The Cast and Setting

HB8, young, worldly, educated, conceited red_philosopher, argumentative, arrogant old man Local coffee shop

How It Started

Met HB8 on a dating app. Moment one, she challenged everything about me. She is a shark gents. Asked her for her number, she gave me a line about being the best, said I'd settle for 10 digits. Laughed, got the number, set a date knowing I had to reschedule, and, rescheduled it. We only have a couple of hours, but it was worth it.

How It went Down

An hour before we're supposed to meet, she tries to flip the script and suggests coffee instead. I agree, not a big deal, and pick a local place nearby. She follows up suggesting something else, and I tell her that it's too late, and we should meet where we agreed and if we want to do something else, we'll decide from there. She apologizes, and we meet up.

An HB7 at the coffee shop compliments me on my shirt, and we have a short conversation before HB8 walks in. HB8 also compliments me on my shirt, and I tell her that HB7 really liked it as well (Later, HB8 tried to put down my style, which was funny). We get to talking, and I never met such resistance. She tried to put me down, disapproved of my life choices, you name it. I handled them differently, from staring silently at her, to A&A, to expressing disappointment in her behavior. I made a few mistakes in engaging with her behavior sometimes, which resulted in a very hot&cold experience. The IOIs ranged from her talking about her education and experience, to playing with her hair and what not.

Ultimately, (this was the aha moment), was she just wanted someone to take charge of her and direct her. As we're leaving, she tries again to make me worship her (by dangling the carrot of her pussy in front of me) but I tell her I have better things to do than that. She opened up completely afterwards, her shit-tests stopped, and we made out before splitting.

Lessons Learned

Always be in charge. Women don't want manginas. They want cocks.

Never argue and hold frame. You are in control, she adds to your life or detracts from it. Everything she does is inconsequential.

You. Are. THE PRIZE. Always be aware that she's just another woman doing what women do best. Testing us and making us stronger. Remind her that she's not the only one.