Would you rather date a virgin or a guy whose only experience is with sex workers?

xQueen-Bx · 2021-10-04T02:24:49+00:00

I couldnt care less about men using sex workers or being virgins

if a man is attractive to me RIGHT now, there's very little I care about his past. don't tell me anything, because I sure as fuck am not going to ask who you've fucked. I just don't see how it's possible for a man who remained a virgin past a certain age could be attractive to me, but of he managed it thats just fine

tiposk · 2021-10-03T23:43:05+00:00

A virgin guy, especially if he's a hot sexually repressed Catholic. I'd train him to lick my booty-hole and explain to him that this ain't premarital sex while he cries out of shame.

januaryphilosopher · 2021-10-03T23:44:04+00:00

A virgin guy is better than a guy with a tonne of experience, sex workers or otherwise. Just from like a values standpoint I'd prefer for us to both be low n.

chalkandapples · 2021-10-04T02:51:01+00:00

Of course Virgin, I prefer virgins over non virgins.

YMaedchen · 2021-10-04T03:08:16+00:00

Definetly the Virgin.

ChromaticVengeance · 2021-10-04T03:17:25+00:00

I married a man who has been virgin due to coming from a religious background. I also barely had any experience, which I think helped us bond.

CrazyBaby8891 · 2021-10-04T04:00:49+00:00

I actually have dated a virgin, and I don't consider virginity a negative thing at all in that regard. Using prostitutes (and being otherwise promiscuous), otoh... ew. I'm one of those no-sex-before-marriage people. So between those two choices it's no contest, all other things being equal.

NarniaFox · 2021-10-04T05:07:11+00:00

A virgin. Using sex workers' services is the major red flag, it shows that we have very different views on sex and intimacy. I'd never date a person who's done it.

My husband and I both didn't have any sexual experience before we started dating each other. Sure, we were 16 and it was expected, but it was really fun to explore things together.

Slipthe · 2021-10-03T23:35:21+00:00

Virgin guy is waaaay better than a John.

catsinbananahats · 2021-10-03T23:49:36+00:00

A virgin

CatchPhraze · 2021-10-03T23:49:42+00:00

Virgin.

TyrannicalPie · 2021-10-04T00:06:34+00:00

Virgin

Cuntwaffe2 · 2021-10-03T23:42:58+00:00

Virgin, for sure. Tricks don't deserve shit but shame.

cupcakegensis · 2021-10-03T23:50:01+00:00

Virginia, I wouldn't be with a guy who bought sex

fakingandnotmakingit · 2021-10-04T00:58:23+00:00

Virgin.

I mean tbh I'd just prefer someone who has the same attitude about sex that I do.

But buying sex (unless there is a super good reason) is a deal breaker. For several reasons:

the sort of guy who needs to buy sex. I don't know. It feels pathetic sorry not sorry
if you bought sex then you already have an attitude about transactional sex. Which is not my jam. I have sex thst I want to have. I don't trade in it. I don't lie to get out of it. Wither I want it or I don't.
paying for prostitutes is actually quite expensive. So if that's something you're willing to do then my frugal lifestyle probably isn't compatible

CloudBerryPunch · 2021-10-04T00:06:42+00:00

Holy fuck obviously a virgin. Who even thinks like this? A normal person vs. a person who thinks a womens body should be bought for sex and used without care to her pleasure.

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2021-10-04T00:14:50+00:00

Sex workers. That means he went out and took control of his life and had sex instead of whining about being incel. Bear in mind I’m old so not here fucking 18 year olds. If I was around the age, prob prefer virgin since I was a late bloomer anyway

s00perhan5 · 2021-10-04T00:33:07+00:00

I would teach myself to be a lesbian.

ambytbfl · 2021-10-14T02:32:37+00:00

I would definitely prefer a virgin man. Absolutely no contest. A man who has been with sex workers is a huge problem. He would have to consider his experience with sex workers to be a big mistake that he regrets to be considered. I waited for marriage myself (my husband wasn’t a virgin but had sex in the context of committed relationships). I love the trusting and loving relationship we share. I know that is weird for today but it works for us. Married him when I was 22 and we just celebrated 11 years.

Title	Would you rather date a virgin or a guy whose only experience is with sex workers?
Author	Comprehensive-City75
Upvotes	1
Comments	48
Date	October 3, 2021 11:34 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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