Good evening, my fellow degenerates and shitlords.

When I was younger, and even as recently as 3 years ago, I would often make the mistake of believing women could, and wanted to be "saved".

I use to think that I could save women from themselves, from being a whore, from abusive or unappreciative men, from depression, from low self worth, from all types of things.

When I was a freshman in high school I lost my virginity to another freshman, a cute blonde cheerleader. We were both 14 years old. After about a year of dating we broke up and she became a huge whore, as in she fucked over 20 different guys by the time she was 16 years old. We got back together and I thought I could "save" her from being a whore. I thought I could save her from all the guys that just used her for sex and treated her like shit. I thought I could save her from her abusive step-father. I thought I could save her from her depression, from her low self esteem, from everything.

The thing is, she could not be saved because she did not want to be saved. She kept whoring around, she kept doing all the things she claimed she hated and wanted to change.

Fast forward a decade. I meet a girl in law school who I put on the highest pedestal to ever exist in this world. She is beautiful, petite, fun, nice, the whole package. We start dating and I learn she road the CC really hard in college when she was in a sorority. I learn her old boyfriend abused her emotionally and physically. I learn she has really low self esteem. I learn her parents and sisters think she is a whore and want her to find a good guy to settle down with. No problem, I think to myself, I can save this unicorn from everything. She wants to be saved, she just has never had a guy like me ready and willing to save her.

Her family loved me and how I was a stable and upstanding young man. I told her how beautiful and perfect she was, trying to save her from her low self esteem. I told her riding the CC in college is normal to try and save her from her self professed "self-loathing". I told her how her old boyfriends treated her was wrong and I would never do that. I told her nothing that happened in the past matters, all that matters is who she is now, what she does from this day forward; to try and save her from her own past. She talks about marriage and children. About how she wants to spend her life with me. About how she is so thankful that I came into her life and saved her.

Of course, we all know how this ends.

Don't save her! She does NOT want to be saved!

AWALT