TL;DR: screen for unicorns; marry, kids; AWALT; beta = no sex; alpha, dread, willing to walk = lots of sex

Sometimes I see talk here about dropping the plates, finding a low count sweetie, settling down, and having kids. I'm posting my story about this, not to say you should do any of this, but to tell you the shit that went down and let you draw your own conclusions or see mine above. I'm writing for guys, this will be crude and condensed, and I'll use some trp terminology even though this pre-dates it.

After some years in the bars/clubs/party scenes having fun and getting wasted I wanted to have kids, the house, wife I can talk to, family. Wanted a wife who was naturally attractive (so my kids would be good looking), smart (so my kids wouldn't be stupid), moral, hard working, and low count. I figured that was about 1 in a 1000, and had never met one like this in bars/clubs. To hunt this unicorn I went out to social events, art shows, concerts etc. and approach, approach. Did not approach if she was artificial pushing up her SMV (such as fuck me heels), or wearing a resting bitch face. Dismissed if talk showed stupidity, no common sense, or a closed mind, and this meant I was dismissing a lot. A lot.

Finally I meet the unicorn. Running old school pick up, in a few dates we are fucking like bunnies. I must be super special right, the low count (1) picked me? No, she had gotten fed up being Miss Goody Two-Shoes following her mother’s rules. Took me to a family gathering after some weeks, then kept me away from them for months. I take her to my fav raunchy club, but she is too prim and proper to fit in even though she feels she is letting loose, she likes that she is with some sort of bad boy. Still lots of sex, fun, some arguing as she is getting more uptight, I give her a key to my place. At about the six months mark, I fuck another woman, get home, she's there, fuck her. She likely picks up on this, as she then goes on a couple of dates with another guy that she has to tell me about ("nothing happened, it was just a date, we are not exclusive"). Low count, morals am I reading this right? Turns out to be a jealousy shit test. She moves in, hates that women call me to talk about stuff, cut that back.

Put a ring on this? I love her. She is highly active, volunteers with children, educated, cute, world class booty, no saggy tits, tight cunt and scared I’m going to run off with another woman. I rate her 10/10 as a potential mom, 7/10 as a wife, and but only 5/10 as lover, as there is a lot of refusal to anything not vanilla. Her love is not unconditional, there's stuff she will not do for me, and it is a judgmental, demanding love, she wants a man with a job and a plan, and I have that. Still she is a fucking unicorn, we get married and have the couple of kids. I settle into the husband/father role as I've seen it, no more bad boy here. She loves the kids, and now she is 10/10 mom, 5/10 wife, and 1/10 lover, her desire for sex has vanished even though I had the V because after very hard childbirths she is scared of getting pregnant. I do the recommended crap, candles, massages, date nights, watch porn together, do more housework, marriage counselling, but nothing. Her natural state is sexually regressed, that is why she was low count.

I got a non-fucking unicorn at home, time to hunt for pussy. I get back into shape, dress better, social, flirt more, and I’m moving up at work, and I’m more distant to my wife. My wife gets her sexual desire back. So I let things slide, and her sexual desire goes away. So I get back ready to pussy hunt, and my wife notices pussy is hunting me, and her sexual desire comes back. Soon at work events with my wife, I’m deliberating introducing her to women that have the hots for me (they tell my wife “he is such a great guy”). I tell her about women I work with, and which ones I think are so smart and cool. More sex from the unicorn.

The kids have turned into nasty teenagers (they like to party, where they’d get that from), and I’m passing up pussy all the time. My wife’s sexual desire wanes again, she's bitchy, and I tell her I'm separating. She promises to change, and does, and her sexual desire explodes, the idea that I could leave her at any time makes her angry and but it mostly makes her hot. Multiple organisms all the time, she masturbates all the time, when we are out we are obviously a highly sexed couple. Women flirt constantly with me, men flirt constantly with my wife. Then some usual shit of life and health complications but that's for another story. Feel free to ask questions or make critical comments.