Your Girlfriend WILL Cheat On You! Unless... [xpost from MRP]

simpleshadow · 2015-01-13T23:37:33+00:00

Self-improvement has got to be a personal vendetta against yourself. Internalize that. Don't become a lazy SOB. This is a lifetime journey.

The right women will always be attracted to the man that gives no shits about anything, but improving himself and the wellness of those in his sphere (creating value). If she's not attracted, she's the one at the loss. If she's not at a loss, then that's your fault—suck it up—you got out gamed and she won the hypergamy game.

Do these things your entire life:

Don't sacrifice yourself.
Have expectations and a moral code you adhere to and expect others to as well.
Hand out affirmations accordingly, but sparingly.
Succeed.
Be attractive—to everyone.
Increase your social influence.
Become a sex machine. Study sex. Practice sex. Be sex.
Use your sexual energy as fuel—don't waste it.
Have interests other than women and sex that fulfill your life.
Practice and excel at your talents.
Achieve a stoic outcome independent frame.
Exercise incessantly.
Live in the now.
Read—fill your brain with knowledge that others wish they had.
Reward others with your knowledge.
Stay one step ahead of your women: in-shape, knowledge, adventure, surprise, excitement, and intrigue.
Work harder than others.
Befriend other RP alphas.

You adhere to that and a woman has some tough decisions to make when playing the hypergamy game. Even her friends and family will fall in love with you. She's trading up? To what? Does she want to be gold digger? Shallow? A shame? A slut?

You've got well into your late 50s nowadays to attract women. Women? They have a window. Let them prove themselves to you while you prove your worth to them by creating value. Is that not fair?

Live for you. Don't give a shit. You can't go wrong and women will follow. The right one(s) will stick around.

Edit 1: Formatting.

Edit 2: Added this post to the main sub: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2sc7td/how_to_keep_women_around_live_for_you/

knitro · 2015-01-14T00:00:05+00:00

Be valuable - a good message.

Everything else? unnecessarily dire.

Remember any douche from RSD is selling a product, so any 'advice' is a sales pitch.

Effective sales will play on the target audience's insecurities, fears and concerns, but offer a way to allay them.

"Your Girlfriend WILL Cheat on you!" is stupidly declarative. Then they go on about all the dirty things sweet dudes like them will do to YOUR girlfriend because you aren't alpha enough.

It's designed to elicit a reaction from anyone who's had a gf cheat (read, most guys everywhere).

There's a difference between being vigilant and oblivious. For every dude that says her cheating came out of nowhere, there's wiser dudes who can point to obvious cracks and fault-lines in the relationship.

Not every relationship you enter will be doomed to end that way. Girls aren't insidious, they just have a foreign value system to men which leads to problems. Learn them, you'll learn to manage your relationships with them well. You'll know when to be romantic, when to cajole, when to pull back, when to be predictable, when to be spontaneous, etc. If you aren't having fun with girls, you aren't there yet.

"Live for Greatness"

You don't need a pep talk from two unemployed 'chodes'. If you do 'game' for a living, you're basically a charlatan relying on greenhorns whom you can sell the most basic things. How to get a phone number? If that wows you, my post will fall deaf upon your ears. This amateurism is one of the biggest turnoffs of current-trp for me, personally. Take someone like Rollo who has a successful career and writes as a 'hobby' dropping wisdom accumulated over years of actual experience. Infinitely more valuable. There's a reason the thread a few weeks ago about 'older players' was so damn popular.

A few realities:

If your looking for long term stability with a wider margin for error, date down. If you're willing to take chances and are prepared to be blown out, swing for the fences. The shots at the top are what makes life worth living. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

The further above your weight you punch, the more likely they'll wander. If you're a 6 you aren't holding that 9 down for very long, even with the world's greatest frame. I've been in with girls then lost out to NBA players - it had nothing to do with my game. Enjoy the ride, and cut your losses when they come. Improve your looks, your overall value, the smaller the gap the less likely she'll strike out for something better.

Sometimes there's nothing you can do about it - she met someone better (or maybe she's wrong). Either way she's done you a favor by clearing up the question of whether or not she's worth a long term commitment. How you handle it is all that's in your control. Cut ties, move on. Don't get back together. She made her choice, and it's final.

myTRPaccount · 2015-01-13T21:20:53+00:00

There is nothing you can do to stop a woman from cheating on you. I don't understand why this sub doesn't get it, but women cheat on alphas too.

makethemsayayy · 2015-01-13T21:19:12+00:00

See this sounds like a constant fucking pain in the ass. I'd rather keep up a fucking facade for a night, get my nut, and move on. Is this really fucking worth it?

Padre55 · 2015-01-13T23:34:03+00:00

Heh, she should be more concerned about you cheating on her, then you are about her cheating on you.

Ovadox · 2015-01-14T00:05:40+00:00

If she doesn't cheat, great. She didn't cheat. Keep her around. If she does cheat, hey, you didn't marry her right? Cut her loose and enjoy some new pussy.

Self improvement is key here either way, since it'll give you better odds of keeping what you have or find something better if you lose it. Seeing the benefits to both possibilities - another way to stay outcome independent.

Ghostpastries · 2015-01-13T23:54:16+00:00

Not all of em will cheat on you. Some will leave you first.

joe_bruised_ego · 2015-01-14T08:42:16+00:00

MRP? The MRP subreddit is "Movimento Reformista Português". Was that a typo?

yummyluckycharms · 2015-01-14T15:03:41+00:00

Or better yet - dont become that emotionally invested in women.

Women will cheat - as there will always be higher value men in which she is being hit upon by. Unless you kidnap her and run away to a cave, hypergamy will eventually rear its head, especially whenever her emotions are running rampant.

Again, treat women like investments. I dont have an emotional attachment to the companies i invest in - I only care what it does while im holding it. If it tanks, its out, if it rises, I keep.

Cyralea · 2015-01-14T15:48:06+00:00

It's remarkable the level of male hamstering regarding this topic. It touches on an emotional nerve, I suspect.

Yes, all women have the propensity to cheat. AWALT. And yes, even top alphas get cheated on. There is no true failsafe, short of chaining her to your basement.

There are, however, measures you can take to mitigate the risk. Just like game, status and wealth increase your chances with women (but don't guarantee it), raising your SMV and maintaining Alpha frame increases the probability of keeping your girl loyal.

It's very much women who cannot think in probabilistic terms. If something cannot be done absolutely, it's not worth doing at all. This is ignorant thinking. The very reason men are better at tackling intellectual tasks is precisely because we're better able to think in probabilistic terms.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-01-13T23:55:23+00:00

Most women cheat.

Its funny how Hollywood nearly always frames men as the ones who cheat, yet out of all my friends its never the men. I would say a vast majority of my male friends have been cheated on.

I initially thought we just had bad luck and bad choices, but the more I understand the world I just see this is par for the course.

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HedoNNN · 2015-01-14T00:53:26+00:00

I've trained my GF to be libertine, so she accept that I bang other girls, and I'll accept when she'll try other guys.

She tell me she doesn't feel the need to see other guys, I don't mind if she lie, she's dependant on me and I am not on her, that's all that matters.

SariaLystra · 2015-01-13T23:46:38+00:00

Sounds like you should consider women as nothing more than a disposable perk of your success. Treat a woman as disposable, would that be the lesson here?

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watersign · 2015-01-14T03:19:27+00:00

i wish the red pill would focus more on the legality and social issues we men face and not so much on seduction of women. getting pussy isnt that hard to be honest..unless you're morbidly obese or ugly and even those guys can pay for it.

Title	Your Girlfriend WILL Cheat On You! Unless... [xpost from MRP]
Author	RPSigmaStigma
Upvotes	45
Comments	73
Date	January 13, 2015 8:43 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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