Mother Just Confirmed TRP

whitesocks2000 · 2018-07-02T01:42:22+00:00

My dad always says if it has a pussy or a motor on it, then it’s gonna give you trouble

LotBuilder · 2018-07-01T19:46:55+00:00

The day you realize AWALT is a sad day. Sucks to learn about your mom or sister but it’s better than learning it about your (ex) wife after you gave spent a decade plus treating with kid gloves. After the break up and me being a complete red pill asshole to her for a month, she was on the one walking on eggshells trying to please me. She was a typical late 30’s post wall (still cute but fading) chick with two kids trying to “get her groove back. She gets pumped and dumped a few times and tries to come running back. I hate fucked her then laughed in her face. She is facing the reality that 37-42 year old guys want to date 30 year old girls with no kids. I told her if she wanted a nice beta bucks ass kisser she would have to date a 50 year old. She broke down sobbing. She sees the girls I am running around with and Hates her decisions. I hate myself for ever being the guy that put up with that shit.

kurdishpower01 · 2018-07-01T19:29:47+00:00

Yea. My mom had me by the chad college football player, who also happened to be an alcoholic, who magically become this "bad man" one day. This is an experience that will help you recognize men and women are different on a psychological level. Never go to women for advice. My mother still denies her fault in being a single mother.

ariky · 2018-07-01T19:53:48+00:00

At least you are not the kido of the betabilly. Your dad is an alpha so your chance is high too

Olongapo · 2018-07-01T20:11:07+00:00

For the OP: This is a blessing. World-shattering and painful but a blessing nonetheless. The point is not to get or stay angry, but to seek a greater understanding and subsequent mastery of human mating strategies.

One of the most common themes harped on here is about self development....not to get more pussy...but to make yourself your mission. Re-read "Mental Point of Origin" at The Rational Male and glean more from the sidebars regarding frame. Everything else falls into place and remember that hypergamy is a feature, not a bug. It's hardwired in there and there's no point in getting pissed.

VillagersUnite · 2018-07-01T21:45:09+00:00

Reading stories like this makes me think about my own mom. I remember my dad telling me he was miserable, wound up cheating on her, and they got divorced. Growing up under her for the first 12 years of my life I knew she was a hard ass black mother, very damn stubborn, but still she loved me and disciplined me whenever I fucked up in school. Sent me to live with my dad at 13 and said I need to learn how to be a man from the man himself. She made the right choice. I think currently this is the hardest pill for me to swallow that even my own mother has more than likely done some shit all these other women have done. But she's also done some things I can respect and love her for.

baigish · 2018-07-02T02:06:05+00:00

Guys. Don't hate women for hypergamy. It has been part of the species for millennia. To hate women is to hate yourself. Women are the way they are for evolutionary reasons. Mankind didn't evolve they way we are so that we can be happy. We evolved the way we are, so that we can be biologically successful. Happiness is not a biological concern. Happiness is a concern of post industrial society and only in developed countries.

Thotwrecker · 2018-07-02T03:21:03+00:00

Listen to this. True shit. Most of your beloved single mothers just tried and failed to keep a Chad, and then demonized the dad to you, when really he's just a good dude who wouldn't put with your mommas shit.

Imadeathtrap · 2018-07-02T05:41:14+00:00

Actually i discuss TRP with my mother regularly and she encourages it. Wants me to enjoy myself and encourages dating multiple women at once. She says "i did the same and dont regret it one bit" (referring to dating multiple men). I never had more respect for her than when she told me to just focus on myself and admitted women are hypergamous and that she learnt it during nurse psychology training.

SKRedPill · 2018-07-02T05:16:44+00:00

And she'd have left him if he'd become betafied as well. These are a subset of women where the only thing they want is more power in the relationship. Probably an ego thing or an insecurity thing or both. These people are doomed to live in misery entertaining their imaginary ideas and fears.

The betaization process is a self fulfilling prophecy is some cases - insecurity over the idea of losing her man leads to sabotaging his SMV, which causes loss of attraction and ultimately losing the relationship. Basically the very thing she fears comes true, but not for the reasons she thought it would.

Mother in laws are another example of this kind of behaviour. Feminine fear and insecurity are self sabotaging. This is like destroying your car by crashing it yourself so that someone else won't wreck it for you - this is a classic irrational pain avoiding behaviour. The result is that you no longer have to fear losing your car, but now you don't have a car at all, so soon your needs will compel you to get another, maybe a better model. But the tendency within you is still there.

I hate to say it, but your mother isn't at all worth an LTR. As a guy, your father's absence and the presence of these women will hurt your growth as a man. You don't start hating yourself, all men must go through getting hit by a bolt of Red lightning.

The day you realize AWALT is a sad day alright - not only do you realize the nature of our reptilian brain instincts, you also realise how compulsive they are and how easy it is to get addicted on them in modern, comfortable times. By removing all constraints on their pleasure indulgences, modern women are utterly obese both in their bodies and in their heads.

MattyAnon · 2018-07-01T22:16:27+00:00

Of course I still love and respect her because she's my mom

Yeah, the respect thing might not last.

OfficerWade · 2018-07-01T23:27:26+00:00

My backstory is a LOT like yours. My mom was living alone for years, her upbringing wasn’t pretty but she didn’t have anything to offer that she didn’t have so we were poor in health both physically and mentally but we were loyal to our mom because really she cared, she was there when no one else was and always made miracles on the holidays. Was it really her fault? We’re all given the second chance in life when we grow and realize none of that stuff mattered. We can be the man our father wanted us to be.

There’s no one to blame. I think that’s the key here when we blame them we still feel the pain, if we blame ourselves it’s usually repressed and probably make our needs met in ways that aren’t healthy, sex marathon, drinking, leaving our jobs, etc.

BillyRedRocks · 2018-07-01T22:44:43+00:00

AWALT really does mean AWALT. Now you know even your mom falls into this category so you shouldn't have a reason to think any other girl on the street/in your bed would be different. You don't need to respect your mom to love her I think so nothing needs to change. Good luck.

batfish55 · 2018-07-01T20:56:49+00:00

Of course I still love and respect her because she's my mom

Just because she squeezed you out does not mean you're obligated to respect her. Respect must be earned.

Helpcalculus · 2018-07-02T12:37:38+00:00

The obsticle has become the way.

ozaku7 · 2018-07-05T17:23:23+00:00

It happens that women call men abusive assholes to relieve the frustration but actually feel different about them. It's just an internal battle of feelings, desire and emotional self-protection. So don't take everything that women say serious, as context is very important in female communication and they never tell you the context explicitly. You should have been there to understand it.

-Vice_ · 2018-07-02T04:02:28+00:00

This is sad and true. Also, the belief that you only get shit tested by the women you are not related to and can have sex with is stupid. Every women shit tests you for different things. I have had a lot of them from my cousin sisters and one even from my own sisters. They were checking if I was man already to handle awkward and heated cases of argument with a person one can’t hit.

TheDevilsAdvokaat · 2018-07-02T10:55:59+00:00

Yeah....even for our mothers and sisters and daughters...

JamesP2018 · 2018-07-03T05:15:07+00:00

The redpill is just a praxeology, it isn't confirmed or falsified by one example, only made stronger or weaker as a theory. In fact it would be nice to get some NAWALT case studies to test various parts of the theory.

Pastelitomaracucho · 2018-07-03T06:27:39+00:00

I know TRP in its current conception is still something men keep hiding in public. We simply don't talk about it. However, women don't have to hide anything TRP.

This said, I have never heard a single man in my circles talking about these topics. Women... women just perfectly and openly talk about stuff we speak here all day: cheating, having dudes in the backburner, divorce raping their husbands... you just need to establish open, confident relationships with women and they will tell you all the "secrets" we talk about here.

Hyper_Sonik · 2018-07-03T18:03:53+00:00

Women always spin it to make it sound like the man is to blame. It's very hard to make rebuttals to their victimology and accusations. My ex" you abandoned your son" when reality is she is trying to be with "chad" and expects me to be a convenience to that.

ggggggggee · 2018-07-04T00:22:56+00:00

I know how you feel man. My dad is a beta bucks. Have a half brother who was from an alpha fucks. Always knew my mom was a hoe but gosh damn she is the definition of an AWALT. Glad I took trp and stopped my mom from Turning me into a beta. She hates me now lmfao.

xXSoroxXx · 2018-07-04T01:36:48+00:00

Interesting, growing up in a single mother household I heard the same thing from my mother about my dad. He's an asshole, unsupportive, etc. I'm going to see if I can track him down and have a conversation.

Almeidowski · 2018-07-01T22:39:50+00:00

What's TRP, LDR and AWALT (I guess A woman always loves testosterone) ?

Title	Mother Just Confirmed TRP
Author	crahliz
Upvotes	262
Comments	65
Date	July 1, 2018 7:24 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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