The differences between men and women

Aaren_Augustine · 2018-08-20T06:31:40+00:00

I thought, well it was projection, that the more I poured into my relationship, the more I'd get back. This isn't the case. Most men need to push forward with whatever their mission is.

It's both a survival mechanism should your chick ghost you and a way to generate more 'value' within a relationship.

Women test. So it stands to reason that if you are failing, trying harder to 'strengthen' your relationship with your SO is going to be counter productive. You literally have to learn to be more selfish thus successful in order to get more out of women; but you won't if you're doing it for all the wrong reasons.

Its just easier to be truthful because she'll see the peacocking a mile away.

Young_Oryx · 2018-08-20T08:41:46+00:00

Do any of you guys feel the same way, that learning about these differences has given you a greater appreciation of the opposite sex?

Not really. If anything, PPD has made me dislike "men" as a group a whole lot more. I love, respect, and admire specific men in my life who have earned it. That much hasn't changed.

Eastuss · 2018-08-20T07:43:33+00:00

Yep, I was educated into the narrative that we are the same, and I felt like women behaving differently were very mean people.

When I realized we were different I understood that women try to be happy the same way I do, except this happiness doesn't happen the same way. However, there was another stage of understanding which led me to not appreciate at all women's imperatives, because as a subconscious mass behaviour, it tend to try to discard majority of men into lower class citizen who are just meant to be lonely slaves. And it's very frustrating because not lot of people are capable to envision the behaviour of a multi-agent system.....

Gravel_Roads · 2018-08-20T07:56:08+00:00

Women are different from men. But every woman is different from the last woman as well. Some of those women inspire great love and fondness from me. Some are just a headache.

There's no one 'trait' ascribed to the entire female gender that I have a default tenderness towards, though - any trait I like in women, I also tend to like in men. And any trait I dislike in men, I tend to also dislike in women.

wtknight · 2018-08-20T12:35:40+00:00

I try to look at both men and women as individual people rather than being grouped in a gender category. I’ve known some great women and some not so great ones. I think that most people’s personalities are determined based upon many other things besides their gender.

WhatIsTheMeaningHere · 2018-08-20T20:00:22+00:00

Nope. All I've done was gone from idealistic love to pure fiery hatred.

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Workaholico · 2018-08-20T13:29:44+00:00

DO YOU ANY OF YOU GUYS FEEL THE SAME WAY, THAT LEARNING ABOUT THESE DIFFERENCES HAS GIVEN YOU A GREATER APPRECIATION OF THE OPPOSITE SEX?

Yes and no. Yes, I appreciate some aspects of women, like their dedication to their children and their solid social relations. They can be incredibly good and dedicated. But I also learned their dark side. Everything has a good and dark side. I have to say, I learned the good parts since early on, but it took me until adult/teenage years to unveil most of their dark side.

chazthundergut · 2018-08-20T15:37:02+00:00

Yea learning about TRP has made me like women quite a bit more.

Before TRP, I'd see really shitty behavior from women (cheating, branch swinging, divorce rape, etc) and hold it against them in a way.

Now that I have a better understanding of why men and women behave the way they do, I do not take it personally. I accept women for what they are, and it has made me appreciate them much more.

But it also made me very strict about my boundaries and ruthless about protecting my happiness.

Yu4nghydr4 · 2018-08-20T19:00:31+00:00

Yeah definitely

Since I’m hardworking, tall and like to fight

It made me feel a sense of purpose to know that the whole “girls can handle themselves” narrative isn’t a irl thing

Also I don’t have to force myself to be emotional in order to come off as balanced and non toxic

baby_alpha8020 · 2018-08-20T22:34:15+00:00

Originally, the red pill made me despise women, but I soon discovered this was just my anger phase. Now I appreciate them so much more because I understand the things they do and why and It’s not only amusing, but makes me love them more.

themormonchurch · 2018-08-21T03:23:09+00:00

men have a y chromosome 12x the testosterone

women can cook

Nodoxxintoxin · 2018-08-21T04:50:55+00:00

I’ve learned that if my choices were between “red pill men” or being single....nay fuck single, I’d probably just go gay.

cattermelon34 · 2018-08-20T08:25:27+00:00

I don't think there's a question of IF there's a difference but WHY.

Why do women have long hair and men have short? Why is female baldness almost not a thing? Why were women seen as overwhelming incapable of complex thought not even 100 years ago now they make up the 1/3 of current doctors and half of all med school graduates?

I think we're still working out what percentage is biological and what percentage is social

Million-Suns · 2018-08-20T15:13:54+00:00

DO YOU ANY OF YOU GUYS FEEL THE SAME WAY, THAT LEARNING ABOUT THESE DIFFERENCES HAS GIVEN YOU A GREATER APPRECIATION OF THE OPPOSITE SEX?

The opposite.

I already had them off the pedestal about 10 years ago when I was delving into PUA stuff, but still had kind of a neutral stance about women. I thought there are likeable women, the same way there are unbearable women. But after knowing the female nature and imperative these past years, the majority of them repulse me.

I see how they behave every day and I don't like what I see or hear.

Title	The differences between men and women
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Date	August 20, 2018 6:03 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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