RP wisdom. Keep it to yourself.

GayLubeOil · 2014-04-03T09:19:46+00:00

If you cant have open conversation with a man he is not your friend, just an acquaintance.

OKJaded · 2014-04-03T06:47:23+00:00

Meh. I talked TRP theory with a friend. Hes the tall silent type. Plays in a pretty successful band. Agreed 100%.

I would say if you do attempt to talk about it. Do it one on one. Dip a toe in the water first, then wade in slowly. Dont just cannon ball that shit.

TheStoneyVibes · 2014-04-03T06:01:13+00:00

Just introduced my coworker to TRP and he's slowly starting to regain control of his relationship. All is not lost cause you go ltr/marriage

mr_throwz · 2014-04-03T07:00:40+00:00

Plot twist: Your friend is her actual number 16.

Regnuvium · 2014-04-03T09:17:14+00:00

You have to be sublte about it. If you try to shatter the illusion they live in with a sledgehammer, they will most likely be very defensive. But if you subtly tap at their illusion, cracks will start to form, if not already there. Just keep subtly tapping these cracks, they'll get bigger and bigger as the blue piller starts to experience things. It will take first hand experience on their part to shatter the illusion, and the cracks make it possible.

2014-04-03T10:40:20+00:00

Well gauge the audience first, dayum. Don't just blurt out shit like some sperg.

I've actually turned some female friends over to the red side. A tactful approach - pertinent, eloquent, playful and you're set. If you don't set off any emotional mines, there's nothing to convince since most Rp theories are astute observations describing inconvenient facts.

newpopehere1 · 2014-04-03T08:43:52+00:00

nah i disagree share RP wisdom, one of my good friends actually visited this sub and was disgusted and actually mocked me. But i didnt react because I dont care. When you're comfortable in your own skin you dont have to react to others. Wisdom in all forms should be spread. But if ppl dont want to listen its their problem not yours. Also just because someone wants to get married doesnt mean they are gonna fuck up their life. RP actually accentuates marriage IMO.

inb4war · 2014-04-03T07:12:53+00:00

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aaron_the_just · 2014-04-03T14:59:21+00:00

If I'm in a male-only space I will share a bit more freely why marriage is a bad idea for most men, and even have talked a guy out of cohabitation (which tends to lead to marriage) before.

But if a girl's around? I'd just adopt a mysterious "I haven't met that one girl I know I've been waiting my whole life to marry", and get one of the girls to take me home and try to make me that guy.

TheIronViking · 2014-04-03T13:15:55+00:00

I talk about shit all the time to my friends. I'm a good bit more experienced with girls than they are, so it helps coming from that standpoint. It's likely you just need to work on your delivery. I can talk about a guy's GF stuffing copious amount of dick in every hole while on spring break here on TRP, but not so much IRL. The message can be the same, but the manner in which it's delivered needs to be tailored a bit. My one close friend is just starting to take dating seriously and has gotten burned a few times. I have to take his sensitivities into account, and let him ease into it. Generally they sill listen if you don't go full blown cynical mode right off the bat.

That being said, I have written people off for clinging to BP shit for too long. I'm sympathetic enough to ease people into it, if I feel they are worth the effort, but I'm not going to hold their hand 100%.

whiskey_bearfist · 2014-04-03T15:37:37+00:00

i only really discuss it with people who ask, or are clearly stressed and searching for answers. its not for everyone. theres a good reason for all the matrix references around here.

alternatively, once you become effortlessly charming you can discuss this stuff openly with a feminist gender studies major and be fucking her later that night, provided she's hot enough.

but generally i agree with not putting this stuff out there in the mainstream. creates competition.

Sturmgeist781 · 2014-04-03T16:45:55+00:00

I said "why do the first 15 guys get to fuck the girl for free, but I have to pledge half my assets because I'm lucky number 16". He is engaged to be married, and was less than amused.

Maybe you planted a seed in his head. You never know.

stemgang · 2014-04-03T18:01:59+00:00

The thing with marriage is, that it no longer exists. Marriage was a bilateral lifetime irrevocable contract.

Now a man is permanently obligated when he marries a women or has children with her. That part has not changed.

But marriage has been redefined for women. They are free to leave at any time, for any reason. (unilateral no-fault divorce)

So men get to keep all the obligations of marriage, with no guarantee of reciprocation from the woman.

Sure marriage was not perfect before. But modern marriage does not even pretend to be anything less than a complete reaming of men.

RedBigMan · 2014-04-03T12:14:18+00:00

Redpill Wisdom should be dispensed sparingly. It's like medicine or drugs early on... a little goes a long way. You don't want to dispense enough to OD someone on their first dose. People's bodies will adapt at which point you change dosages to a higher dose or switch to a different medication.

2014-04-03T12:19:28+00:00

Casually mentioned that I either split the bill 50/50 with my dates, or get them to pay. He was not impressed and is now under the impression that I don't get very many second dates.

richardnorth · 2014-04-03T13:45:31+00:00

I think it's context dependent.

RP wisdom can be ultra valuable for a guy who is not yet married but who is considering it.

DarkSayed · 2014-04-03T14:42:32+00:00

My view is that I don't bring it up. If someone asks, then I tell them what I think.

However, this does not apply in the office. I just don't talk about stuff like this, it's best to keep things formal.

sir_wankalot_here · 2014-04-03T07:18:39+00:00

That is what reddit is for :-)

garlicextract · 2014-04-03T17:14:58+00:00

I don't understand why (beta) men would be anti-RP or find it repulsive. I mean, they're fucking betas and probably unhappy about the lack of women they get.

Similarly, it would seem as though alphas are living TRP and should be in agreement with it as well.

Can someone explain to me why so many men seem to find TRP abhorrent? I found it depressing but true the instant I heard about it.

gt35r · 2014-04-03T16:00:07+00:00

Believe I made a post similar to this, I got a lot of negative feedback lol. Since then I don't even bring it up, it's just a part of my lifestyle now. Eventually people will notice they aren't the ones getting bigger, or pulling more women, or generally being more happy with themselves. I keep my mouth shut when it comes to anything like this.

monkeylizard · 2014-04-04T02:53:57+00:00

Imagine for a moment that he enjoys her company.

johnnight · 2014-04-04T08:36:52+00:00

and [he] was less than amused. Lesson learned: save your RP nuggets

Sometimes I want to spill the whole brutal truth in their hostile little faces. Leave a turd of wisdom on their white living room carpet. Because it feels good, man. You can admit it feels good.

2014-04-04T13:20:11+00:00

"I don't like hazard" "We don't need a paper from government" "Marriage is dead says a lot of feminist writers ... what? You hate women or something?"

BluepillProfessor · 2014-04-04T17:30:54+00:00

I am a seemingly rare advocate of imparting Red Pill knowledge to the world.

However, that does seem a pretty harsh nugget of RP wisdom to an engaged dude. Couldn't you have softened it a little bit? Lots to discuss with the divorce laws without reminding him how his soon to be wife gagged on cocks before they met.

magx01 · 2014-04-05T16:47:52+00:00

I think if you would have softened your language it would have went better. I know that nothing you said is even "bad" but people are stupidly sensitive these days and have knee jerk reactions to non sugar coated truth. You have to be subtle.

New_Horiz0ns · 2014-04-03T12:43:06+00:00

Keep it to yourself. I can't agree more.

STFU, if people wanted to know about RP they would have know already.

harigeorgeson · 2014-04-03T12:02:25+00:00

Marriage aside, am I the only one who wouldn't be too bothered by a partner count like that depending on the circumstances?

Obviously <10 is preferable but if my count is 3 or 4 times hers, her number will seem small in comparison.

Title	RP wisdom. Keep it to yourself.
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Date	April 3, 2014 5:43 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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