All this shit just feels pointless

Hombremaniac · 2019-03-06T03:22:15+00:00

Monk mode is there for you if you need it. It helped me get through the depression phase. Just make sure to pull yourself out of it after a while.

Marcozy14 · 2019-03-06T05:27:16+00:00

Ah. The double edge sword of TRP. It's kind of ironic, because so many guys devote so much time to get good at TRP principles (myself included), but once you climb to the top of that mountain, you realize that the shiny trophy you were chasing was just a small $18 piece of plastic covered in cheap gold paint. I'm in a similar boat as you right now. I'd feel so much more compelled to spend the time/energy on women if AWALT wasn't a thing... If there was some special rare breed of woman out there who would challenge me, teach me things, inspire me- make me believe TRP is a load of shit and that falling in love exists.

But then I come back to reality. I used to have emotions. I used to 'like' girls, sometimes get butterflies when they texted me, or called. I'd be excited about dates, because I'd be challenging myself to 'get the girl'..... Now its just completing the task at hand, and it's become rather easy, monotonous work. I've become somewhat robotic.

Ultimately I'm glad I was introduced to TRP, but sometimes I feel like I wouldn't have minded being an ignorant blue pill-er not having any idea who Morpheus is. Good luck brother.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-03-06T06:25:19+00:00

For me, one of the things I realised from Red Pill, is that women are NOT the ultimate source of happiness, nor should they be your ultimate goal.

Blue Pill teaches us that our ultimate mission is women. Red Pill says we are responsible for our happiness. That is one of the 'points' of all this.

Your goals, those things you're mentioning, they should be your number one. You're venturing off track by following pussy after pussy, and leaving those things as a second. Prioritize. Balance. Keep achieving your goals, that will bring more fulfillment, then pussy is just something fun on the side.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-03-06T03:00:10+00:00

Why were we even sold the lie of romance in the first place?

Because society needs betas who are just smart enough to run the machines and not ask too many questions.

I know a lot of you guys shit on going your own way

You have to do what's right for you. If a bee stings me, I don't get mad at the bee; it's just being a bee. That doesn't prevent me from enjoying the honey, and taking precautions against bee stings.

BlindingTwilight · 2019-03-06T05:29:04+00:00

We all go through this once we master the ability to get laid with hotties. The man who lives by a stream does not crave water the way a man in the desert does. You are either fortunate enough to be born with genes which make you attractive to women, or you did the hard work. Either way you have discovered a red pill inside the red pill, and that is a good thing. Women are the by product of a life lived well and they should not be a life goal. Now get on with building your power and when you feel like fucking, fuck.

Zahlix · 2019-03-06T04:04:50+00:00

be emotionally detached and play this character

if you don't mind losing them, don't play the character. the worst thing that could happen is that they'll leave. the best thing could happen is that you find pleasure in being with a women because you are yourself and don't mind losing her.

RepostGhostCst2Cst · 2019-03-06T08:54:13+00:00

You've ascended. These guys on here still devote all of their time to women whether they want to admit it or not. The reading, the gym, the game, the money. It's all dedicated to to chasing pussy.

Once you've gotten enough pussy and you're smart enough to realize they're pretty much all the same, you're going to feel nothing from them or for them. Hit me about a year and a half ago.

I'd be right in the middle of fucking a girl and just have an overwhelming sense of "why the fuck am I here?" and immediately lose all interest. It's a pretty depressing feeling to get after dealing with the depression of taking the red pill.

The way I've been dealing is cutting out that part of my life and devoting my time into remodeling my home and creating furniture from scratch. Even started going to church...

Slut pussy is just an unfulfilling cavernous void that won't give your life any meaning

ex_addict_bro · 2019-03-06T07:46:32+00:00

You fuck them for external validation.

Look inside instead. Find your internal motivation. This could save your soul.

conorscottvanek · 2019-03-06T16:56:48+00:00

Proverbs 31 New International Version (NIV)

Sayings of King Lemuel

31 The sayings of King Lemuel—an inspired utterance his mother taught him.

2 Listen, my son! Listen, son of my womb!
Listen, my son, the answer to my prayers!
3 Do not spend your strength[a] on women,
your vigor on those who ruin kings.

4 It is not for kings, Lemuel—
it is not for kings to drink wine,
not for rulers to crave beer,
5 lest they drink and forget what has been decreed,
and deprive all the oppressed of their rights.
6 Let beer be for those who are perishing,
wine for those who are in anguish!
7 Let them drink and forget their poverty
and remember their misery no more.

8 Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves,
for the rights of all who are destitute.
9 Speak up and judge fairly;
defend the rights of the poor and needy.

Epilogue: The Wife of Noble Character

10 [b]A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.
11 Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.
12 She brings him good, not harm,
all the days of her life.
13 She selects wool and flax
and works with eager hands.
14 She is like the merchant ships,
bringing her food from afar.
15 She gets up while it is still night;
she provides food for her family
and portions for her female servants.
16 She considers a field and buys it;
out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
17 She sets about her work vigorously;
her arms are strong for her tasks.
18 She sees that her trading is profitable,
and her lamp does not go out at night.
19 In her hand she holds the distaff
and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
20 She opens her arms to the poor
and extends her hands to the needy.
21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household;
for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
22 She makes coverings for her bed;
she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
23 Her husband is respected at the city gate,
where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
24 She makes linen garments and sells them,
and supplies the merchants with sashes.
25 She is clothed with strength and dignity;
she can laugh at the days to come.
26 She speaks with wisdom,
and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
27 She watches over the affairs of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:
29 “Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all.”
30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
31 Honor her for all that her hands have done,
and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

someonesopinion6969 · 2019-03-06T08:48:39+00:00

Use that anger to fuel your horror novels

2019-03-06T03:49:11+00:00

This is the million dollar question isn't it....

redbearsociety · 2019-03-06T11:34:38+00:00

Dude. You make life what you want it to be. If you choose to judge everything in your life as shit, then everything in your life will be shit. Not objectively, just for you. You are clearly deep in the anger phase, angry as fuck at women and you probably don't even know why you are angry/where it comes from. So yeah, no shit you can't be bothered with them. But know it's a phase. This is coming from someone that went through the whole TRP thing over 4 years ago, and now I love women for all their flaws and have a great time with them. Life is what you make it. Despite women now perhaps being different to women 100 years ago, well so fucking what. Get over it or die alone.

Also a lot of what you are saying reeks of the butthurt shit spouted by the average guy in this sub. Most of the advice here comes from guys that barely get laid, then change their appearance slightly and suddenly call it the optimal thing. When in fact all they are doing is playing some character and shaming themselves more, leading to resentment of women later on. The resentment is a reaction to the shame of not feeling good enough for women just being yourself. Be aware of this. It's not a place of power to be there, it's a place of absolute weakness and survival instincts.

Anyone with proper experience with women and a high laycount can tell you a very different story to what is portrayed in this subreddit which has just turned into a circlejerk in the last few years. Be aware of that.

By all means write off women for a while and focus on what you care about, but it's worth working through the anger you have. Accept women for all their flaws and you might finally be able to accept yourself and not feel like a piece of shit anymore.

NASCARnormie · 2019-03-06T11:56:48+00:00

existential crisis 101. You're not the first to suffer and won't be the last either.

TheRedPillMonkey · 2019-03-06T03:30:48+00:00

You're emotionally detached and angry. Really, the anger phase.

Nothing wrong with it. You're getting solid lays by sketchy thots and that's fun, for awhile. But you have it in your mind that's all women are good for. Lying whores who suck your dick, take it in the butt, and then silently judge you and berate the patriarchy.

There is a lot of distance between thotsville and betatown. Remembering she is never yours, it's only your turn, doesn't always mean for the night.

You may need to monk mode awhile. Stop fucking anyone and stop caring. What you'll come to realize is that the girl you plate is almost never the girl you date. The girl you date proves herself to you, enjoys your company, and earns a place that you actually enjoy her around. At least for your turn on the ride, however long it is. You have to be open to that possibility, while never actively seeking it.

theomniscience24 · 2019-03-06T11:03:35+00:00

I come from a developing country, where there still are traditional women who are mostly tied down by tradition and are more faithful in general. I grew up wanting to get out of this community because i thought it was toxic in how it repressed sexuality, but now I’m glad that those traditions were upheld, and that there still are unicorns and I’m in a 3 year relationships with one of them. I initially had a problem with her being religious, but now I see that as a blessing. Anyways, my point is, that there will always be women in traditional communities maybe or other ethnic groups that could be different to you, but may posses better moral values in terms of respecting men, family, and loyalty. I’m a lurker here so be gentle on me.

thrwy75479 · 2019-03-06T21:39:43+00:00

It's the difference between being process-oriented, and goal-oriented.

If you're goal-oriented when thinking about life, you're thinking, "What's the point? What's the goal here, really?" This can lead to dark and depressing thoughts because, yes, in that sense, there's really no end goal for a human outside of, perhaps, procreation and proliferation of our species.

Thus, when you're contemplating life, it helps to be process-oriented. This means being in the moment, enjoying life as it is, and taking it day-by-day. Be grateful that you're alive to see and experience all that is good and bad, and this includes women.

Appreciate them for what they are. Life becomes drab without them. In fact, I would encourage you to try that. Go off women for some time. See what your life is like without them. No porn, videos and pics included. No friends that are girls either.

I think you'll find that you'll be okay, everything becomes ordered and organized, you may even accomplish some things. But, it's all rather grey.

No one teasing you about that new t-shirt you bought, no one to push you to try out that new restaurant, no one to bug you about your feelings, no hairpins anywhere, no one to boss around and discipline when she's been naughty, no one who wants you to care for them and protect them.

There's no fun. They add colour to what would otherwise be a very dull life.

2019-03-06T03:28:37+00:00

Women are really meant to help you enjoy your plunder, not be your plunder.

Beegoop · 2019-03-06T09:22:59+00:00

Success and Happiness have always come before women (along with many other things), and always will to any man worth his own time.

For the rest of your life, and possibly for the foreseeable future (thanks to social media and a , it will be like this. It should be like this. This is what it's like realizing that your life doesn't revolve around women in the slightest, these bitches. DO. NOT. MATTER. And that's okay, you don't have to hate them for it. You're in the anger phase. You've realized they aren't anywhere near close to the image you've been fed.

You have goals? Wants? Dreams? Go out and get them, no bitch is going to make them come true. Women never have and never will give you the happiness you seek; AWALT.

They don't owe you anything, it's how they are. Focus on yourself always, don't rely on them to make you feel a certain way. That's what your bros are for.

Zech4riah · 2019-03-06T13:37:57+00:00

That's what happens when you keep going for girls you don't exactly desire possibly to protect your ego from rejections of high quality girls.

I know you are doing this because no one who picks up only 9s and 10s says "I never had trouble with picking up chicks". Every fucking dude here had troubles picking up high quality girls at some point and 99,5% still have.

SteveStJohn · 2019-03-06T11:50:35+00:00

I have a career I wanna build, a horror novel i need to promote, stuff that makes me feel productive.

Congratulations, you have a mission. Now go live it.

traditional_goose · 2019-03-06T18:47:47+00:00

I can't help but feel the same. I am 22 and one day I wish to raise two beautiful kids who have a motherly mother and we all live in a happy family BUT FOR HELL'S SAKE , I know that will never be possible given the way women have become post world war 2. I can't help but side with our collective anscestors from all continents who decided without even meeting each other that females need to be wives and mothers and the day you let them off the leash, society will become a hedonist's hell and mankind will have downfall. But i wouldn't want the same thing for my sister or daughter either. JESUS! I don't fucking know! I just need one goddamn woman who is worth my time and energy...THAT'S IT! Fuck me dead in the eye, devil you dickwasp!

Oculument · 2019-03-06T21:49:53+00:00

I don't know that all romance is a lie. Romance with a slut is. But if all women are sluts (AWALT) then the the conclusion follows that all romance is a lie.

But then wiser redpill guys remind us that AWALT is actually not literally true, its an operational guidance like "always treat a firearm as if it were loaded". So romance is not impossible after all.

Auvergnat · 2019-03-06T22:21:45+00:00

You may be ready for a LTR. You may be able to find one who adds to your life (can cook, clean, decorate, is good at it, loves it, and wants to be a “first mate” to the ship you command) so that it frees up your time and mind from the mundane so you can pour it in your missions.

And then at the 2-years mark you can update to a younger model if you feel like it (or start navigating in the dangerously waters towards mariage if having kids is part of your mission).

javiercer20 · 2019-03-06T07:50:14+00:00

Imagine we send all the women living in this world to another planet for 6 months. Cut all the bullshit now and really analyze it for a moment, what are the REAL reasons men will start to really miss women??? SEXUAL DESIRE?? REPRODUCTION?? SOMEONE TO TAKE CARE OF THE BABIES??

If you were thinking women are here for emotional support and to make us happy, most likely you’ll be seen as a weak man and 99% you’ll be death by the 3rd day of this experiment.

You’re free to make your own conclusions.

Merica911 · 2019-03-06T11:06:36+00:00

That's why you don't make girls your main focal point in life. Find a hobby. Career. Network. Travel. You're health in fitness. And if find girls in the process, cool.

You're trying way to hard with them. I can tell by the emotion of this post.

Trenned_out · 2019-03-06T12:29:14+00:00

I feel for you brother.

I've got a good buddy as gay as 10 Mardi Gras parades in a row. When he looks at straight relationship dynamics he always says he lucked out to dodge that shit.

And it's a shit show out there a lot of the time.

The only advice I can give is if you are in a big city head out to some outlying towns to see the girls out there. These girls aren't unicorns. But they often are little more conservative in their values, live with their folks and still feel shame to put out too soon.

One of my plates drives 1hr to see me every time. Cute thing and very submissive. Offers a different dynamic.

Or if you're really checked out then cut them out of your life for a while. Make some plans for your novel or career. Book some training that would make it happen. Identify the books you need to read. And truck through them one day at a time.

Anger ain't gonna get you where you need to go. And I know that's cliche as fuck and the bottom of a depression feels like a hundred boulders crushing you at once. But. Find that one gap of fresh air. That one thread that'll spur you to the first step of action.

Good luck.

2019-03-06T13:16:04+00:00

To a certain extent i agree with you. I have a problem with the primary definition of TRP being sexual strategy for men, to teach men to build their lives around conquering pussy seems inadequate to me somehow.

In my observation most TRP veterans, after mastering their emotions and becoming efficient in understanding the opposite sex, end up coming to the same realization. The realization that pussy is quite overrated, that the things that generate value and happiness in a mans life comes from within, and that among the external things that generate value and hapiness in a mans life pussy is at the bottom of the list and is as abundant and easy to obtain as water.

Do you grasp the absurd beauty of the irony? That while the journey starts by measuring ones self worth with the level of success in the pursuit of sex, it matures with the devaluation of sex in favour of self worth. In the end, what is important is the pursuit of personal success and emotional independance, success with the opposite sex is simply a byproduct of this.

Even so, one achieves this state of realization during the pursuit of pussy, not before. Its an interesting paradox.

magx01 · 2019-03-06T14:35:16+00:00

Welcome to the other side of the veil :) From this point forward you can look forward to emotional stability, mental clarity, freedom, money saving and productivity like never before.

HumanSockPuppet · 2019-03-06T16:44:13+00:00

Look to other elements of your life for fulfillment and satisfaction. Your Mission will always be there for you.

Alternately, if it's femininity and supportiveness you're looking for from women, consider taking a vacation to an eastern Asian country. Women from Thailand, Vietnam, Cambodia, Taiwan, and the Philippines can be refreshingly feminine.

goodboy1112111 · 2019-03-06T18:57:44+00:00

Get thee a passport, my man.

careofKnives · 2019-03-06T19:33:01+00:00

You just need to try waaay less hard. You’re fucking girls just for the sake of fucking girls. You’re wasting your time, just like how it feels. People here that shit on MGTOW just don’t understand it because they are not in a favorable enough position to appreciate it. You can still GYOW and pump and dump, just seriously put in zero effort. It’s hard to get into the practice at first, I know. However, after all is said and done you’re going to find yourself with some serious amounts of free time. It’s hard to practice at first because like you said, you’ll find yourself in a position of having analyzed a situation and realizing that you could easily do x, y, and z actions and wind up fucking. Only problem is, x, y, and z is gonna take up all your precious time. You need to instead change tactics and only follow through during situations where instead of needing to do x, y, and z in order to fuck, you only need to do x, and x should NEVER exceed 15 minutes. I’m talking one conversation homie. If you can’t fuck from one conversation just leave and keep it moving with zero explanation. That 15 minute conversation is about to work and you only need one more minute of talking to this bitch to get it? Too bad, you have to go promote you’re horror story. That’s the way it has to be if you want change. Don’t let any of these scrubs on here tell you that you’re depressed or narcissistic. You already know what you are, you’re tired of wasting your time, don’t let anyone change your mind for you.

trele_morele · 2019-03-07T01:33:53+00:00

Once you find your purpose in life, one that doesn't involve women, you'll feel otherwise. Shit feels pointless because your life is pointless because that's what you've made it

2019-03-07T01:51:51+00:00

MGTOW is waking up, not giving up. Get a cat and dog and fleshlight. Thanks me later.

GEN_GOTHMOG · 2019-03-07T07:40:19+00:00

I've maintained the exact same assertion for a while now.

I own 4 businesses, none of which would exist if i'd been involved with women at any point in my life. But admittedly, I've not been involved with women because frankly I'm not attractive. But in all seriousness there is no way I'd trade my life now for some poon to shoot a miserable load in. Fuck that.

2019-03-07T08:03:49+00:00

I really don't understand, getting to the point of picking up chicks with ease must be a really liberating experience.

All my life I spent pursuing many passions such as computer programming, art, music and sports. But woman was always a lagging factor because the lack of intimacy gets me deeply depressed. Like, real depression, not just episodes of sadness, to the point were you can't get nothing done and lose the will to even cry.

I googled for years to find anything remotely like TRP, jumping from website from website giving me that gave me nothing but the same shallow and useless advices, always deferring to woman. Trust me when I say this, beta life is hell and I crave so much this thing you have, to finally be sexually satisfied and have a clear mind to do my hobbies.

Wish you find some purpose in life because it seems that's what you really need right now. There is so much more you can do that have nothing to do with girls. Be business or be art, it only matters if you`re feeling it.

1v1crown · 2019-03-07T16:20:23+00:00

Ever think maybe you are a slut?

WoodleyWarrior85 · 2019-03-08T02:22:23+00:00

Women in moderation, just like every thing else. Fucking thots is not supposed to be the point of life. That said, it can be an enjoyable way to release some steam once a week.

Don't look for the meaning of life in women. Or in any one thing. The meaning of life is found in the whole. It's about your overall lifestyle. It's fine to be laser focused on your mission, career, side hustle, hobbies, etc. You can do this 5 or 6 days a week. I don't see why it has to preclude you from hooking up, though.

xesup2 · 2019-03-08T03:20:46+00:00

Why were we even sold the lie of romance in the first place?

It was made by beta males to justify monogamy. So each beta gets a woman which otherwise would go to an alpha.

Religion supported it, to get the support of betas.

Nobody asked women what they wanted, because their opinion/support was worthless. If it is something that the "patriarchy" did to hurt women, it was monogamy, and yet feminists pretend to support it.

Unfortunately, giving so many women to betas multiplied beta males, and those betas were covered with blue pills, to make it even worse. That's why all man feel unworthy and all women are frustrated, controlling and angry.

chazthundergut · 2019-03-08T06:33:21+00:00

Here are your problems:

After a few years of this shit, its just making me more dead inside.

Women are not the answer. No female can make you feel "alive inside" or give your life purpose. You are looking for satisfaction in the wrong place- between a woman's legs

I'm just doing it to prove to myself that I'm still a man but I don't enjoy them

Same as above. Why are you looking for your manhood from a female? You are fucking them for the wrong reasons. Never look for validation or proof of manhood from a female

Stop fucking around with women. Get to work and build your career. Write your novel and keep chasing after your purpose.

Once you have found your north star and have aligned your life to it, women will be like a fun compliment to your life. Not the source of your internal life, not the proof of your manhood.

2019-03-06T03:37:58+00:00

You shouldn't settle for shit that doesn't work exceptionally well for you, period.

2019-03-06T08:40:15+00:00

Reminder that MGTOW is defeatism. Don't hate women, hate the people who turned them that way.

krym33 · 2019-03-06T10:59:17+00:00

Have kids. Gotta let your genes walk away someday.
You will get emotions from this, and you will force yourself to rise up a notch again.
The thing that everyone forgets here is: we are not here just to fuck some chicks, we are here to be the fucking gods of our species (this is a way to put it). One life is not enough to complete our objectives, if you can complete it till you die, your objective is way to small, think bigger.
Fucking bitches left and right is not hard, we all know (if you go out asking to fuck, every 20 or 30 girls, you will get one) that.
Even after the redpill getting married and having kids didn't made me a beta or take the bluepill, actually pushed me further, because now I get to teach someone the right way and need to workout more to show them that it is possible to do what the hell they want.
The romance is still there, but you need to develop the feeling of love, not adoration, love. But remember you protect and love them, not the other way around.

TheImpossible1 · 2019-03-06T08:15:28+00:00

That's because, when it comes down to it, women are pretty worthless. You get off and then what? That's it. They're not good for anything else.

They're not good friends, good people, fun to be with, interesting or any positive characteristic I can think of.

TheGweatandTewwible · 2019-03-06T19:14:37+00:00

I getchu, dude. Even with the girls that seem "worth it" I still ask myself what the point is if the relationship's inevitably going to end with her branch-swinging. I try be positive and not nihilistic but damn it's hard sometimes. At the end of the day, it's something we have to come to terms with.

daveed1297 · 2019-03-06T21:38:25+00:00

What it sounds like is that you're expecting to find fulfillment and discover life's purpose from fucking thots. You're looking in all the wrong places. You are responsible to bring meaning and value and satisfaction into your life for yourself. That's why we talk about furthering of your career, establishment of routines, getting a hobby as essential for YOU not for girls. Really need to take a step back and examine yourself and your expectations of others.

uwey · 2019-03-07T06:45:43+00:00

Go have as much safe sex with as many women as you can.

I spend 10 year doing something along with that goal.

-travel a lot. 30 countries and adding
-fight someone. Pick a fight at least once.
-live in other country. Be EXPET. -fuck all kinds of women. -work in at least 10 different industries.
-lift. -kill a animal and eat it. -have a dog and live with it. -start a business, and failed. -be homeless, 6 month on.
-learn something you never thought you could, I did trapeze and gymnastics.
-go swim once in black ocean without moonlight, and find your way back.

-triathlon, I did sprint, and eventually the painful Iron Man. 14-15 hr, bike is the worst and it feels like eternity. You think 17hr is plenty......and so many time I want to give up, this is by far the worst event, my whole body hurts, cramp, bleeding, exhaustion etc. But I finish, that is the key, to finish.

-marathon. -cave diving. -get fat, and go back in shape.

I still want to learn Jazz Piano.
I have not yet be a beggar, I bet I can be very efficient beggar.
Full time alcoholic, that is for sure.

That is a lot to do in life.
I am looking forward for failure because that is how I feel the chase, I am naturally a chaser and I had to behind in order to ignite the boost. I will purposely follow someone in order to surpass them.

Find your gig.

Read ”Principle” by Ray Dalio. It will change your life like 48 law did.

2019-03-07T08:40:31+00:00

You've seen a glimpse of the truth. Nothing has any inherent meaning and women won't gift you happiness.

This isn't a bad thing. Do what you want to do. Be accountable only to yourself.

Liburnian · 2019-03-09T08:24:37+00:00

After RP rage subsided, I'm now encountering this... It's been 4 years since I discovered it. I learned a lot, and admitted to myself I was right about even more things than I was willing to project in social interactions. Women are barely more than collecting containers for your semen and money. They choke you with romantic nonsense, and when you actually decline sex couple of times they go full psycho on you. Can't we just enjoy each other's company every now and then? Apparently not, because we don't actually have anything to talk about. We are two distant worlds, brought together by a common biological urge. Much like cats and dogs socialize in heat. Women are sad creatures to think of.

Blackphish88 · 2019-03-10T01:06:06+00:00

Don't think of it as giving up my man. It's a rigged game and women are the carnies. Anyone gives you shit remember this.

If you gotta be guilted or shamed into doing something, it's is very likely not to your benefit and often times your detriment.

2019-03-23T03:30:36+00:00

I must prepare myself when this shit spreads to my country. After all, Latin American mainstream culture is flooded with "American" entertainment, and thus its degeneracy. This place has its own problems but atleast some men are still men.

2019-03-06T16:22:09+00:00

My opinion is you don't need Monk mode or anything. You just need to find something that interests you and maybe one day take a chick with you to do it or some shit.

You're needlessly seeking fulfilment in these women, and them in you. Lead your life man, no pussy it's just flesh is going to fulfil you. It's just sex. Stop being so narcissistic in all this and live and experience with bitches again - a little. A little goes a long way.

You're almost certainly depressed. Find another hobby, so have two hobbies, or maybe it's something else getting you down.

My guess is that thing is you're being fake and gamey. You're holding back or suppressing things. Take your most submissive girl, the most docile one and open up for real with the bitch. It's just the modern world of social media and all that, playing for ourselves. Do your work as you say but maybe for one time be real with one of these girls.

But you also need a break too. You can't keep going on like this. Been there done that, it's not challenging. But don't drop out, find someone you actually like. Don't be a machine. You're probably lonely from zero real connection.

You could be an addict of sex too. Try to see colour again because you're wasting some good years on this sex bullshit. Whatever it is I'm sure none of us can solve it except to say in love and sex it's full of pain and here you are seeking endless pleasure. .

Your biggest mistake. Women are hassle. You've got to change what it's all about. And talk to a doctor about it or professional for at least some perspective. You're not happy doing what you're doing so you need to change it up and date people you actually like and them you. Maybe you feel like a fraud or you're secretly letting people down. Maybe it's a phase, but you need to change it up. Take a break, try new things. Maybe you feel obligated to your current lifestyle as the lesser of two evils. Maybe you feel a little trapped.

Either way your life lacks meaning and you're probably unhappy these girls don't think enough of you even though you're fucking.

You've got to make life about other things. This crap about your work and book etc is just an excuse.. It's the bitches. You've had your fill and it's time to change things up, at least for a while. If you start giving a stuff about others a little bit for real they'll probably reciprocate, you sound like a husk atm. You do need to recharge.

So taking a break is exactly what you need to do. So what the novelty and excitement, the thrill wore off. So make it about other things. Even if that's taking a break from chicks.

The first realization people come to is they're too nice or stupid. The second all women are the same and it's their own attitude that decides, meaning less effort and engagement, going through the motions... Now you have perspective and choice you can use it to be far more constructive. Before you were angry and lost and subbed in thrill to replace your basic needs. You become detached and trapped in the stage because you fear losing your competency.... Now without thrill you have an existential crisis. Be constructive and philosophical with it. Don't destroy, leap to the next level and find happiness for real.

You may pull back from women but when you engage them again no you won't be a simp but you will do so with more authenticity, enlightenment and as a man you need to feel useful so by expanding your range at least with some of them, maybe being more empathetic, you will be needed in deeper ways. This could help heal any childhood wounds from parenting, etc. But you will grow a new shell so to speak, you're fragile right now but you'll return to strength.

Source: I'm a natural and really smart. And I only pursue women from strength. They're one part of the world. The best thing about them is between their legs, and let's be honest, you only get to see that for short durations of time. You need more balance but first break the chain. Any addiction you need to cease for perspective even just a little bit. I don't know what regrets you have but you need to resolve them and heed the above advice. You'll always have pussy just like me and others but you MUST mitigate the cost. Women wear you down. And chicks can be for more than sex. But I was once around so many chicks/interaction and living arrangements I began to feel like a chick almost, needed male company so I didn't lose my mind. So you should definitely hang out with your Bros more often and avoid seeing a woman that night.

Then you probably feel some shame from doing all this investment of time and hard work for nothing, if you're not completely in the sociopath side in this in how you act (sex at all costs) then you will get blowback on your own actions..., and it's tied into your phyche. You've got to make life about more. Because this is not who you really are. You need a break, better balance and to really just get over your feelings of shame and loss by building something new. It may be familiar but whatever it is it needs to be different or you'll just stay in your rut.

You're grieving too I bet for the vision of who you thought you'd be or how things would be. So now you're angry and sad, soon you will come to accept it, then you can move forward realizing it's not all so bad, that you still have time and options and a new day/change/way. You'll have a healthier ego to boot, and maybe you won't pass up great chances at more with better quality of women when it happens. One side of you has been really immature and you've been holding back. From here on out you will be able to align with greater clarity and sense of purpose. Be constructive. The realization sucks. But it's only up from here.

You can't get back your jizz from these hoes but you can learn to more healthierly revere yourself and them for what they are. But you need to do other things in the meantime. Revere life. Not the pussy lol. Seriously. Stop fucking these vampyres and start loving life. Let them come to you just a little more. Women only care about themselves. I don't blame them and if you care about yourself you'll start living a more full life. Yeah then the bloodsuckers come back BUT you'll be able to let them in and out in accordance to a more healthier balanced life and how much you actually like them.

Of course being depressed you probably overrated your ability and played down your weakness and regrets. But follow what I said and others because what you're doing is not working. Women will soon be eating you alive. You won't be happy/you're not happy because you live for them and their snatch. You're a slave to it in some regards.

There's no other way to stop being weak, mate. You need to grow your inner child and find more mature girls, etc. You'll also get better treatment. But ffs don't turn into a white knight. It is what it is, get new terms of engagement.

jonpe87 · 2019-03-06T13:06:01+00:00

Stop being a narcisist

This is life not disneyland

marksiwelforever · 2019-03-08T05:10:27+00:00

Try fucking a dude , nothing more alpha than that

Title	All this shit just feels pointless
Author	thrownaway2thewind
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Date	March 6, 2019 2:53 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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