Im so nervous.

Javret · 2021-08-26T16:16:27+00:00

My sister was able to be numbed for her removal, maybe ask if they can do that?
They should also have something to help with pain or even an anxiety reducer.

Usually, you can ask if they have someone who could hold your hand as well. I used to get that for the dentist (up until the age of like, 17) because I had dental trauma. It sounds dumb but it always helped me so much! They can reassure you and you can squeeze their hand.

Also, tell your doctor that you are nervous! They usually will talk you through it and help calm you down.

Lilylawless · 2021-08-27T09:34:19+00:00

UPDATE!

You guys, thank you so much. I was reading your comments up until my appointment. I tried some meditation, I was allowed to hold my doctors hand until he was going to pull it out. It went so smoothly and almost painfree! Im so happy, we are finally going to start a family. Thank you again for giving me courage and sharing your own experiences!

constantly_in_motion · 2021-08-26T21:03:18+00:00

I had a terrible time getting mine in, it was incredibly painful and I almost fainted. And then I had a terrible time with it, cramps so bad I'd be rolling on the ground. All this to say, getting it out was not painful in the least compared to getting it in. A little uncomfortable but not the horrible pain of getting it in.

Take long deep breaths to calm your nervous system and keep your muscles relaxed and think about how exciting getting it out is! A little daydreaming always helps me, think about how this is your first step to all your beautiful babies!

Environmental_Ad5867 · 2021-08-26T21:03:20+00:00

I have a copper IUD. One removed and reinserted. My first experience putting it in was terrible so I was incredibly anxious taking it out. I was shaking like a leaf on the bed. So I can feel where you’re coming from!

Good news is that the removal was so quick and painless. I was so surprised. They’d ask you to cough and they take it out. I didn’t feel it at all.

Hopefully yours would go just as smoothly!

belleinbaltimore · 2021-08-26T21:54:21+00:00

Removal is very quick and virtually painless as long as the IUD hasn’t migrated. Seriously easier than getting your ears pierced. If you made it through the insertion, this should be a cake walk.

softrevolution_ · 2021-08-26T17:20:15+00:00

Asking this in all seriousness: can they put you out? Or at least heavily sedate you and numb you?

acarter8 · 2021-08-27T02:28:39+00:00

Best of luck to you. I really hope it goes well for you. Give us an update tomorrow if you can. :)

I have terrible anxiety at the dentist and need to be sedated, so I have an idea how you're feeling.

sunnyleaf9 · 2021-08-27T04:44:52+00:00

IUD insertion was one of the worst pains of my life. I almost vomited.

It's removal was a breeze!! I barely felt it.

anothergoodbook · 2021-08-26T17:03:11+00:00

Perhaps talking to the doctor about how nervous you are. Is there anyone else that could at least drive you (I know with covid many places are limiting visitors beyond the patient). They might even be able to prescribe something to calm you.

Also I was so nervous to fly - I used the Calm meditation app and it helped soooo much (the flight there was really hard without it). So maybe headphones and a meditation?

englishteacakes · 2021-08-26T19:15:46+00:00

I’ve had 2 IUDs removed (first Mirena, then Skyla), now I have Liberte TT380 short). Mirena perforated but since my gyn already set my appt at the hospital we just moved to another room, they offered me sedation which I rejected and it was relatively painless because they numbed my cervix (I felt strong cramping in my uterus but it was very fast). They also offered me Fentanyl (pain, which I accepted in a small dose) and ativan (anxiety, which I rejected).

If you can get it done at a hospital (or womens clinic capable for OR) then I would go for that (if you’re not already planning to), that way they have access to other tech and meds they may need if there is any hold ups in removal, which may help ease anxiety and worries of pain. The second removal I had done in a walk-in where my other obgyn normally works and removal was fine, a little cramping but not pain and very little spotting, but I had an ultrasound to see if there may be another risk of IUD implanting/perforating first. Ultimately though I found insertion more painful and that’s what I’ve been hearing from my friends who have them too. I’m sure it will go well for you and will be over so quick! If you get it done at an outpatient clinic then they should still have some anti anxiety oral meds and painkillers

teampocketrockettt · 2021-08-28T14:12:27+00:00

Childbirth will hurt more?

Scoobyginger25 · 2021-08-26T20:17:42+00:00

You’re not supposed to feel anything!! They’re meant to completely numb the area

Title	Im so nervous.
Author	Lilylawless
Upvotes	7
Comments	21
Date	August 26, 2021 3:25 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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