Full article: http://illimitablemen.com/2014/01/14/mans-burden-the-feminine-conundrum/

My newest article as usual is a long one, except this time I've gone to the trouble of summising most of the major points for you:

  • Never be dependent on a woman for her love.

  • Do not convey too many significant weaknesses to a woman, for it shall instill doubt into her about your value as a man and destroy her attraction for you.

  • Women don't love us in the way we love them, they love differently and thus expecting from her what she expects from you will doom you to failure.

  • As soon as any of your weaknesses are made abundantly clear she will begin to feel disenchanted and this will cause her to start a process of weighing up her options.

  • You will feel it is your duty to fix her emotional issues as will she, this is an unspoken agreement, however the reverse is not true (in LTRs, obviously not one night stands et al)

  • Women are great at saving face and even better, believing earnestly in their own bullshit, their reality and position on things is in a constant state of flux (they're not credible.)

  • Women are not bound by honour - it is a male abstraction.

  • Many men underestimate the power of the feminine, that which is the allure of the submissive and fail to understand the inherent control and influence that this has upon you. They are not weak, their power is just non-tangible, ad nauseum: Men love to play this game of convincing themselves that they're in control in their relationship with a woman when in fact they are falling slowly into her grip.

  • Those who think relationships are not war (due to their conflictual nature) are naive.

  • You are maintaining the war and optimally do so that it balances in your favour, however victory is prohibited, for winning the battle means losing "her love", love is metaphysically a state of constant conflict, without conflict, there is no love, without conflict there is boredom, passionless.

  • The beauty is in the game itself, not the outcome of the game. If you don't enjoy the game, you cannot take the lead in it. (Applies to everything, not just women.)

  • She will always put herself before you.

  • You are not special to her as an individual, your strength and power is what causes her to be attracted to you, nothing more, nothing less, ad nauseum: women do not love you, but the idea of what or who "you" is.

  • They are incapable of loving you in the way in which you idealise, the hierarchy of sacrifice is men > women and women > children of either gender, it does not operate in reverse and your expectation that it should is futile. This is also why the idea of gender equality is perverse as the expectation of sacrifice is not and cannot be equally distributed among people regardless of their genetic identity much to the dismay of western idealism.

  • You are completely disposable to women.

  • Men are humanity's true romantics (sacrificial love - male is more intense than utilitarian love - female) hence man's deeper mourning for lost lovers of days gone by.

  • The bottom line in all elements of life is VICTORY or FAILURE, relationships are no exception.

  • Realise the limitations of womankind, accept them.

  • A man is always truly alone, there is nobody "higher up" for you to depend upon, you're the end of the line, in the absence of a belief in God.

  • Every man has a burden he must carry, none of you are exempt.