Simple Text Game Strategy

Tosbor20 · 2018-03-01T17:27:12+00:00

Text game is the most unclear topic on TRP. So many polarizing opinions.

THROW_DIABETES_AT_U · 2018-03-01T16:41:31+00:00

There are times when this could technically work if the girl was really into you, but the majority of the time this is a quick way for the girl to lose interest in you and the messages will stop. You don't have to be constantly texting the girl throughout the day to keep her interested, but simply ignoring her will usually not help in the majority of cases. This is why things like snapchat are great, it's a quick way to let the person know that you're interested in them, but without the constant messaging.

w0mbat3 · 2018-03-01T15:01:48+00:00

Every time I read "advice" like that I think this has been written by someone who never texted a girl in his life.

I have texted and chatted with girls for literally hours and you know what happened next? They came over and we had sex.

Not texting usually means they stop texting you and you won't have sex.

Just my personal experience.

FuckboyAWALT · 2018-03-01T23:57:34+00:00

Can’t agree on that one. Especially younger girls will think your autistic as fuck.

Im not saying you should text her every minute or keep her warm, but playing it right via text unbuttoned me several pants.

OldSaul · 2018-03-01T16:35:59+00:00

To be fair whether it's from my wife or friend, I simply ignore texts like "you never guess what?" Or "guess who I saw today?"

Maybe due to the fact I'm in my 40's and didn't really grow up with having to converse every little bump in the road via a text.

Rollo_Mayhem3 · 2018-03-01T16:45:45+00:00

I use texting intermittently to keep women on the hook that I have not met yet... I have like 400 matches on tinder and I am talking to say 20 girls at once and I can't meet them all at once, if I were to do three dates a week..the final girl would wait about 7 weeks to see me...in that time, I have to keep there interest a bit (a lot)...periodically texting between long silences...helps to keep them interested.

So for example:

The context was she was like "how was your day..." I mentioned something about getting home from work and what does she do...blah, blah. I knew I had to steer the convo to sex, that's always my goal so:

Her: ha, my mother taught me really well (she is referring to something she does in her profession).
Me: I have a few things I can teach you (wink)
Her: its getting hot in here..tell me more.
Me: well that would require hands on type of demonstration...
Me: I throw in a sexual innuendo which I can't type here because it was very specific and you never know...but it could be that "you need to be really good with your hands..." or mouth or lips or whatever...
Her: hahahah

then I drop the convo until I am ready to meet up with her...but every now and again, if she texts me or I might text her, the convo has sexual undertones to keep the tension and anticipation brewing...

If you are on tinder to fuck then you need to make that fairly clear but not overt..so innuendo is what you use..or being suggestive but not explicit...

AlexDr0ps · 2018-03-01T16:34:33+00:00

This is not good advice. Obviously, don't be a needy bitch over text and send paragraphs back and forth, but you can still be a normal person. "Why haven't you talked to me today?", "I was at the gym/work/class". Did you have to answer? No. But who gives a shit? You don't have anything to prove and ignoring her repeatedly is more likely to make her lose interest.

I've literally sent plates spongebob memes and gotten laid the next day. "Texting game" doesn't exist

RedPill_Swinger · Thu Mar 1 16:33:46 2018 UTC

This was written by a bitter 18-year old incel.

"how are you?"

"I'm not gonna text you back bitch otherwise I'll fall in your frame!" lmao.

BornShook · 2018-03-01T17:43:17+00:00

nah, just be brief with your responses. You should probably respond most of the time, in a semi timely fasion, but you don't need to have an elaborate response to everything she says, and you shouldnt go out of your way to small talk. I will also text game when Im not busy sometimes, but I will just opt to just give my bitches a phone call from time to time if Im trying to schedule a date or if Im bored.

1 really good tip: You cannot have an abundance mentality while texting unless you're litterally texting 3+ plates at a time. For real. My best time to game is when I'm sitting home alone on a thursday night for 4 hours. Check out how high your plates snap score is. Most bitches have over 100k snap score. Meaning that theyve sent and recieved 100k snapchats. I know a bitch who has 1Mil snap score. Mine is 50k and Ive had snap for 5 years. These hoes are likely exchanging messages with 15+ guys a day, so you need abundance. So if you're home alone on a thursday (or whenever), get comfortable, and start gaming. If youre text gaming 4 girls at a time, usually 3/4 will be duds, but whatever. You will be able to focus mainly on the one that seems most promising. So try it

__ManBeast__ · 2018-03-01T17:26:16+00:00

This is definitely an extreme. The next "logical step" would be to not talk to her at all. After all:

Every time you entertain such drivel, you are essentially increasing the chances of fucking up the frame the more you interact. Simple statistics.

So just never talk to girls! You can't fuck up the frame if you never interact!

Alternatively, don't text back to bullshit, just like you wouldn't respond in real life to it. If she's genuinely asking a question though, respond to it like a normal human would.

Duad-mib009 · 2018-03-01T21:39:20+00:00

I think texting like most interactions is about calibration

Needy/insecure bitches text more. Big ego/High Value bitches text less.

I personally think text is most effect is a bitch already met or at least knows of your value.

However I always maintain a few constants

•Never text back immediately • Never carry a conversation over mutiple days •Never intiate text mutiple days in a row •Never talk about what/where/who or why •Alway escalate in some form •Never talk about serious/negative shit •Never back down, never surrender

Texting is one of those intermediate skills that has too many subtleties for the newly unplugged. So if you can't grow balls and game girls successfully in person, don't try to game over text where they can't even see your balls

BlastCorporation · 2018-03-02T18:54:03+00:00

Agreed, I'd err more on the side of being non committal these days. Less is more.

Raknith · 2018-03-03T05:47:36+00:00

This is the only shit I don't believe here. Completely ignoring a person makes you seem like a fucking weirdo who can't communicate. Sure you don't have to text all night but I don't see anything wrong with answering their question.

Also as others have said, I have texted girls for hours and ended up having sex so idk.

red_matrix · 2018-03-01T21:18:51+00:00

If you met her online don't do this. Try to meet her IRL ASAP or she'll be choking on some other guys cock in no time. But if it's a plate or some gal you're dating, keep the texting to a minimum, but I wouldn't outright ignore her texts as she probably has someone else in the wings.

wokedaoist · 2018-03-02T00:55:34+00:00

Come on. If someone left something at your house you can tell them that, that's a purely logistical concern and not answering them is just a dick move.

atticusfinch1973 · 2018-03-02T09:54:30+00:00

The only thing you need to do with texting is don't text back immediately and don't text more than she does. Don't waste your time. But ignoring them isn't the answer either.

It's idiotic to think that you should avoid the main venue where people have conversations today. And god forbid you actually learn how to have a conversation properly and seduce her via text before you even meet so she's primed for the meeting. Then getting laid is 90% easier.

SimpleJacked · 2018-03-02T15:36:35+00:00

Your amount of attention including texting is based on if you have fucked her or not. Women aren't invested until you have fucked them. After fucking you withdraw attention. She should be chasing you.

The baseline of attention/texting should vary from girl to girl. You wouldn't reply to every girl the same even face to face. A pimp doesn't treat all his girls the same bc each is unique.

Yes AWALT, hypergamy, frame are TRP concepts. You apply these concepts fluidly in managing plates bc each is different. Rigid principles, fluid game.

HannibalBacara · 2018-03-03T03:19:39+00:00

Surely there's a good middle ground between being a beta holding 5 hour long text convos with her and literally ignoring every text she sends. Any girl under the age of 25 is gonna think you're autistic if you behave like that.

Probably 60-70% of my texts are logistics but not responding when she asks if she left something at your house seems a bit absurd. Especially when you could easily maneuver that into her coming over to "retrieve" it and banging her again.

Starfuckingman · 2018-03-07T23:30:54+00:00

I think that's pretty extreme. Unless like you're super good looking or she is super interested at you. And you're not gonna deal with women who are crazy for you all the time.

life_is_dumb · 2018-03-01T16:52:48+00:00

This is way too serious of a tone to take. But please go ahead and use it so it makes things easier for the rest of us.

TRP doesn't seem to realize you need to dangle a carrot for them to chase. You can't just be a boring, serious, dickface.

Kalidane · 2018-03-01T19:49:19+00:00

When you have the right mindset, the text stuff just works out.

Your choice to improve faking your text game or improving your mindset.

TunedtoPerfection · 2018-03-01T19:15:05+00:00

Again with the bullshit black and white explanation of a very grey area topic.

Really, never answer a woman unless it's "Come over at 8pm!"

It's simple, you have to realize you have very little power, if any in the text game. Any power you do have very quickly fades and in general a woman is receptive before she becomes a value leech. You as a man need to understand this, use it to your advantage(if you can, not all men can gain from text game), and learn to identify when your quickly fleeting power in this game has gone.

The honest fact of the matter is most men go for the number at the wrong time during the initial interaction or they settle for the number when they could have gone deeper initially because of fear, newness in the game, whatever. Doing this is what puts them in a position to be taken for the validation whore ride. When your put in this position, yes text logistics only.

If you make a strong, quick initial connection, texting a bit to deepen your connection is usually much better then texting only logistics. In fact I usually go hard with logistics only at first. This usually gets ignored or passed off. After a bit, I'll revisit the girl with a new conversation starter, it's usually at this time that I get the most success. I never even bring up the flake, they usually apologize for it in which it's all a no harm no foul response.

This works twofold I have found, first they know subconsciously that this is about sex. I always assume most my flakes are because the woman was nervous about my directness. That doesn't mean I text shit like: "You on my dick at my house at 8pm, wear slutty shit." But, I usually suggest a meet up that will definitely turn sexual with in 2 or 3 texts. My intentions of wanting a quick meet up haven't gone away, we both know that. But this whole new conversation is a great spin for the hamster to justify getting together with me. Now these are just very short, extremely flirty conversations, nothing long and drawn out. Yes this all eventually lead back to meeting up, but giving her a bit of value in "having a fling with the cute guy that gets it" for a few days goes a long way.

Just don't be the guy constantly reaching out without getting results(different then responses). If your trying to think of something to text her, you can texting her too much. Don't put much effort, though, or worry into texting. Remember you are reaching out to her, because you know she would gain from spending time with your. If she doesn't want that offer, then stop offering it.

WarmFireplace · 2018-03-04T14:38:00+00:00

While I agree with the 'strategy', this shouldn't be a strategy. It should be part of who you are. You should be so busy in your life that following this strategy is your only option if you want to get shit done.

Dominika27 · 2018-03-04T20:29:54+00:00

I'm not surpised if you don't fuck: men who use these strategies instead of considering women simply as people, are so terribly sad. Maybe the author of this strategy's a teenagers'magazine editor lol

zealanderx · 2018-03-01T20:51:59+00:00

But a part of this is just you yourself playing text games...

The girl doesn't need to respond immediately to your meet suggestion- that's just expecting her to have nothing going on and able to take her phone at any time.

Anything less than an acceptance to meet or a non-possibility but with a suggestion of meeting another time is going to get put on the back burner.

Title	Simple Text Game Strategy
Author	Dmva100
Upvotes	61
Comments	79
Date	March 1, 2018 2:47 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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