None of it. The core of it is that you MUST build an attractive man. You can't do hard dread unless you've done that first. Soft dread is the neccessarily prelude, the one in which for preference you stop as all has come good.

machimus · 2015-09-14T21:23:00+00:00

Dread game is the minimum required "gentle reminder" not to take you for granted (if performed correctly). If you do it right, she should barely be aware it exists, like fuzzy handcuffs. If you have to resort to iron shackles in the basement, you either fucked up badly anyway or it's past the point of recovery.

nicethingyoucanthave · 2015-09-14T20:36:28+00:00

Remember that song, "if you liked it, then you should have put a ring on it"

Or that other song, "don't you ever get to thinking you're irreplaceable"

That's dread game. ...of course, that's women doing it so you probably don't find it offensive.

alreadyredschool · 2015-09-14T20:43:59+00:00

Sometimes when a man and a women are madly in love, the women starts getting complacent in the relationship and stops putting in effort. Now if a new women or a bunch of women starts showing interest in her man, she will start to put more effort in the relationship.

I actually feel more attracted to my husband when he gets needy because it makes me feel wanted. When he acts needy I feel more turned on by him sexually.

It feels nice and comfortable to be secure and know that he invests in you or needs you. It also feels nice to be able to show off your man to your friends or know that he is choosing you over all these other women that want to flirt with your man.

[deleted] · 2015-09-14T20:44:59+00:00

Your tastes are outside the norm, most women are very turned off by needy guys and you already said in another thread you're a bit autistic.

If taken too far dread game can backfire because it'll make a woman feel like her partner doesn't care about her like you said. But done only lightly it generally does work. It makes her feel like she has to fight for you.

It also tends to work when women do it to men, which they do, they didn't just don't need to go online to learn about it and didn't give it a fancy name.

sibeliushelp · 2015-09-15T02:03:27+00:00

imply that you will cheat
if she is desperate enough to stay, she will be desperate enough to put up with anything from you
profit

belletaco · 2015-09-14T21:59:30+00:00

If I was with any other man than my current SO and he flirted with other girls in front of me, I'd be outtie. Doing suff like that in hopes your girlfriend will see how hot you are is pathetic and embarassing. My SO doing it would be funny because he's so awkward, I love when Cougars hit on him, it's fucking hilarious.

prodigy2throw · 2015-09-14T23:14:00+00:00

Well how often does he show you his neediness? Is it 24/7 or once in a while. I don't disagree that people need affection from their SO, it's the frequency of neediness and affection which probably makes it a turn off.

How exactly does he show neediness? Does he cry whenever he has a problem at work? Does he call and text you every 10 min and ask how you're doing and tell you he misses you?

Sounds like he still runs 'dread' in the sense he doesn't show neediness all the time and when he does, it makes you feel special and wanted. You husbands a Peeeemppp.

Carkudo · 2015-09-15T07:55:05+00:00

Jesus fucking christ.

WE GET IT

YOUR HUSBAND IS UNATTRACTIVE BUT YOU FEEL SOOOOOOOOOO BLESSED TO HAVE HIM

YOU'RE A UNICORN

GIVE IT A FUCKING REST

Jesus, how can you claim to have self-esteem problems while simultaneously coming up with endless new ways of bragging about your uniqueness.

Makes me think you don't even like your husband that much - just trying to convince yourself that you do.

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[deleted] · 2015-09-14T22:00:38+00:00

By using dread game on a woman you are telling her she is not desirable

She is desirable, and plenty of other women are desirable. And I have my choice of them.

and not worth fighting for

What are you, Rapunzel? Do I need to take my broadsword to the shop for a tune-up?

pickup_sticks · 2015-09-14T22:24:45+00:00

Define needy. Does he get mad if you don't text back within a few minutes?

Plugawy_Nedznik · 2015-09-15T06:20:01+00:00

It's simple. Humans grow complacent. They get used to what they have and stop appreciating it. Relationships are no exception.

Dread game(on both sides) reminds you where you are.

CuntyMcFagNuts69 · 2015-09-15T18:02:40+00:00

It's easy,

Jealousy = I still want to be with that person but just fuck with them

Dread Game = I have options. I'm not making her jealous for the sake of saving the relationship, I just letting her know I am not happy and planning my exit if shit doesn't improve

HappilySingleWoman · 2015-09-14T20:53:44+00:00

Dread game in my opinion only works if you're already desirable. If a woman is attracted to you , you use dread game to make her feel insecure so that she'll do what you want. I don't think dread game can be used to create attraction if it doesn't exist.

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Title	How is dread game supposed to work?
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Date	September 14, 2015 8:29 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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