Summary: One of the unpleasant truths of redpill is realizing how much women lie. But you can learn to navigate through her bullshit.

Doesn't it piss you off when you catch her in a bare-face lie? The cold chill runs down your spine when you realize EVERYTHING is a potential lie... You thought you were close and could trust each other. A guy wouldn't lie to his closest confidant, so why the fuck is she doing it?

Answer: It's in her nature.

Sure, she can tone it down, but the potential is always there. Whenever she's cornered, expect lies. Tears drama and lies are her primary ways of wiggling out of shit.

Thankfully, Redpill awareness is the antidote to her lies. What she says will reveal hidden truths if you understand how to decipher the undercurrent of her social and emotional context. Most women can read this context, most men can't.

She'll lie just for fun, to see if you're quick enough to catch it. She wants to know if you're gullible and easily mislead.

She'll lie for profit. If she can win with a lie ("I'm pregnant" or "He raped me"), she'll launch it. And she knows her lies will be easily forgiven both socially and legally. In our society, women can lie with impunity, and they know it.

If caught in a lie, she would claim she did it because she didn't want to hurt others... Another lie in itself.

She'll lie to feel better in the moment and protect/restore her state (emotional maintenance). She's consumed by insecurity and doubts, and will always seek emotional balm.

She'll lie to look better in the moment and protect her social standing (social maintenance). This is so pervasive that she doesn't actually see it as lying.

Red Pill viewpoint: "Social exclusion is woman’s primordial fear. More than anything else, a woman fears being cast out of the tribe.

"When a woman bad mouths you to a group to save face, it is a signal for 'team woman' to start a masquerade party. Every woman will either adopt the beliefs of the signaler, or feign disgust (wear a 'mask' if you will), to prevent being excluded from the group.

"She will only tear off her mask once she is in your presence and feels she is out of sight from those she seeks to maintain social standing with. This is why powertalk, hamster food, and isolating your target is paramount. It's for her, not for you."

Her tribal instincts make it paramount that she preserves and protects her self-image.

Red Pill viewpoint: "She constantly positions her words for social and emotional maintenance... If she feels cornered, she'll lie, cry or counter-attack to wiggle free. Whatever it takes.

"If a guy's value exceeds hers, she wants to cut him down a notch, especially as the relationship sours. She'll take the sting off her inevitable rejection and loss by positioning him as less worthy.

"If she senses a pending breakup, she'll look for a backup guy and be the one to pull the trigger. She wants the superior position of being the dumper, and avoid the social stigma of being dumped."

Through habitual lying, a woman develops strong PR skills. As with vanity-based marketing, she tries to package her words for maximum self-promotion (and self-preservation), not the illumination of truth.

Truth-telling won't score social points for her. In the public eye, she prefers pretty lies to toxic truths. For her, truth-telling is socially reckless and disrespectful.

She'll lie to tell you what she thinks you want to hear. It's like being in a perpetual job interview, she's always attempting to position herself in a better light.

The truth is flexible to her, not absolute.

She doesn't want you to be gullible enough to believe all the little lies she and other women tell. But she doesn't want you to constantly call her out on those lies she makes to preserve her social dignity.

When she tells you she doesn't care about the kind of car a guy drives, she cares. Otherwise she wouldn't have mentioned it.

Red Pill viewpoint: "In women's minds, facts are fluid, and they exist in response to - and in support of - emotions. They don't learn a fact and have a feeling about it - they have a feeling, and make up a fact about it."

She isn't so precise with language and rigidly fixated upon seeking truth. She prefers attractive illusions to harsh truths. She prefers fantasy scenarios to reality.

She'll use avoidance, diversion and 'trickle truth' tactics to allow her some wiggle room and plausible deniability so she can avoid direct accountability for her words and actions.

She doesn't see it as lying. She massages the truth to manage her reputation, relationships and emotional state. This self-preserving social management is so ingrained in the female psyche that a woman is barely aware of the pretty lies she tells. She's so immersed in her social matrix rituals, she doesn't realize the size of her integrity gap.

Maureen Rice explains, "We lie to protect ourselves from the judgments of others, and because sexual 'reputation' still matters more to women, whether we like it or not.

"But we also lie naturally and instinctively, as a way to manage and control our relationships, to protect our partners and our families, and to keep our options open.

"In fact, we lie so much and for so many reasons that often we don't even think of it as lying at all, but as 'relationship management'.

"Women are taught to lie from childhood. Those simple, altruistic lies such as saying we've had a lovely time when we haven't, that someone looks nice when she doesn't, or that we're delighted with a gift we don't really like, are just some of the small ways that lying oils the wheels of our social lives, keeps the peace, and makes other people happy."

I agree with her, except for the "taught to lie" part. Just another example of dodging responsibility. It's so pervasive, it's clearly in their fucking nature.

She'll lie to rationalize her shitty choices and behavior. And as long as someone else was leading her, she can avoid any and all accountability for her actions.

Red Pill viewpoint: "The rationalization hamster is an analogy for the thought processes used by women to turn bad behavior and bad decisions into acceptable ones to herself and her friends.

"When a woman makes a bad decision, the hamster spins in its wheel (the woman’s thinking) and creates some type of acceptable reasons for that bad decision. The crazier the decision, the faster the hamster must spin in order to successfully rationalize away the insanity."

She's also heavily influenced by the opinions of other women. For her, consensus equals truth.

She avoids contentious issues and justifies so she can further avoid any emotional burden such as guilt or remorse. Between the avoidance and the justification, there's little chance of seeing much truth.

Lesson Learned: Expect lies and you won't be fooled.

EDIT: Video link added.