Theory level: Advanced Beginner Note: This is theory that won’t make some guys happy and feel good. It’s not my intention, but some guys need to stop pedastalizing alphadom.
”What do you mean that loser is an alpha?!
Over here at TRP we teach men to be alpha and to improve their lives. Sometimes, this leads guys to not fully understanding what alpha is or why TRP is special. A lot of guys, especially those who came from a trad con background, have this idea of a “real man” stuck in their head. This “real man” is responsible, courageous, independent, etc. It can come as a shock to these guys to find out that alpha and those positive traits are not directly related.
So the basics. There are two, and only two sexual strategies:
Alpha — sexual strategy practiced by inciting physical desire.
Beta — sexual strategy practiced by providing security and resources.
So if a guy is fucking, and he is a fat slob you can be goddam sure he’s providing big time bucks. Likewise, if a guy is a loser who can’t hold down a job for two months you can be sure he’s only providing tingles.
That person is a loser. My SMV should be higher!
That guy is a drunk and wife beater. He’s no alpha.
He sells drugs and carries guns. Why is she fucking him?
Her ex borrowed thousands of dollars from her. Some “alpha” he is!
I’ve heard these things so many times around here. All that it shows me is that some guys are idealizing alphadom beyond what it is. These guys went from pedastalizing women to pedastalizing alpha strategy. By doing so they fail to realize how unspecial alpha (or beta) strategy actually is and under appreciate how special TRPs methods really are.
Most guys practicing alpha strategy in the wild are losers
And this is true big time. Pretty much every criminal, drug addict, dead beat, or financial loser who is fucking, is fucking because of alpha strategy. No disagreements considered. They have NOTHING to offer a woman in terms of security and often detract from her security, yet she still wiggles that ass up for them. If this seems strange to you, ask yourself why would a woman fuck a degenerate? Biffaults law demands that she thinks she is getting something. So what is she getting? It’s not money. Probably not protection. It’s only the loser’s dick at the end of his feelz.
Ever see a hot sorority girl running with a bunch of thugs? This woman has a career and a future. She may wind up making more in a year than the whole group makes together. Why the fuck do good girls secretly go for that thug dick? The answer is that they provide feelz. They are big, and DNGAF about anything and so they hack her alpha desire. They provide nothing to her.
What about drug addicts? These good girls spin themselves out worrying about the addict’s safety, they feel relieved when they are OK, they feel hopeful when the addict promises to change. They are getting feelz. Feelz do NOT need to be positive, and the guys here good at spinning them know that pissing a woman off is as good as any pillow talk.
There are tons of criminals who have bred more successfully than any engineer. They didn’t do that magically... they did it because alpha strategy does not strictly require personal success.
The TRP method is special
This is what makes TRP stand out. It provides a roadmap for stimulating a woman’s feelz in a self-productive way. It utilizes growth and improvement as a vehicle to hack a woman’s alpha desire. TRP is actually the hardest way to do this.
It is special, and is worthy of following because it shows a way to get sex while being better. The TRP method doesn’t split men into “bad boys” and “good guys.” The guys who discovered TRP after being self destructive bad boys understand this, but it can be hard for the guys who discovered TRP after finding out that having their shit together wasn’t enough.
Conclusion
If you find yourself or someone else trying to say that some loser isn’t alpha, then you need to self-correct. Being alpha can mean being the best of men, but it doesn’t have to.
If this loser is (1) fucking and (2) providing nothing (or even better, just mooching) then you can be sure he is using alpha strategy.
The bold quotes I wrote above are all from guys who don’t understand that “alpha” is just sexual strategy. There are no exceptions to RP theory. So when you run across a loser you look down upon who also fucks you can be goddam sure he’s using alpha. There is ONLY alpha and beta. If it’s not provisioning, it’s feelz.
In the end, you will be much better off if you understand this difference. You will understand why certain guys are succeeding in sexual strategy, and you will be better able to apply positive TRP methods.
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