I (M26) used to chase tail every week and be broke because of motel bookings. Week in and out I was just banging chicks until I barely had money to pay for my bills. Every single week. It came to a point where I had to beg off from hook ups because sex had become a bit boring and my dick was tired.

I’ve been reading RP stuff for about 2 years then.

That’s when I focused on going to the gym more, reading more, working hard at being the best in my industry. It was way more exciting to have long lasting accomplishment by building value for myself than adding more numbers to my notch count. It was like Arnold talking about the pump.

But doing that also gave me more access to pussy. And because I just had so many options, the feeling of even rejecting girls grew to be fulfilling too when before I would just put my dick in any type of crazy.

Choosing to be more productive and focusing on myself gave me power to say no to the act of sex and use that energy for building. Idk of that makes sense.

That phase of confidence really gave me so much clarity that it really changed my life and set me up to be even more successful, not just with girls, but life in general.