What does it mean when a man has charm, is charming?

Slipthe · 2023-01-18T02:31:52+00:00

Charm is defined as "the power or quality of delighting, attracting, or fascinating others". Charisma is defined as "compelling attractiveness or charm that can inspire devotion in others".

MistyMaisel · 2023-01-18T02:53:16+00:00

I'll assume you own a dictionary or a computer and rather try to give indications.

-Is entertaining or makes you laugh -Makes you feel good about yourself and him -Makes you want to follow him/do the things he wants to do possibly while thinking it is your own idea -They're almost like a fireplace in a cold winter. You want to gather around them for warmth and be near them. -They have a sort of cleverness about the way they speak that tends to make others want to speak more -You find yourself telling them things you're normally guarded about.

kochIndustriesRussia · 2023-01-18T03:25:55+00:00

Good at conversation and - generally - rather funny.

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2023-01-18T03:07:53+00:00

The ability to keep the conversation flowing easily

angypanda123 · 2023-01-18T05:15:57+00:00

I think it's very similar to what makes a man charming or popular in a group of friends. His presence makes you feel good. Traits like good conversationalist (talking and listening skills), higher EQ, agreeable, easy going.

Barneysparky · 2023-01-18T13:43:41+00:00

Is this a how do I be this person post? One of the things to always remember is, People may forget who you are or what you said, but they always remember how you make them feel.

People feel good when they feel you are happy to be talking to them, when they feel listened to, and when you aspire to make interactions with others a pleasant experience.

When you are negative around others they will feel negative toward you.

Charming people enjoy positive interactions.

toasterchild · 2023-01-18T12:39:54+00:00

Typically someone who is really interesting but they can also makes you feel really interesting. They are really easy to talk to and make you feel really special. They do it in a really really smooth way. It can feel amazing to be the center of their attention.

It's also a massive red flag that person is a huge narcissist and you should probably avoid getting involved with them but that can be extremely difficult to set in that moment.

ChadChasingB · 2023-01-18T13:02:25+00:00

They're a good conversationalist, always at ease, interesting, make other people feel at ease, and have the ability to draw others to them. They're comfortable and open.

Decent-Zombie-5513 · 2023-01-18T14:19:20+00:00

It means they are good looking and can hold a basic convo.

-casualtyofsociety- · 2023-01-18T05:56:28+00:00

99% is physical appearance, and 80% of that is genetics.

nastyfella · 2023-01-18T07:44:26+00:00

Funny, interesting and fun conversation, laughs at my jokes

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Safinated · 2023-01-18T03:06:54+00:00

He can appear actively and genuinely interested in you as a person in an appealing way

waffleznstuff30 · 2023-01-18T17:19:06+00:00

Someone charismatic, easy to talk to, funny. He may say cute things.

sublimemongrel · 2023-01-19T02:56:34+00:00

Being fucking interesting

RocinanteCoffee · 2023-01-19T05:05:59+00:00

You're going to get different answers if you asked 1,000 different women, but for me...

Being charming is being (or acting like you are) comfortable in your strangeness, welcoming in your demeanor, and kind, polite, and playful to all in the vicinity, not just the person you're flirting with.

Title	What does it mean when a man has charm, is charming?
Author	Impressive_Sport_975
Upvotes	7
Comments	30
Date	January 18, 2023 1:09 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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