Most Men Aren't Husband Material 🤣🤣🤣

DangZagnut · 2020-09-27T18:53:37+00:00

Not enough millionaires.

Face it boys, women do not give a shit about you unless it's money. Talk about Chad fantasies all you want, but in the end, it is only, and ever, about money.

EvilKlownz2 · 2020-09-27T18:53:18+00:00

Projection much? And like they don't do that at all.

I am not husband material. I have been told this many times. Why, Because of my list.

YOU must be employed. You must make at least 50% of what I do.
YOU will not sit at home making babies and cooking. Get your ass to work.
No more male friends than female friends. Keeping your ex's in a holding pattern will not fly with me.

According to some female aquatintes, That list is unrealistic.

Mundane_Worldliness7 · 2020-09-27T19:00:58+00:00

A Chad wet dream, pure and simple. Stating that ‘side chicks’ are a mass problem with guys is ridiculous and mythical nonsense. What percentage of guys have got multiple hoes, maybe 10 percent? She’s talking about Chad, all her complaints are about the short supply of Chads. The term ‘guy’ is increasingly short hand for Chad. The non-Chad beings with testicles, aren’t really guys, they are scarcely even great apes.

expendable_Henchman · 2020-09-27T19:29:32+00:00

I always love it when they call upon "Peter Pan syndrome".

Every guy by the time he hits mid-20s personally knows a guy who got rolled. He did it all right, settled down, house and kids and is paying $1000 per month to get dicked around.

Ya know, every time you root for a sista bleaching some guy's bones in court because he was busy building a life and she got bored because she wasn't stimulated, you are rooting for men to collectively tell your gender to fuck right off.

mr_kuk · 2020-09-27T19:38:18+00:00

Most women I know do actually want a husband or a boyfriend, but finding that is easier said than done...

Most gamblers I know do actually want to not lose money, but not losing money gambling is easier said than done...

The fact that having a side chick is so widespread is a major problem.

...He doesn't necessarily have to be her own husband or boyfriend. In fact, she will fuck everyone but her own husband or boyfriend.

Guys have gotten increasingly demanding with looks.

Fat shaming incel shit lord debt free virgin with no tatoos demanding garbage human beings!

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Statistically, women are more likely to be employed than men.

Well, you don't need a man now, do you? What is it with you and your irrepressible urge to uphold the institution that is the most connected with your historical oppression? I don't see any fucking Jews flocking to Egypt demanding to build fucking pyramids or flocking to Germany demanding to build the HL230 P45. "Come on Germany, start another war and force us back to the fucking forced labour camps and gas chambers. Although we don't believe in him, JESUS H CHRIST!"

Rudeness is at an unprecedented level.

Especially when you realize that rudeness gets you laid and being nice gets you paying or in jail.

Our generation is plagued with the way that we’re always looking to “trade up.”

Usually its projected onto men, "Men are always looking to trade up."

Too many men out there have a major Peter Pan complex.

Men are either the Peter Pan of irresponsibility or the Hitler of Patriarchal abusive oppression. There is no in-between.

The Nice Guy (TM) Complex is strong with too many guys out there.

Right?! Fucking idiots think they can get along with women by being nice. What fucking idiots! Hey! Fucking Idiots, check number 5 again, in fact, memorise it and repeat it every day like a fucking mantra and tattoo it on your forehead!

They’re insecure.

I don't own a pet snake because I'm insecure. There is nothing rational about it.

Some straight up just lost interest in a relationship.

If only there was a solution to force men to stay in relationships except the only way that has always worked because that is patriarchy.

Men are way too entitled.

No, men are not entitled enough.

With the “winners” in the current dating pool, who can blame girls for staying single?

With the advent of social media, women were given a voice that we all can hear and that voice is loud and clear, "Look at my ass. How dare you look at my ass! Why aren't you looking at my ass?"

Pimp87 · 2020-09-27T19:02:20+00:00

Let me correct it. “most chads and tyrones aren’t husband material”. You read things better with the red pill lens 😏

Honest_Solution · 2020-09-27T18:55:07+00:00

Read 2,5,6,8 and 11. Then scroll down and see what wrote this. Then come back and thank us for telling you the truth on this site about women.

Maximum_Afternoon · 2020-09-27T21:27:58+00:00

GUYS HAVE GOTTEN INCREASINGLY DEMANDING WITH LOOKS.

No, the standards are the same as ever....

it's just that way more of y'all are fat.

CSM_Pepper · 2020-09-27T19:54:34+00:00

Der Sturmer, 1940: Jews are ugly! Jews suck! Jews are uppity! They don't respect Aryans! They are entitled!

Bolde, 2020: Men are ugly! Men suck! Men are uppity! They don't respect women! They are entitled!

ChadInKorea · 2020-09-27T19:04:17+00:00

You rode the CC and now want a husband? Good look with that! 🤣🤣🤣

sleepyweaselisawake · 2020-09-27T21:25:27+00:00

"Some guys feel that there’s only loss to be had by getting into a relationship. They feel like women only want their money, or feel like there’s more to be had by just keeping it at booty calls with multiple women. They don’t want families, nor do they care about anything other than themselves."

This is absolutely, fucking spot on! Experience has shown me that relationships are a net loss, and booty calls are easy to arrange and abundant. Learning to care about myself, my wants, and my needs, and fulfilling them is thle greatest gift I've ever given to myself.

"It’s sad, it’s crappy, and it tells volumes about the current state of how many men out there think. One can only wonder how that will work out."

Projection at its finest. It's sad and crappy when your entire existence is based on attention and external validation.

My life is full to the brim with a core group of friends, fun hobbies, and a satisfying career. I can't see how a relationship will improve my life.

madriverdog · 2020-09-27T21:48:26+00:00

I especially like the last point: men in 30 yrs will be unhappy.

no, men will get a dog or have some expensive hobbies or a mistress. we do just fine on our own. they won’t miss the nagging money-pit. I don’t.

houseoftolstoy · 2020-09-28T02:31:35+00:00

A look through the list and I find multiple examples of projection:

GUYS HAVE GOTTEN INCREASINGLY DEMANDING WITH LOOKS.

Women rate 80 percent of men as being "below average" in looks, but we are the ones who are demanding in looks. Men by the same metrics have a far more even distribution. Women of all stripes will have no shame in demanding that men filter themselves out for her if they are below a height threshold. We also know that based on dating profile statistics, women get far more messages than men for their matching looks categories, where even less attractive women get at least some messages, where men of similar attractiveness levels get pretty much none.

Speaking for many men, we want women who are going to be at a healthy body weight, which will filter out many women. That standard is absolutely fair, as having a healthy weight is a demonstration of many positive traits that are not simply about looks. I have no problem with women having a similar standard for men, so I do not fault the author for stating that men should also be of a healthy weight level. The author is just flat out wrong that men are overall too demanding with looks, when the vast majority of women can still get a man willing to date them.

OUR GENERATION IS PLAGUED WITH THE WAY THAT WE’RE ALWAYS LOOKING TO “TRADE UP.”

Again, who does this really apply to? Is it men or women that initiate divorces more often? Is it men or women who are the ones who are more demanding as they earn more money? The answer for this is women. When reading the paragraph for details, the author initially makes it seem that it is a gender neutral issue, but not only does she not really demonstrate how this is a problem with men not being husband material, she even states at the end about the guys being "traded out." I do not know how she fails to make the case how this the fault of men when bringing up points how most of them are not supposedly husband material, considering she has complete control of what she writes, but she does.

MEN ARE WAY TOO ENTITLED.

Just more of the same projection. Look at your own side, where women still demand that men be of a certain height, make at least a specified amount of money, and list any other specific demands that they can think of without any sense of shame. Men doing something of this sort will get all sorts of ire, including accusations of sexism, misogyny, and of objectifying women.

The most common problem I see with women not being able to find a man who is husband material is that they choose to start looking for such a man way late in the game, when they are already in their 30s. The kind of man who really, really wants to be husband material does not want to wait for a woman to go through years of her "party phase"/"wild phase" only for her to claim that she somehow now has a mindset for marriage. The author may be technically correct that most women do want a husband or a boyfriend, but they sure do not act like they want that very much in life by their actions. If you want a man who is husband material, you better be wife material. And wife material does not wait until the last moment to actually start looking for a man to marry.

BluepillProfessor · 2020-09-27T22:23:31+00:00

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digitalEarthling · 2020-09-27T19:57:07+00:00

Alot of her shitty bullet points can totally be applied to women. The projection is realz

Daddir · 2020-09-27T18:59:55+00:00

This article was clearly from a alternate universe, where men conduct themselves like women. #notsingle #notanincel #notawomanhater #lol

Miserable-Lemon · 2020-09-27T20:38:59+00:00

Wow this article is one hell of an example in projection.

MishMiassh · 2020-09-27T21:10:59+00:00

Wait, what happened to "nobody oews anyone anything"?

It's not infidelity if the terms of the relationship are not established. Are they EXPECTING something? They feel entitled, or something?

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2020-09-27T20:07:54+00:00

It is almost self-aware:

We trade up jobs all the time. We trade up our iPhones, our furniture, and at times, even our friends. Sadly, our generation also tends to take this attitude with significant others. While this isn’t always a common sentiment, it happens frequently enough that certain guys just don’t realize what they had until they are old, alone, and traded out.

And that is what leads to point 11, when men lose interest.

NickTesla2018 · 2020-09-27T23:04:59+00:00

Wow, did the sh*t for brains author look in the mirror and just reverse everything? Unreal.

42252252 · 2020-09-28T16:41:35+00:00

These articles love to talk about how women "do the majority of the housework, even when they're full time employed". I'm pretty sure they're self-reporting that info, and there seems to be a wide gulf in what men and women consider cleaning.

A guy will clean his own dishes after cooking something, he figures that it's his mess, he should clean it. Why would he say this is 'housework?'

A girl, however, after a lifetime of hero worship of single mothers and SHAM's, calls her equivalent mess "housework" as if she's taking upon herself the duties of the rest of the house.

The guy cleans as he goes, and may not do much that's family-wide cleaning unless he throws their laundry in with his, which rarely happens because "you don't know how to do it right like I do".

A woman, in contrast, will call any incident where she lifts a finger in the home as unpaid slave labor. (At least that's how my ex's generally were.)

DextroShade · 2020-09-29T05:11:01+00:00

There are more men who are husband material than there are women who are wife material. These men are either taken or they are invisible to the common thot.

AntoniusAmbrosium · 2020-09-27T21:47:22+00:00

Damn, the projecting in that “article”.

E1700D · 2020-09-29T08:34:23+00:00

Is this just a revenge fantasy of a whiny feminist basically just venting

Martellus732 · 2020-09-28T01:00:22+00:00

Add wo to men in this article and it becomes accurate.

That site is like a clone of FDS.

PlainTundra · 2020-09-27T23:22:25+00:00

Aaand... she's into astrology. 1, 2

animalmother2017 · 2020-09-28T06:34:37+00:00

She’s obviously right you know. She just has the genders backwards.

imapotato99 · 2020-09-28T17:14:24+00:00

That is A LOT of projection

but then there is this

SOME STRAIGHT UP JUST LOST INTEREST IN A RELATIONSHIP.

Some guys feel that there’s only loss to be had by getting into a relationship. They feel like women only want their money, or feel like there’s more to be had by just keeping it at booty calls with multiple women. They don’t want families, nor do they care about anything other than themselves. It’s sad, it’s crappy, and it tells volumes about the current state of how many men out there think. One can only wonder how that will work out for them 30 years from now…

It works out GREAT for them 30 years down the line when they are 50 with 2 sex buddies in their 20s

Aldabruzzo · 2020-09-28T18:03:24+00:00

Why should most men even try to be husband material?

For this?

Gents, while you are breaking your asses trying to get careers going, being responsible, and otherwise trying to stay out of jail, that's what your "future wives" are doing.

BuschMaster_J · 2020-09-28T21:45:26+00:00

Holy shit this is projection of the highest order

NotLuceBree · 2020-09-30T12:37:27+00:00

An insipid piece filled with the typical projection and lack of insight that characterizes most pieces like this, but I especially loved this part:

Some Straight Up just Lost Interest in a Relationship

Some guys feel that there’s only loss to be had by getting into a relationship. They feel like women only want their money, or feel like there’s more to be had by just keeping it at booty calls with multiple women. They don’t want families, nor do they care about anything other than themselves. It’s sad, it’s crappy, and it tells volumes about the current state of how many men out there think. One can only wonder how that will work out for them 30 years from now…

Note how there is ZERO exploration as to WHY men might feel this way; it's as if these feeling developed in a vacuum, and they're only a reflection of "the current state of how men think" as opposed to a RATIONAL REACTION to how women act.

Lastly I'll note the irony of the "you're going to die old and alone" trope implicit here, when we all know that based on this author's attitude it will likely be SHE HERSELF hurtling into involuntary spinsterhood, caterwauling about how men are trash and weeping over the one(s) that got away.

doron12349 · 2020-10-04T15:35:48+00:00

"Men are trash,why am i single 😟😟😟😟😟😟"

stallman65 · 2020-09-28T23:03:40+00:00

469 articles in 4 years...every single one of them is clickbait... https://www.yourtango.com/users/ossiana-tepfenhart?page=0%2C0%2C0%2C4

2020-09-29T05:41:25+00:00

Women are like a stage show without a cast:

NO CHARACTER

lightaniruddhe2000 · 2020-09-28T01:40:29+00:00

Lookin' at the writer's face...it all becomes clear!

liaisonguy · 2020-09-28T02:59:08+00:00

Well this is partly correct:

SOME STRAIGHT UP JUST LOST INTEREST IN A RELATIONSHIP.
Some guys feel that there’s only loss to be had by getting into a relationship. They feel like women only want their money, or feel like there’s more to be had by just keeping it at booty calls with multiple women. They don’t want families, nor do they care about anything other than themselves. It’s sad, it’s crappy, and it tells volumes about the current state of how many men out there think. One can only wonder how that will work out for them 30 years from now

Of course the writer is incapable of understanding how this developed. It didn't just poof, happen like the big bang. And she's hoping I'll be the sad cat lady in 30 years. Nope. I'm living perfectly well with my dog with the only regret that it took me way too long to understand the true nature of women and their dual mating strategy.

StrengthBeginning416 · 2020-09-28T05:23:03+00:00

I think this is the girl that wrote the article. She’s totally right. No sane man would be husband material. author

tw1nm3t30r · 2020-09-28T11:10:50+00:00

Who wants a relationship with someone who scrutinizes the fuck out of you for anything and everything?

Supasnupakoopa · 2020-09-28T12:08:13+00:00

It's funny, her article from 2016 says that she will never date men again basically. Yet her article about why men are bad is from 2020. Me thinks she is having a relapse in desiring marriage.

Also i can almost guarantee that the guys she tried to date during her 2016 issue, compared to the guys who complimented her afterwards and said they would have dated her are not there same type of guys. As someone who has watched this sort of evolution occur time and time again, i can bet the guy who called her fat was the hottest Chad that messaged her. But the guys who said they would have dated her are the same guys who didn't even get a reply on tinder. I mean like what you like, but remember other people are allowed to have standards too

hijoton · 2020-09-28T13:48:19+00:00

The interesting "related" section holds some nice gems.

17 Life Struggles Of Women Who Are Naturally Loud

What’s Your Hottest Quality? Here’s What Your Zodiac Sign Suggests

I Didn’t Understand Why I Kept Ending Up With Toxic Guys Until I Realized These Important Things

12 Reasons You’re Single Even Though You’re A Catch

14 Little Things That Look Like Love But Are Actually Manipulation

You Know You’re In An Almost Relationship If You’re Sending Him These Texts

“Duty Dating” Is A Thing And You Need To Start Doing It ASAP

They Might Not Seem Like It, But These 12 Things Are Emotional Abuse

Naturally loud. - Nope, you just scream as an uncouth uncivilized being.

Zodiac. - In this day and age of rationality and science, Zodiac.

Toxic Guys. - le'ts not even delve in that one.

Single even if you are a catch. - That's like an unemployed hobo who has the talents to be a millionaire. Unusual, to say the least.

Manipulation. - He says "you are his whole world" and "he spoils you with gifts you don't need." That's some dastardly manipulashiiion!

An Almost Relationship. - Yes or no. Almost only counts on hand grenades.

Duty dating. - Yet the article is all about riding the CC to the full extent. I guess calling a spade a spade was too much to ask.

Emotional abuse. - Because even a broken clock can be correct once, this article was at least not totally 100% trash. Fair is fair.

oldmanbringsthebass · 2020-09-28T15:12:40+00:00

And the rub is....men who are good "husband material" are not attractive to them.

OpenImagination9 · 2020-09-28T15:29:27+00:00

This is why we need to legalize sex work.

2020-09-28T15:45:35+00:00

Most men don't want to marry the town bike. Sucks to be you, lady.

BluepillProfessor · 2020-09-28T16:01:34+00:00

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upsidedownbackwards · 2020-09-28T17:04:19+00:00

Because by the time they are husband material they are already a finished product and no longer need these thots. When men need women isn't when they're a finished material, it's when they're still forming their life, picking the color, the wood, the edging. You gotta tolerate his years of work and assembly before you get to appreciate his husband material. We know you've been off being a disaster while we've been making a product we can be happy with without you.

TheApricotCavalier · 2020-09-28T19:24:59+00:00

Its funny watching Harems make a comeback in slow motion. Everyone pretends its otherwise, & makes up excuses; but thats where this is all headed.

Title	Most Men Aren't Husband Material 🤣🤣🤣
Author	loneliness-inc
Upvotes	156
Comments	139
Date	September 27, 2020 6:45 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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