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Motherly instincts

Futureman999

February 7, 2021
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Title Motherly instincts
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Futureman999

Upvotes 562
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Date February 7, 2021 11:20 PM UTC
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[–]Arnold_Incelinator 314 points315 points316 points 5 years ago (48 children) | Copy Link

why not get pregnant by the ''good father''?

[–]sleepyweaselisawakePlowing his way through muck 224 points225 points226 points 5 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Because women don't want to fuck the men who would be good fathers.

[–]mustangfrankCopy-paste Commando 132 points133 points134 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Or putting it another way.

If your baby daddy ain't worth shit, why did you give him your vagina?

[–]sleepyweaselisawakePlowing his way through muck 102 points103 points104 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Because he was the exciting bad boy she loved to fuck. And, when she couldn't baby trap him to stop him from fucking other women, she decided he obviously wasn't a real man.

[–]AlturiusSr. Hamster Analyst 37 points38 points39 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

But he was a real man enough to put his penis in her!

[–]sleepyweaselisawakePlowing his way through muck 33 points34 points35 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, yeah, that's how it works.

[–]asdf333azaSenior deluge-style poster 42 points43 points44 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If she says the baby daddy ain't shit, she ain't shit cause she was spreading her legs for him and letting him hit it raw.

[–]mustangfrankCopy-paste Commando 23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But the man is only shit after he knocks her up, before that he was hawt.

[–]dr_pepper02 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That’s victim blaming...how dare they be held responsible for their decisions.

[–]asdf333azaSenior deluge-style poster 24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And then they wonder why their kids turn out bad just like the man who abandoned her. Almost like they're related or something.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

they won't "corporate"

[–]Mundane_Worldliness7Sr. Hamster Analyst 85 points86 points87 points 5 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

So from this, we conclude that women will happily sleep with and have children with trash. The trashy traits of Tyrone only become problematic after the fact whilst the traits of the beta become positive only after Tyrone’s kid shows up.

[–]mustangfrankCopy-paste Commando 24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

You nailed it.

[–]Mundane_Worldliness7Sr. Hamster Analyst 46 points47 points48 points 5 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

Thus my cynicism, I know that there are women who are blindsided by bad guys, but often they have forewarning. I’ve known of cases where women got with guys who were known abusers, said women were shocked when they were abused. The past behavior was recast in a positive light. The same women who will happily hookup with wife beaters will claim actual fear when the Nice Guy they strung along gets tired of their shit.

[–]asdf333azaSenior deluge-style poster 62 points63 points64 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I know a girl who posted pictures of herself on Fb after her boyfriend beat her up. Black eyes and everything's. She even went to the hospital. She made a huge big deal about abuse and she said she didn't deserve this. blah blah blah.

He then uploaded a video of her on to pornhub.

2 months later, they're back together, and his jobless ass moved in with her. And that video of her is still online.

This is what women do with their freedom to choose. This right here is what women's decision making skills amount to.

[–]Mundane_Worldliness7Sr. Hamster Analyst 51 points52 points53 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Meanwhile, the same woman will report the awkward guy to HR who made a clumsy remark about her dress.

[–]look_up_the_NAP 24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've had enough talking about women's rights. It's time we start talking about women's wrongs.

[–]jmpiresJr. Hamster Analyst 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My mother in law has been beaten all sorts of ways over the past four decades. Undoubtely the guy is a shitbag, he beat his first wife, too, and maybe other women. He beat his kids, even threw a few punches at me one year ago. There is an open DV case in court, evidence has been collected in two separeate occasions. Three years ago, she has been living with her daughter and me for almost half a year.

Nevertheless, she always returns. ALWAYS. A couple months ago, I took her to the hospital over a sudden blood sugar spike (the kind of thing that pops up with stress) and she kept babbling the same shit about their last argument. At some point she says "but he is so handsome". WTF? I became speechless. She is over 70, can't walk half a mile for her life, pisses her underwear, has all sorts of degenerative, incurable shit (mostly due to decades of heavy psychiatric medication), basically has one foot in the coffin. And still fails two coeherent back-to-back sentences, because... fuck. I have no idea.

This right here is what women's learning skills amount to.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have a friend who is in jail RIGHT NOW because he beat the shit out of his girlfriend. Why is this bitch mewling about how she loves him and is paying his legal fees?

Oh, because girls are fucking dumb.

And yes, he's still my friend because I'm not going to trade loyalty over how he treats some stupid bitch.

[–]Aaod32 points 5 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

Out of the 4 most sexually successful guys I have dealt with two of them had felony records and neither of them had a job. This isn't even getting into all the abusive guys who had to beat off women with a stick. If he punched you right in the face to the point you had a bloody lip within a week or two of knowing him why the fuck did you stick around him? He literally punched you in the mouth!

[–]AlturiusSr. Hamster Analyst 21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Do women get Stockholm syndrome when staying with an abuser? It seems like it. They will even defend him when others point out his abuse. I realise the dynamics of an abusive relationship the abused person has 3 options "Fight", "Flight" or "Freeze". Only with women, it seems that their default option is "Freeze" or stay as you are. Funny how they have all the balls and 'feminist empowerment' to shoot down good guys and even sarcastically or maliciously reject them, but won't say boo to the oppressor, just bitch about him to friends and co-workers.

[–]BluepillProfessorMRP Mod 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Does Stockholm Syndrome include a dripping vagina? Inquiring minds. Stockholm victims identify with their captor. Women just drip fluids like a broken car in the presence of any man who won't tolerate her violent and reckless behavior. Black eye is optional but not recommended.

[–]OverkillengineCasts Pearls to the Swine 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Funny how they have all the balls and 'feminist empowerment' to shoot down good guys and even sarcastically or maliciously reject them, but won't say boo to the oppressor, just bitch about him to friends and co-workers.

They know decent men aren't a threat so they can freely abuse them.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'll tell you... I'm the 2nd biggest "piece of shit" in my town. These women talk about me and my friend (the biggest piece of shit) as if they hate us.

Yet every weekend he's fucking and I'm declining offers for sex (these women disgust me). Why?

Because women are fucking stupid and want shit that is bad for them.

[–]mustangfrankCopy-paste Commando 22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

The past behavior was recast in a positive light

She: He beats me become he loves me.

Me: WTF?

[–]Mundane_Worldliness7Sr. Hamster Analyst 22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

Of all the benefits that Chad/ Tyrone get, the most important one is the tendency of women to assume that they always mean well. Not having such a benefit is the biggest handicap non-Chad’s must face. I’m not a Tyrone, but I’m far from ugly, it’s wild that I’ve had purely innocuous interactions at work be recast as my nearly flashing a woman. It’s wild because long before me too, I’ve had a no flirting / dating policy at work.

[–]Typo-MAGAshivasshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wise man. It's never been prudent to shit where you eat.

[–]42252252Sluts' Futile Heartthrob 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When I worked in an office there was a dust-up like that where one of the girls invited herself to drinks with the dudes, and later complained they were harassing her. (We never learned who/what happened, she was with us the whole time, I think she embellished a joke someone told to get him out of there)

The guys agreed not to make any untoward, haram moves and statements to the women of the workplace. They all ended up complimenting each other all the time, which was a funny skit for a while. The self proclaimed "hottest girl at work" would bristle at no one mentioning her new dye job, but every guy that came into a meeting would notice the littlest things on each other. "Oh dude, you replaced your sunglasses? Those are sweet, how much?" "Nice, those are vintage Nike's, right? Where'd you find that?"

It's funny how much seething you can feel in a room simply by diverting attention. But hey, can't be "hitting" on anyone, eh?

[–]BluepillProfessorMRP Mod 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

forewarning

More like a blinking searchlight, air raid sirens, and that guy who directs the planes with the little flags trying to wave her off.

[–]OverkillengineCasts Pearls to the Swine 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Or the idiots that chase philanderers that have never stayed faithful to any woman and have 4+ kids from as many women and are constantly in and out of jail.

Like, bitch, what the hell makes you think you will be different? Pussy ain't magical!

[–]Jake-OrionWAATGM UnderTaker 38 points39 points40 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

"Good father" gives no tingles! You are forcing common sense and oppressing her emotions with patriarchy!

/s

[–]mustangfrankCopy-paste Commando 21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Facts and Logic are tools of the Patriarchy.

[–]asdf333azaSenior deluge-style poster 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Maybe the patriachy exist because WOMEN have chosen to carry on the genes of men with that violent disposition over and over again.

You mate with a guy who is a violent piece of shit. And then you act shocked and surprised when that man's son turns out to be a violent piece of shit too. Almost as if they're related. And then your son is a violent piece of shit to whatever girl he meets in the future. Repeat that cycle for a few centuries and that's your patriarchy. A product of female selection.

[–]BluepillProfessorMRP Mod 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The patriarchy was set up to protect women from their terrible choices and to provide an incentive for men to build civilization. What you describe is what is happening today now that they have smashed the patriarchy.

The process you describe did continue under the patriarchy because women were still able to impregnate themselves with the local chad and trick a kind, mild mannered man to raise her bastard. The cycle continues indeed!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They literally believe this. Really.

[–]mustangfrankCopy-paste Commando 23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

why not get pregnant by the ''good father''?

That would required logic. If you run on butterflies and tingles, you already know the answer.

She: He was sooooooo tall, or he had tats all over him, he was tough like a thug, or got me wet, etc.

[–]panzer22222 20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

why not get pregnant by the ''good father''?

Evaluation

The human female is unusual in the animal kingdom in that the male cant tell when she is on heat and she will have sex when not on heat.

Why?

Normally the alpha male of the herd will have all the females drive off or kill all the other males. However the females are expected to get their own food and shelter as its impossible for the alpha to provide for multiple females.

The solution is to still mate with the alpha, get those genes, then get a beta to provide the food, shelter and raise the alpha kid.

[–]mustangfrankCopy-paste Commando 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Sad but true.

[–]panzer22222 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sad but true.

The whole animal kingdom works on ensuring the best male genes are pasted on. Human just have just got a novel way of doing it.

[–]BluepillProfessorMRP Mod 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women hide ovulation because the entire female strategy is based on lies and deception- All the way to the biological and cellular level!

[–]EastEndMontrealer1 17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because that would require her to find a guy who is smart, has a good strength of character and might not have a cock big enough to make a horse jealous. And that just won't do for most girls

[–]SylvestorTalone 18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Basically all men will have sex with a way lower quality of woman than they would commit to. This creates a perverse incentive on the female end where you can always get sex from a higher quality of a man than you can get commitment from.

''Trash'' really just means ''wouldn't commit'', obviously he wasn't trash when she was letting him smash. At that point all of his positive qualities such as height, muscularity, swagger etc were all entirely obvious to her and forefront in her mind.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have an associate (because women don't understand friendship) who has THREE kids, one a rape baby, with this guy that she always calls a "loser". Now she's dating a guy who openly cheats on her.

At this point, it's comedy.

[–]CentralAdminSr. Hamster Analyst 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Spitting the truth here.

I hope that men are coming to this realisation and refusing to commit to single moms.

In fact, women who do what we see in OP's picture are actively rewarding the bad fathers! They get to fuck, for free, and are not held accountable by raising the kid. In other words, if you just want to have sex, being a shitty human being works better than being a decent, upstanding guy.

The latter is expected to pick up the tab for the former's indiscretions. And the mom? She wants to be held least accountable of all. This is why they talk about the best interests of the child.

Fuck that! That's her child, not yours. If you do date a single mom, leave before things get serious.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I offer my poor cousin as a cautionary tale. Smart, hardworking blue-collar dude who was quiet and shy. Never got any dates in school. Meets a girl at a bar. Turns out she has a kid. Dude up and raises the kid like it is his for 4 years. She comes to family events; the whole family adopts her. He spends all of his savings on the girl and the child (previously saving to open his own business). Baby daddy gets out of jail--whoop....she and the kid just move out one weekend while my cuz if off on a weekend job out of the city. No warning; no note; no forwarding address; no argument beforehand. She just disappeared and then he sees her at the bar practically screwing her ex on a pool table.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I only fuck single moms. I don't date them.

[–]mikeylopez 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good father doesn't give them the tingles

[–]ransay3277 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What a concept.

[–]WarezMyDinrBitc 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because they want the genetics of the wild bad boy who won't stick around, but they still need a beta provider, a stand in father for both her and the child.

[–]42252252Sluts' Futile Heartthrob 117 points118 points119 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Delicious.

"I don't get it, why are they confessing?"

"They're not confessing. They're bragging."

[–]kaskntithies 52 points53 points54 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

That's what bugs me the most. No remorse, no responsibility.

[–]Aaod30 points 5 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

Women are nothing but sociopaths and narcissists they are utterly incapable of emotions like remorse or empathy. Expecting it out of them is like expecting a pig to fly.

[–]BlogginginvicecitySr. Hamster Analyst 22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

There was a university study on that. Woman had in average more empathy but less sympathy. Empathy is knowing where someone is at, whereas sympathy is the compassion.

Generally women see this as a man's world, and feel victim status. Feeling victim status is dangerous for others, this applying to men as well. Feeling like a victim makes people more callous.

[–]BluepillProfessorMRP Mod 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Its not callous! The word is covet. Women see themselves as victims and covet male power. Like all leftists they want to tear down those with more rather than building more themselves.

Put another way, women covet mens power and demand they debase themselves to become more equal- much like the homeless guy who doesn't work demands a salary like the guy who puts in 80 hours.

Tldr: they covet all the rights but want none of the duties or responsibilities.

[–]AlturiusSr. Hamster Analyst 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Tldr: they covet all the rights but want none of the duties or responsibilities.

... and don't want to get their hands dirty or make things happen themselves.

[–]ZlayerXZJr. Hamster Analyst 61 points62 points63 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

It seems very likely that there is a genetic component to being a “good men”, component that eventually but surely will ran out, once it does, well let’s say that the falling out of civilization will be hard.

In the meantime let’s make sure we don’t waste our lives away rising spawn that isn’t ours.

[–]mustangfrankCopy-paste Commando 23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

let’s make sure we don’t waste our lives away rising spawn that isn’t ours.

Word brother

[–]TheApricotCavalier|-.,_,.-Troll Mind in a TRP Body-.,_,.-| 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

already well under way. Humanity is evolving

[–]BlogginginvicecitySr. Hamster Analyst 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm not sure of the name, but I know there is a famous sci fi novel with this premise as well.

[–]bleubonbon 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don’t think so because it can probably be learned so some of these bad boy kids will learn it by living with the good father

[–]lookoutbelow60 50 points51 points52 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks. Keep taking that Red Pill boys

[–]mustangfrankCopy-paste Commando 34 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This bitch is why men become Red Pills. Men don't choose to be Red Pilled, women make men Red Pill.

[–]zeepbar 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Truth my guy.

[–]SylvestorTalone 28 points29 points30 points 5 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Surely he jests, what's not to understand?

''Why do scammers tell people they are going to win lots of money when the truth is that they intend to take money from those people?''

''Why do men lie to women about their long term intentions in order to secure sex up front?''

It's like saying ''I don't understand why people say untrue things that result in positive outcomes for them''.

Also the more truthful version of what she said is: ''Sometimes our selfish instincts tell us that it's way easier to raise a child with a man around to share the expenses and work. If the real father is Chad who wouldn't commit to my average ass, I look for a lower tier substitute who I can get commitment from to offload all the non-sex part of parenthood onto. It is for the good of me. And obviously I can't tell him, he's mean and cares about his biological imperative more than mine, so he'll bouce just like Chad did straight after he nutted.

[–]BlogginginvicecitySr. Hamster Analyst 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's like saying ''I don't understand why people say untrue things that result in positive outcomes for them''

Well said. People are surprised when they vett less, but that's why you vett.

[–]asdf333azaSenior deluge-style poster 24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I can't understand why any dude would just believe a woman when she tells him that he is the father. I just don't understand. There is no way in hell I wouldn't get a paternity test.

If someone told me that if I spend 100 dollars now, I could save 100,000 - 400,000 over the next 18 years, I would fucking jump on it.

Guys, you know how these women are. You know it. And we have the technology. I wouldn't sign the birth certificate. I wouldn't buy her anything for kid. I wouldn't be involved in the pregnancy. Not setting up no crib. She ain't moving in with me. She ain't getting no money from me. I wouldn't be anywhere near her or that fetus, until a paternity test showed I was the father. It's that simple. The second you get involved with her and that kid, that's when they snag your in. Don't do it to yourself.

Look at this mess. These women are out here exposing themselves. They are telling on themselves. They don't care if the world knows. HELL, they are proud they could trick you into raising a kid that ain't yours. They literally depend on you being sooo gullible, that you just believe any and everything she says. She can tell your the sky is green, and you ain't gonna look up. You just gonna trust your lady, right? Mmmhmmm. "Yeah this baby is oriental, but I promise it's yours." Meanwhile, she's the basic pumpkin spice loving white girl and you're sitting over there looking like a redheaded Irish Viking or something. "Yeah okay, honey. Let me get my name on that birth certificate right away".

There is no excuse to not do a paternity test. You already at the hospital. Her DNA and the baby's DNA is scattered all over the hospital room. You're probably there in the corner watching this circus show they call birth. And if you're in America, you are already walking out that hospital with 10,000 dollar hospital bill. Might as well splurge a bit and pay an extra 100 bucks for the hospital to get that paternity test at a chance to not be cuckold and made to look like a fool who breaks his back to support a lying ass female and kid that ain't yours.

NO DNA? YOU DONT PAY!

[–]InevitableOwl1Swipes with a dictionary in hand 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Unfortunately there isn’t a safe way of doing that test until after the child is born.

Makes the not buying anything for her or the kid in the build up more of a challenge

[–]asdf333azaSenior deluge-style poster 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Unfortunately there isn’t a safe way of doing that test until after the child is born.

I actually have a medical background. And I can tell you, that isn't true. You have been fed that LIE by a gynocentric society. And I don't blame you for not knowing your options or the truth for that matter. Women want you to think that DNA testing puts the child at a huge risk, when in reality there isn't a single test out there that puts the child at more than a 1% risk of miscarriage. There are even test out there that put the child at absolutely NO risk. All of these test can be done before the second trimester ends. And yes their are risk, but we are talking less than 1%. To me, that sounds pretty safe.

Amniocentesis - needle in stomach and draws out some of the amniotic fluid, which is primarily baby urine and can be used for DNA testing. This procedure can be done as early as 15 weeks. And only carries a 0.1-0.3 percent chance of complications.

Chronic villiuse - another need into the abdomen to get a piece of the placenntal tissue sampling can be done at 10 to 12 weeks and carries a risk of 0.5 to 1%.

Cell free DNA testing - they draw the moms blood and extract the child's blood from it which can be found in the mom's bloodstream as early as 9 weeks and is completely NONINVASIVE. This blood is then compared to the ALLEGED fathers. And it carries NO RISK TO THE CHILD. The issue with this one, is it is the most unreliable and they may not be able to find the child's dna with on the mom at a designated point. And it is less effective when women carry a bmi over 30 ( a lot do nowadays) and other issues.

[–]InevitableOwl1Swipes with a dictionary in hand 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for this.

To be discredit I was going off a House MD episode from probably 10 years ago where it was suggested that was dangerous/invasive

A clip from said episode popped in my YouTube feed just last week which is why it came to mind

[–]asdf333azaSenior deluge-style poster 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It probably was a bit more dangerous a few years or decades ago, but modern medicine is constantly improving. I watch House too, but that show came out early 2000s. Just think about how different our phones are now, compared to then.

Anyways, it's basically a lie or misinformation that floats around. Paternity test is affordable and it is pretty safe. 1/100 is the most risk you face for an early dna test. The risk of paternity fraud is estimated to be about 3%-30%. The risk of paternity fraud is greater than the risk of an early DNA test harming a pregnancy. And that's just if you can't wait until the baby born. After that we have no risk factors at all. It's safe. We have the technology to do it and it can be done affordably considering all the other cost pertaining a pregnancy.

The only reason we don't do it is because America is bent on protecting women from the consequences of their own actions even if its at the cost of men. They don't want men to realize how fucked up women actually are. We even got cases where guys get paternity test later on in the kids life and find out the kid isn't there's and then they still have to pay for that kid. That's what happened to R&B singer Ne-Yo. Dude was a millionaire and still got cheated on and tricked into raising a kid that ain't his. Get the test done. And get it done early.

[–]InevitableOwl1Swipes with a dictionary in hand 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Not disputing the false paternity figures but where do they come from? They are shocking. I guess that is in the US. Are they stratified in any way (e.g. more prevalent in certain communities or parts of the country) ?

I didn't know about Ne-Yo. Raises a kid that isn't his and then now (if theories are to be believed) is singing cover songs dressed as a Badger on a UK TV show...

[–]asdf333azaSenior deluge-style poster 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Originally the American Association of Blood Banks reported that some states had a negative (aka paternity fraud) DNA test result of 17 to 30%. That was back in 1999. Do you think women have gotten more loyal over the past 21 years or more promiscuous with their behavior since then?

But they came out and had to correct that statement because that was only including the people sought out paternity test. Aka only the people who had doubts about their biological connection to their child or maybe it was court ordered or something. Out of those people 30% of them turned out not to be the father.

But that is of a specific population. It wasn't a real representation of the GENERAL population. That is going to vary based on each region. Like in Britain, they had a story that said 1 out 50 British men are unknowningly raising kids who aren't biologically their own. That puts the percent more at 2 out 100 for the general population, which is still way too much for me. Not only that another study in Britian showed that ONE OUT OF FIVE BRITISH WOMEN HAD AFFAIRS IN THEIR MARRIAGES and they say that number is about average for most developed countries including America. So with that in mind, I'm surprised that they only reported 1 out 50 men raising kids that aren't there's when 1/5 married or long-term relationship women cheated. And this is still higher than the risk of any of the early paternity test. The chances that a women is deceiving you in paternity fraud is higher than the risk of something happening to a baby if you get an early paternity test done.

Back to paternity fraud, a study from 2005, showed the incidence to be anywhere from 0.8% to 30% depending on where you living and that's for the general population across the globe. I believe they reported 3.7% to the median number. Soo at a minimum, there is about 4 out 100 men raising a kid that belongs to another guy and he doesn't know it. The is the BEST case scenario, but in reality it can be anywhere for 4 to 30%. There is no concrete number or percentage. They just have a range for it. Because it varies by regions. Mexico reported a 11.8% rate of paternity fraud. Canada 4.0% . It's hard to lock the exact numbers done because the goverments and the women actively hide the truth from men. In some countries it's illegal and a criminal act, in places like America there are no laws for it. We have the technology to figure out how common this issue is, but yet we don't. We don't attempt to analyze it or tract or do anything with it. Did you know the government has a mandatory reporting for hospital for certain diseas s like chlamydia and hiv and stuff? They hospitals have to report the number of cases they have of certain diseases to the cdc. They already keep tract of random stuff like that, but asking them to do paternity fraud measurements is a no go? It's just flat out deception. If you are married and your wife has a kid that is of a different race, weather you sign the birth certificate or not, because you two are married, that child could still be legally yours, even if you tried to divorce her as soon as it was born. America has something called "legal paternity" which can overturn biological paternity. It's one of the ways guys end up paying child support for kids that aren't even theirs. That's how much power a women has over you through just getting married. She could literally go fuck another guy, have his kid and make you pay for it because you're married to her.

Im sorry to ramble, but this whole thing about paternity fraud is an endless hole. Every study done on this topic will likely shock and surprise you.

[–]EastEndMontrealer1 23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

If you want your kid to have a good dad, try dating one for once instead of a guy you meet in a bar and fuck in the bathroom. I would see it all the time in HS but more in college, where girls would complain about wanting a guy that would treat them like queens, take them out to dinner, and make sure they were happy, but would be able to please them sexually in every way every other day. Pretty much the typical Alpha Bucks. Then a guy like me comes along, bringing most of that, only to get turned away with the 'I only like you as a friend' speech or some variant thereof.

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I think this could be loosely tied in with this quote:

Hard times create strong men

Strong men create good times

Good times create weak men

Weak men create hard times.

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The way I see it, we're at the end of that cycle. With Alpha's more often than not being weak in character, by getting a girl pregnant and then leaving. Where instead of stepping up to the plate and providing for them, they leave thus making the girl want to drop the costs associated with their child onto us

[–]asdf333azaSenior deluge-style poster 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

thus making the girl want to drop the costs associated with their child onto us

And thats where we tell them to fuck off. And leave them to deal with the consequences of their actions.

[–]EastEndMontrealer1 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. Wish them the best, but other than that, don't get involved

[–]Special-Armadillo-99 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Too bad papa government will step in and force you to pay via taxes

[–]asdf333azaSenior deluge-style poster 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I don't even wish them the best. I hope they struggle and truly come to realize the errors of their ways and maybe educate the next generation of women to be better than them and not this slut walk, go out and party it up until you're 35 type of bullshit.

[–]EastEndMontrealer1 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah that too. I also hope the one's get pregnant are courageous enough to use themselves as an example for their children of what not to do

[–]BluepillProfessorMRP Mod 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Even if millions die they will still fervently support team woman, vote for socialism, and blame men.

[–]Jake-OrionWAATGM UnderTaker 23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The only way it's good for the child is to have that child taken away from this sorry excuse of a mother. There are better PARENTS out there for that child than keeping it with this sack of trash.

[–]SCCock 21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

There is a thread of truth in what she is saying, the part about the child needing a good father, but she is a manipulative wench.

What would really be in the best interest of the poor child is to marry and the have a child.

But as is stands right now, not my circus, not my monkey.

[–]mustangfrankCopy-paste Commando 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What would really be in the best interest of the poor child is to marry a good man in the first place and then have a child.

[–]reignoferror00 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What would be in the best interest of her child is if she put it up for adoption. Better for the child to be raised by a good mother and father rather than its real mother.

[–]CSM_PepperMike Judge was an optimist 17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And obviously I can't tell him, he won't corporate.

Here's hoping he won't probate either. Get your own LLC.

[–]happychickenpalaceJr. Hamster Analyst 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yet still the real question remains: if the real father is trash, why let him fuck you?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

SO HAAWWWWWWTTTTT

[–]WornBlueCarpet 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If only there was a way to avoid getting pregnant by guys who are trash...

Like

- Not sleeping with guys who are trash.

- Using a condom.

- Using the pill.

Or if those fail

- Taking a morning-after pill.

But alas, such technology is something out of Star Trek.

And I never knew that motherly instinct is fine tuned to commit fraud, but apparently can't detect when guys are trash until after having slept with him. Maybe it's because it doesn't kick in until she's pregnant? Yes, that makes sense. Of course there's no motherly instinct when there's no child. One would think that common sense could substitute for the motherly instinct, but apparently not. "He has no job, no education, no home, he's on drugs and in a gang. So irresistible!"

[–]BluepillProfessorMRP Mod 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I never knew that motherly instinct is fine tuned to commit fraud

Well now you do.

[–]coloradocaniac 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just befuddling why marriage and birthrates are plummeting.

Real head-scratcher.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He won't Corporation Partners Ltd PLC, but I don't tell him he's not the dad because I need him to.

[–]I-am-the-lulAll Ass No Stick 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Have you tried not sleeping with trash in the first place?"

[–]reignoferror00 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

But she will "corporate". She already has all the empathy and psychopathic tendencies of a corporation.

[–]BlogginginvicecitySr. Hamster Analyst -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But it was for the best interests of my boss, the investors child!

[–]BluepillProfessorMRP Mod 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Momma need dem corporations to pay dose bills.

[–]Itneverbegancel 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And women are called the empathetic gender

[–]hih_h 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Doesn't her motherly instincts tell her to choose a good father in the first place?? hoε

[–]Itburns12345 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The stigma about getting a kid paternity tested has to be ended!

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[–]Birthday088 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I heard pre-nups can be voided in Divorce court one example is under the pretences she signed it. if before your marriage you were going to leave because she wasn't going to sign the prenup and she broke down crying and eventually came crawling back to you saying that she will sign it and she does sign it. in Divorce court it will be voided because when she signed it she wasn't in a stable mind frame. I'm not an expert on this and this is the only example I know of when it can be voided it this was happened to a celebrity

[–]WarezMyDinrBitc 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yep all her attorney has to say is that she signed it under duress or was pressured at all and the judge will wipe his ass with it.

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[–]WarezMyDinrBitc 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That wouldn't matter. Any legal document you sign with your attorney is already notarized. Usually the receptionist or one of the paralegals IS a notary.

[–]eternalstruggle1 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

This is why I 1000% said stay away from single mothers. This is their mindset. This is truly fuck up. She advocating trapping and lying to a man to fix her mistake. These women should be in prison.

She could even spell co-operate properly. This is why men should stay away from single mother. They are a danger. All of them. You need to understand that they got knock up because of their life choices. Don't fix people's mistake. Quit being a sucker.

[–]Aldabruzzo 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

At least she's honest.

What we all need to realize is that society will help women cuck good men. Women cheer on other women who do this.

This is what women, and society, think of you. All you're good for is as a walking wallet. That's all you're good for. That's all she wants you for. She doesn't want you. She just wants the money. She wants you to do all the work and pay all the money for none of the benefits.

What does it say about women that they fuck trash and use men?

[–]AlturiusSr. Hamster Analyst 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

PARASITES!

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[–]Typo-MAGAshivasshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. [M] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There is no way a sane person would say that

Right. A woman said that.

it's not men vs women its just this one is crazy

Bad news. They all are. Always have been. It's just a question of severity.

Anyway, comment removed for rule 2.

[–]kaskntithies 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't know, I'm starting to see a pattern here.

[–]Typo-MAGAshivasshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The pattern is AWALT.

It's just a matter of degree.

[–]Gaiinahat 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Basically, while he was working hard at his 3 jobs to pay the bills and take care of her skank ass, she was out getting plowed by some dude in the parking lot of a Starbucks and oops! what do you know beta bitch boy, you're going to be a dad!

Fucking cunts the lot of them.

[–]Silentbush 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"corporate" lol

[–]Special-Armadillo-99 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Apparently she fucked a ghost

[–]The-truth-hurts1 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When they say “my children come first”.. this is what the mean

[–]houseoftolstoyUnchivalrous Christian 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This dilemma could all be avoided by just having the man who is the good father be the real father.

[–]WarezMyDinrBitc 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't you realize they would then have so settle down with someone they aren't as attracted to? How oppressive!

[–]I_abhor_redditors 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fucking disgusting whore.

[–]drchadick 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What i´ll never get: so the child´s father is trash in retrospective. And choosing the father of her child has to be the single most important decision in the life a woman. Don´t they have any self reflection about that her decision makes her obviously lower than trash then? No dignity at all? Guess as always just the lizard brain protecting the ego.

[–]Sid_Insidious 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He won't...

corporate

Fucking ghetto-assed whore.

Whores Incorporated.

[–]bornsinner1242 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Paternity test should be mandatory at every hospital before the signing of a birth certificate

[–]usehername6969 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Daddy Sole Prop, he won’t corporate.

[–]MAPLE-SIX-ACTUAL 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

At least she's honest 🤷‍♂️

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I will never ever let a woman pregnant. Fuck this , vasectomy for everyone.

[–]DrDog09 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

".... he won't corporate." I knew that getting bedroom papers was becoming a thing, but State incorporation papers is a bit of a stretch.

[–]Ducktor-Monty 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What the fuck do you expect him to “corporate”?

[–]ObsidianAdonis 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

All these kids being raised without fathers are going to raised hell in society. What stores for us the next decade is going to make those 2020 BLM rioters look like picnics.

PSA: Remember to invest in prison, law enforcement and pet stocks.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Corporate?

So she's a lying scumbag but the ends always justify the means. But YOU have to tell the truth and never exploit someone for your own ends.

I dont care what's best for the kid. Honestly.

[–]Alternative-Ad-1464 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Every man should test his kids.
Its so easy today

[–]altair431 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Motherly Instincts LOL. It's always something out of the thin air. Scientists and scholars should pause their work and go all into exploring the Hamster Brain instead!

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