Black man explains why he doesn't prefer black women. His line at the end is golden and applies the feminists as well.

IAMTHEDEATHMACHINE · 2014-01-13T15:00:24+00:00

I'm white and I've dated four black girls. Two were American, one a smoking hot college athlete and one was a studious bookworm. Two were foreign, one German/Nigerian, one full Nigerian (Igbo, to be specific).

All were very attractive, but in order from most feminine to least feminine, it went like this: Nigerian, German/Nigerian, bookworm, athlete.

The worst by far was the American athlete. She seemed very similar to the sister in the top comment from OP's link. Hell, the only reason I knew she was attractive to begin with is because I saw her in tights at track practice. Otherwise, I never would have seen through the sweats, basketball shoes, and hats.

What I found interesting is that the two Nigerian girls were often called out by American black girls for being "too white." Let me repeat that... The two girls from fucking Africa who simply dressed well were called out for being too white by ghetto American black girls.

RockinRhombus · 2014-01-13T12:27:36+00:00

White, 28

I have no problem in theory with tagging a black girl, its not that i dont find black girls attractive, its that most of them just aren't worth the drama.

I've only had 2, and in both cases they were aloof, arrogant, egotistical and downright rude. As a result they got nexted in short order.

And it goes for pretty much 90% of the black women ive met, its like they think that being unpleasant is some sort of character embellishment. And woe betide you if you try and game a black woman who doesn't fuck white guys (most black girls, but males having racial preferences is racist, sexist and misogynistic, natch)

I've wondered if perhaps some of their unhappiness comes from their cock carousel riding being less effective.

Black guys prefer white or asian girls because they're less drama and more submissive, and black girls arent attracted for the most part to anyone but black guys. So they're boned. Somewhat.

_Reticent_ · 2014-01-13T13:31:39+00:00

Seems like a destructive cycle when viewed from afar.

Some single black women have the mentality of a "strong, independent woman". If one just so happens to have a child, and the father be absent, they will view their mother acting that way and emulate.

The emulation of the 'hard' characteristic results in a lack of femininity. Reasons for could be a mixture of 'femininity is weak', or 'femininity is for white girls', or the fact that mother has to play father in some respect.

The above, mixed with the media message and constant affirmation that is quite okay for them to act this way, results in a "that guy isn't right for me" mentality, rather than any form of introspection.

Viewing femininity as a white-person trait is going to end badly. IMO, black men have more RP game because of having to deal with these women, but as soon as they get the better offer (of feminity) elsewhere, they will go.

I've been thinking recently that the true source of an 'unattractive' feeling is the frame from which an act comes from. If a woman is acting masculine to/at a man, her feminine frame will conflict with her masculine persona, therefore she is viewed as unattractive (or at least the act causes incongruence, and is therefore unattractive, which passes on to the person). If a man is acting in a feminine way, he is portraying a feminine trait from a masculine frame and is therefore felt to be unattractive. Of course this is more true for sustained, or predominant behaviour rather than specific one-off examples.

Kombaiya · 2014-01-13T14:11:17+00:00

I watched Chris Rocks documentary on Afro Hair, called "Good Hair" and I couldn't believe how much time/money/toxic chemicals many put on their hair. If it isn't afro then it's had a lot of work.

He was talking to men in the barber shop about it's not really worth getting a black woman because they spend over $3,000 on her hair every 6 months and they expect the man to pay. Fuck that shit.

I couldn't handle someone that takes so much time on their looks, it's shallow. The stupid thing is that afro hair can look fucking hot.

DominumNegros · 2014-01-13T16:06:04+00:00

That's like an STD filter. 50% of black women have genital herpes.

http://sandrarose.com/2012/11/medical-minute-1-in-2-black-women-has-herpes/

http://www.reuters.com/article/2010/03/09/ps-herpes-usa-idUSN0923528620100309

http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/gender/women/facts/index.html?s_CID=tw_STD0131198

At some point in their lifetimes, an estimated 1 in 32 black/African American women will be diagnosed with HIV infection, compared with 1 in 106 Hispanic/Latino women and 1 in 526 white women.

African-American women have Chlamydia rates that are more than seven times higher, Gonorrhea rates that are about 16 times higher, and Syphilis rates that are 21 times higher than white women.

http://imgur.com/RzEZAqT

http://womenshealth.gov/minority-health/african-americans/stis.html

le_king_falcon · 2014-01-13T12:17:21+00:00

The american black stereotypes are often over generalised but they are often incredibly close to home.

Fact is black women can be absolutely smoking. Mixed race girls like the OP in that thread can be some of the hottest women full stop.

Fact is American black culture and "its strong independent women" is just a foreshadowing of what feminisms end game looks like. And its fucking disgusting for all parties involved.

Olipyr · 2014-01-13T14:59:14+00:00

I'm white/Native American. I've never had an American black girl. I've had an African-American girl(actually from Africa) and a mixed girl.

Both were very feminine and loved the cock. The African I was fucking literally would fucking growl at me. Fucking hottest thing I've experienced, and she was tight as fuck.

I'm not sure what it is with the American blacks.

pcadrian · 2014-01-13T13:30:50+00:00

Black women's main problem is that they aren't feminine.

Can confirm. And it's not just in the U.S. One of my exes was black and French.

Skeettime · 2014-01-13T18:34:58+00:00

I'm Black and 26(soon to be 27) and I don't even bother trying to date black women. I'm attracted to black women (big weakness for half black, half white) but they've become so masculine that its not even funny. What makes it worse they seem to think that acting more masculine will bring more guys to them. Some of these bitches actually tried to take over Father's day. Really? Its straight up crazy bullshit.

Now, a lot of black guys just put up with their shit because they don't have options. Once they leave their environment and start dating outside their race its hard for them to go back because they realize that other women haven't lost their femininity as much black women (who quite frankly thrown it away) and they're attracted to it. No black girl I dated ever acted feminine. Wouldn't cook, wouldn't clean, no favors, nothing. Meanwhile I got white girls making me baked goods, Latina girls bringing me drinks and food and my ex (Asian) would offer to rub my shoulders or straighten up my place. The funny thing is a lot of this stuff would happen before I started dating or fucking them and I wouldn't even ask them to do it.

So yeah until black women learn how to be feminine again I'm done trying to date them. My grandmother used to say that there's going to be more black men dating outside the race not just because the times are changing but because younger black women today think they can be both genders. She was right.

purecyse · 2014-01-13T14:36:38+00:00

As someone that dates black women pretty much exclusively, they have to be broken down and taught to be those things that you want. So, in essence, you have to see qualities in them worth working with and then mold her into what you want her to be.

That said, it's not worth it. It can't be worth it due to the time/ hours of your life it takes just to get her to step 1: You're a young lady, be feminine.

And even when they're broken, the shit test given out gives off a feeling that either she HATES that she loves you and/ or she's just not comfortable submitting to you to this degree.

_Fony_ · 2014-01-13T14:38:06+00:00

pretty true. most of the black women i date are from africa, jamaica, haiti, etc. because they tend to be able to act and dress like women. one divergence for me, i do love braids and "frizzy" hair.

i pretty much never mess with a black american girl unless i meet her at the gym.

caius_iulius_caesar · 2014-01-13T18:33:12+00:00

In black culture in america WOMEN are actually dominant in households/communities. A lot of times men are seen of as evil and untrustworthy (due to some men not being there in a parenting role and leaving it to the women) and children (both male and female) are raised to see women as strong and independant much more so than men.

7Vega · 2014-01-14T00:56:57+00:00

I don't want a strong black woman. I want a HOT black woman.

This pretty much nails it.

rob_bass · 2014-01-13T18:35:49+00:00

The bad thing about black women is that they confuse strength with antagonism. Hip hop culture doesn't help them either. The songs often times celebrate promiscuity and hypergamy. Then they get these fucking tattoos everywhere like men and think they can still bag an high quality mate. So when they're done riding the cock carrousel there will be two extremes. Either they'll have to settle for a low life who fucks them good or they would have hopefully been knocked up by some athlete or rapper. The guys in the middle would have probably already settled for a more feminine woman of another ethnicity. That's when they start clucking that shit about "There aren't any good black men out there" This is only one example of the type of black women I'm around. The educated ones have issues too.

BloodMoney1 · 2014-01-13T21:02:40+00:00

Black guy here and that attitude kills me every time. Raised up very country(saying yes Sir, no sir, ty etc) First time I went to a all black school. A black girl walk's up to me and said "Dang why you so white? ”

CptDefB · 2014-01-13T14:07:16+00:00

Black, 29, can confirm.

It'd odd watching girls idolize Chris Brown, then chase white guys... makes me think the only way to get them is to punch them in the eye. Often times, they way they act, makes me want to punch them in the eye. I might be on to something, but I'd rather not have the cops beat me my rights over some ho.

Alphadestrious · 2014-01-13T11:09:01+00:00

Yeah I can see their reasoning. However, I have seen some extremely good looking black women, half-black women who are actually pretty feminine and smart and that makes them so much more gorgeous. But for the most part they tend to gravitate towards masculine energy, maybe because of how they were raised and other external factors.

Disclaimer: I have yet to chop a black girl. One day perhaps.

SnowCrabThunderDick · 2014-01-13T15:19:45+00:00

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Raknarg · 2014-01-15T04:36:08+00:00

ITT: deep speculative insight, and every black person is the same

heist_of_saint_graft · 2014-01-13T13:57:25+00:00

here's the thing. black culture is almost isolated with in american culture. even with the "strong black women" thing, black men are not conditioned at a young age with the blue pill mentality. that's why so many women love black men. they were never told "you have to treat a woman like a princess" as kids, they just do what they want.

black women on the other hand get the short end of the stick in all aspects of life. first off all they are women, and then they are a minority. that coupled with the over all poor ( financially and lacking of ) social nature of that subculture, they are pretty close to the bottom of societal rankings.

2014-01-13T23:39:27+00:00

As a resident black women fan, I think this guy is drawing his world view from a small sample pool. I used to live in LA, there were TONS of sexy as fuck black women in the clubs. They had many of the problems club girls had, but they were certainly feminine. I grew up in a fairly ethnic area too with lots of 1st and 2nd gen carribbean black women, and they were very feminine as well when they tried to be. Black women is a broad term - this guy seems intent on focusing on "black tomboy athlete women" and using that to claim that black women aren't feminine.

Black women just shit-test harder, that's the only commonality I've noticed. They shit test hard as fuck, like if you are not a man, they will weed that shit out of you immediately. I think that's why they come on masculine - they want to see if you will man up and shove them in a feminine role.

Unfeminine women are a societal, broad problem that extends to all races. Black women have a lot of unfeminine women, yes, but the black women who wind up remaining feminine, are often extremely so. After all, most African / Carribbean cultures put a heavy, heavy emphasis on female submission to a male, and this cultural baggage stays with them.

In this regard, "non-Westernized" black women reign supreme. But this is the case with all women. Typically if we take two white girls, one of whom grew up in NY to hyper liberal parents who let her to what the fuck she wanted, and one whose parents grew up in Prague and migrated to the US, the latter girl will be a lot more pleasant and feminine. Black women are no different - typically the ones who grew up slightly outside of western bullshit culture will emerge as feminine, quality mates.

LasherDeviance · 2014-01-13T20:07:38+00:00

I was in that thread with him. We went back and forth over pm. I introduced him to the pill. Hope he swallows.

MasterGolbez · 2014-01-13T16:30:41+00:00

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fermbetterthanfire · 2014-01-13T19:36:58+00:00

This is definitely an African American standard, particularly on the eastern seaboard. I've known numerous black women that accept the social pressure to feminize, sew in wigs, extravagant make up, and "white girl voices".

Also, nothing feels more alpha than roleplaying "Plantation". Try it.

IIHotelYorba · 2014-01-13T23:04:48+00:00

I'll be honest with you guys, I don't get the "feminine" thing I see on here so often. Don't get me wrong, I don't begrudge anyone at all, we all like whatever traits we like.

But I kind of have the mindset of, they're all girls under there. And I talk to every woman like that, young and old, and they all fall into my frame just the same. I actually really get off on it.

Things like taking a tough girl and pushing her face down into the bed. How she struggles to lift her ass up to meet my dick even though it cranks her back at a fucked up angle and she can't really even breathe. Or making her verbally beg me to put my dick back in her. This is how much she actually wants to submit to the right man.

There's just something so elementally feminine about it, and irrevocably feminine about them. This is the way it has gone for me with all kinds of "bad bitches," including lesbians. They may have all kinds of dumb haircuts and clothes, but I don't give a shit when they have a nice cute face and a good little body under all that BS. I mean, you're not some kind of different thing just because you have all this crap stacked on you. You're a girl. It's like putting a sheet over an elephant. Dude we all know what the fuck is under there.

People are often surprised that these girls who are otherwise ferocious are these sweet little kitty cats around me. Well yeah, that's the point. She tries to tell you what to do and asks permission from me.

infapwetrust · 2014-01-13T23:35:10+00:00

Dont mix the races

Title	Black man explains why he doesn't prefer black women. His line at the end is golden and applies the feminists as well.
Author	The_BitterTruth
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Date	January 13, 2014 10:27 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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