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To get to the point my little sister lives with me since about 4 months ago because my mom's house is not a good place for children, long story for another subreddit

Guy is doing a really noble thing here; he's taking care of his sister, which is something that their (presumably) single mother is too irresponsible to do.

My sister has chores that she has to do and she has additional chores that she does that earn her money for extra things like going to movies or for yogurt with her friends.

He's trying to teach his sister some responsibility and general house-keeping skills, as any parent or guardian would.

But from the beginning my sister has missed on doing some of her basic chores, cleaning her room, her bathroom, making her bed, vacuuming, and some kitchen stuff. My girlfriend was constantly doing it to pick up the slack and letting me know about it. I kept my sister home from some things she wanted to do with her friends and was even more mad that she would "lie" and deny she didn't clean her bathroom for example. I came home several times to find my sister outside playing with friends only to walk inside and find my girlfriend making her bed, or cleaning her bathroom.

Right, kids hate doing chores and will do anything to avoid them. Children shunting responsibility onto adults is nothing new or unusual.

My sister flat out started accusing my girlfriend of lying but not to her face, just privately to me.

Kids say the darndest things to get out of trouble, right? Still, she should be doing her chores.

Then on Saturday I came home after grocery shopping. I asked my sister to put away all the groceries in their right place. I had to run back to the store. I went in the back yard to grab some tools out of my shed that I needed to return to my friend on my way to the store. While I was on the phone with my friend from my backyard I could see my sister put away ALL the groceries. Then she got picked up by her friend's mom for a birthday party. I was in the back yard longer than expected and saw my girlfriend walk in the kitchen after my sister left and literally pull out all of the groceries from fridge, cupboards, and everywhere else and stuff it back in the bags. I wasn't sure what was going on, I was so in denial I guess that I didn't immediately figure it out. I actually went out the side gate and drove to my friends.

W-well, that's interesting. Maybe she's going to a friend's place to cook a big meal with all those groceries, r-right?

I was at his house my girlfriend calls me and tells me that my sister left to the birthday party and left all the groceries out everywhere in the kitchen.

... what the everlasting fuck?

I don't know why but I was so distracted that day that I didn't figure it out until I got the call. I have no excuse for that other than I had a lot on my mind last week. I briefly told my friend (M50s) about this. He was like "you have to break up with this girl" mad.

Guy takes a little long to put it together but whatever. His older RP friend sees the writing on the wall: this bitch is bonkers yo.

I confronted her after she was done but I can't even remember the reasons she gave me. I was dizzy from just pure disbelief. I know that groceries is not that big a deal but my head was just spinning as my girlfriend cried and told me she was just tyring to prove her otherwise valid point.

Hamster gonna hamst. How long do you think she would've kept up this ruse if not caught and called out? How far would she have taken it? If the man didn't budge on one issue, do you think she would've escalated the severity of the child's infractions? Fucking insane bitch.

I seriously don't understand this. The only plausible explanation for this woman's bizarre and abhorrent behavior is that the sister is not related to her. Not unlike a wicked stepmother, she is jealous of the fact that a man will spend any resources and time on a child that is not biologically related to her. She is so jealous, in fact, that she would much rather the sister live in foster care or with a meth-head mother than to have to share any attention from the man.

Absolutely fucking disgusting.

TL;DR: woman frames her boyfriend's 11-year-old sister for not doing chores because ... ?

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Edit: After typing this and reading it over it hit me way harder how insane this is. I just needed to put pen to paper and it de-cluttered me somehow. I'm more relaxed and see more clearly. I know exactly what I have to do, and want to do. Thanks for all the comments I didn't mean to sound so clueless.

He gets some clarity of thought from putting it into words. Boys, if you're ever stuck in a shitty spot with a girl or in life in general, you really should write it out and try to read it back to yourself as a third person observer. It's amazing how this process can illuminate things and reveal the best decision to make in that case.