Red Pill Example Never let people walk over you

penguin_says_slide · 2015-02-07T14:44:51+00:00

I confronted him about out it later but he acted like it was nothing. I just dropped it because I don't even know if I'm angry at him.

This.

He dismissed it like it was nothing. If he had taken it seriously and and try and explain why he did it or apologize for being too harsh then she would know if she's angry with him or not.

chill1995 · 2015-02-07T12:33:22+00:00

Bet she and her husband fucked like crazy that night.

ihaphleas · 2015-02-07T13:30:13+00:00

And suddenly everyone loves a strong man who can tell a woman off when she's being a bitch...

IllimitableMan · 2015-02-07T14:43:20+00:00

My husband can have absolute cold running through his veins when he wants too. It's like a light-switch he can flip at any time.

A "good psychopath." (selective utility of ruthlessness etc.)

He also has a talent for seeing through people; he sees who you are, not the mask. Everything my sister had ever felt on the inside, he yanked it out and put it in her face. Her weight issues, her relationship failures, it's like he had a bullet-pointed list behind his back.

Machiavellianism.

Looks like one of the sheeple tried to play with one of the wolves and as such, got her coat torn to shreds. Don't come with your claws out when the only thing between you and your enemy destroying you is your assumption that the enemy operates on a reluctance to act.

Talk about a crab bucket mentality; trying to sabotage her own sister! What a bitch. Come now, that's not how you behave towards your family. I'm going to assume this little girl was never taught discipline.

FerrusMan · 2015-02-07T13:51:44+00:00

I found myself admiring the guy, what a great example of maintaining your own frame, and handling some pretty heavy duty shit testing.
Also a good example of leading your wife. A master at work.

He's also about to learn if his wife cares more about him, or her sister. Because he stepped up the alpha like he did, my money is she will pick him.

And yeah, like chill said they fucked that night.

Transmigratory · 2015-02-07T13:55:34+00:00

Fucking hell, feminism (which is synonymous with SJW, tbh) has made people demonise the term RP.

Look here, the guy did exactly what the RP tells men to do. /r/relationships praises him. Label it as a RP principle in the original post, we'd get a different tune.

seattleron · 2015-02-07T16:03:33+00:00

Best part was, when the wife confronted him later, he acted like it was no big deal, in turn so did she.

And it's stupid hamsteing that she thinks she needs to be mad at someone. Like, I have to feel a certain way, but I'm too weak to decide on my own.

If you don't "feel mad at anyone" let that shit go. Feelings aren't the end all be all of life FFS.

MisterMisfit · 2015-02-07T18:42:02+00:00

This man sounds exactly like me. What he has is both a gift and a curse, and it's incredibly effective to the point that I've irreparably damaged relationships with people because instead of putting them down nicely I calmly completely obliterated them. Be careful if you try this when other people are around because the things you say will make these people uneasy around you from that point on as they'd think that you're holding things against them and just faking the pleasantries the same way you had done against the person you've just destroyed.

Usually, it's just better for everyone to simply agree and amplify while wearing a shit eating grin.

babydocnorman · 2015-02-07T19:48:46+00:00

I have no sympathy for the sister and applaud hubby for his balls, but he could have used a better tactic. He went nuclear and eviscerated the sister when he didn't have to. He should have used humor and sarcasm to ridicule the sister, get the group on his side and get her to shut the f up, like comedians do to hecklers.

Problem with the nuclear option is collateral damage. Should only be used as a last resort. Now his wife and others who were at the party may just view him as a bully or asshole.

GimmyDemCookies · 2015-02-07T20:46:30+00:00

Dad is that you? Im proud

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fordmarkII · 2015-02-07T14:27:04+00:00

Age difference? Fuck that. I don't care how old I am or will get, I'm getting an 18-21 year old.

redpillbanana · 2015-02-07T17:26:12+00:00

I confronted him about out it later but he acted like it was nothing. I just dropped it because I don't even know if I'm angry at him. I'm in-between feeling like she deserved it, and feeling like my husband picked on someone much, much, much weaker than him.

She drew first blood.

Women often don't understand that you shouldn't talk shit to someone stronger than you.

NightwingTRP · 2015-02-07T13:54:06+00:00

The information in the story is far too sparse (not to mention it's written by a woman, and they have very selective memories without even realising it) to make any kind of judgement on whether this was a bully or a man holding frame and instigating punishment for ignoring his wishes.

thelotusknyte · 2015-02-07T18:23:16+00:00

I'd like to know exactly how this went down. Has anyone seen it posted?

mykonos_rm · 2015-02-07T20:51:49+00:00

Nice. How many guys experienced this sort of situation and wish they did this?

bitethepillowbitch · 2015-02-07T23:00:27+00:00

Hmm. The thing is, when women [can] perceive things this way, and respond this way, they're considered unfeminine or some such shit. Why is that?

Luyk3n · 2015-02-08T00:33:04+00:00

I am quite stoic but if someone is putting me down in my own house and Ill put you down

thereddespair · 2015-02-07T16:08:39+00:00

12 ain't that bad i guess. i wonder how the world outside would see this. the asshole insensitive man calling a woman a whore and fat shaming her into tears in front of family. oh the spin lol. she had it coming

LifeChoiceReflector · 2015-02-07T16:01:41+00:00

Wow! I want to be that guy! Could somebody please put in a hypothetical conversation about how this would have went down? Oftentimes, I know what to do in my head, but my tone and delivery comes out dead wrong, making me look like I'm arrogant, butthurt or a sensitive pussy. Some real world example would help a lot in orienting myself in the right direction.

King_of_Demons · 2015-02-07T19:21:39+00:00

I disagree completely that this is an example of holding your frame. If anything, he dropped frame and looked stupid. Red Pill teaches that adoration is the most important type of respect. Fear is not the type of respect Red Pill is about. (More on this at the end)

She left the room and the house crying, my husband made a self-deprecating joke to everyone else, and everyone just acted like nothing had happened as they seemed to just want to get past the awkwardness of the situation.

So you're at a small dinner party.. this guy gets too aggressive (on some single fat post-wall chick?) when she likes to talk shit (why is his wife hyping him up like a rapper?? "Ice in his veins", "like a switch, he becomes this this")

She makes a scene, he makes an awkward joke, the party dies. All they will remember from that party is that scene.

I know my husband, that wasn't a slip-up in anger. It was a calculated move, that he has been mulling over for at least the previous 15 minutes. I confronted him about out it later but he acted like it was nothing. I just dropped it because I don't even know if I'm angry at him. I'm in-between feeling like she deserved it, and feeling like my husband picked on someone much, much, much weaker than him. I also don't know how I'm ever going to talk to my sister again. I don't know who to be mad at, and I don't know what to do.

Look at how she writes about him.. like he's a sociopath. He's using cunning, calculated moves when really he's just some joker. She's scared of him. He's way older, controls all the money, and she thinks he's an incredible genius. He probably does have good game but he still lost frame.

Lashing out on the weakest in a group is not a perfect example of TRP. He could have easily slipped in a few remarks without causing a scene. It's not hard to make a clear point in a conflict between just two people.

It is called "holding frame" because you maintain a clear head, a strong presence, and command respect. You have to hold that standard no matter what happens. This was not holding frame, but breaking it completely.

ThoseFuckingSnakes · 2015-02-07T18:49:37+00:00

Great guy. No wonder he managed to get a wife 12 years younger than himself. Being alpha pays off.

Title	Red Pill Example Never let people walk over you
Author	ITRPer
Upvotes	254
Comments	107
Date	February 7, 2015 12:21 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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