The Friendzone: A relationship arrangement between a man and a woman in which the man gives the woman his time, affection, and energy in hopes of receiving sex which is never reciprocated, and often has been made clear by the woman it will not be reciprocated.

Do you see the problem here?

It takes 2 willing partners to achieve this arrangement. Further, I believe that men whining about being friend zoned actually ADVERTIZE their friendzone potential when developing a frame with a woman. They do this by:

- Constantly being available for emotional validation

- Trying to qualify themselves to women on dates rather than escalating

- Being overly eager to give the woman their energy / money / time / attention.

I think they subconsciously BEG for it to happen without realizing it.

Of the plates (women I’ve fucked more than once) that I’ve spun over the years, 40% of them fucked on the first interaction, 50% on the second interaction, about 8% on the third. There are a few that I gave it a go for a 4th interaction, but very few was I successful with.

If you’re meeting up with a potential plate, give her your full attention when you are with her. Make eye contact. Get her talking about herself (she’ll try to qualify herself). Escalate. Flirt. Pick activities that you want to do.

But when you’re not with a woman that you haven’t been inside and she texts you, move the conversation toward meeting up. TRP says “only text for logistics” this is spot fucking on.

“OMG I had the craziest day!!!”

- Wild, so did I, come over tomorrow and tell me about it

“Ugh my friend is being annoying!”

- Hopefully she doesn’t rub off on you. Guess I’ll find out when I see you again

Or be busy and you won’t have time to respond to this.

If your in-person escalation fails and she says “I see you as only a friend”, that’s it. Without getting butthurt, end the interaction as soon as practical, and don’t show her attention again unless she requests it by flirting via text. Then move towards meeting her again.

“but this will seriously lower the amount of interactions I have”

- Yup. So prospect more. Swipe. Go out. Approach. Join a club where you’ll meet people. Repeating the beta behavior of being emotionally available in hopes of some round-about attraction generation isn’t going to work and you’ll just make yourself frustrated.

A redpill man never gets friendzoned. He either gets fucked or rejected.