What exactly are the differences between red pill and feminism?

I'm looking for, like, an elevator pitch. Bullet points. I was trying to explain red pill to some friends the other day and kept saying things like "Of course, woman can do whatever they want, but..."

I mean, yes, women should be paid the same wages as men for the same work. They should legally be allowed to do whatever they want. But to attract and maintain a healthy relationship with a desirable man, they should typically (unless they're just wired differently, I guess) be feminine and let the man lead, etc.

How can I explain this in a TL;DR way? Not red pill itself, but how it differs with feminism.