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Single mom demands a poly relationship. Doesn't understand why she's getting ghosted.

kevin32

April 3, 2023
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Title Single mom demands a poly relationship. Doesn't understand why she's getting ghosted.
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kevin32

Upvotes 299
Comments 56
Date April 3, 2023 1:30 PM UTC
(3 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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[–]Mundane_Worldliness7Sr. Hamster Analyst 115 points116 points117 points 3 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

So, a guy is supposed to go over to her pigsty of house, replete with a child, animals and (undoubtedly) a boyfriend or husband to Netflix and chill?

[–]Land_of_the_Losersthe-niceguy.com 57 points58 points59 points 3 years ago* (11 children) | Copy Link

And help pay her bills.

What, you don't want that kind of relationship? But she's such a queen, though.

In every picture I've seen of the 'poly' relationships, the men all seem to look glassy-eyed and broken and stoop-backed, but I'm sure that's just the camera angle and not because she's plowing one while demanding foot massages and cash from all the others.

[–]BlackbarnabyjonesSuave Savage 44 points45 points46 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Poly, hubby, kid, 4 puppies?

Get ready for a WORLD of smells.

And if you can still get an erection with all that noise while staring into the dead eyes of a man who wishes it was his turn tonight,

you might not be human.

AT LEAST you can play D &D, Magic the Gathering, and World of Warcraft with the OTHER HUBBIES while y'all all wait for your next turn.

You know they into that.

[–]OverkillengineCasts Pearls to the Swine 30 points31 points32 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I suspect half the reason these nutbars are often into essential oils and burning incenses is to cover the funk. Easier than proper hygiene and cleaning.

[–]BlackbarnabyjonesSuave Savage 22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

ALOT of them are WITCHES. Straight up. Like "casting spells, my coven, and boiling pot" witches.

And don't think it's the skin. IT'S THE HAIR. So black women do this shit too. Ever heard of Haitian Voodoo/New Orleans Roots?

Many hide it - some don't

A poly-amorous woman is often also a witch. And an "Artsy" one is almost always Pagan. A polyamorous artsy woman with colored hair is almost always a shoe in.

That's what the crystals and oils everywhere are for. That is witchcraft.

If they KNOW you can't hang with that reality - then all the friends get "warned to shut up about it" and it BECOMES "healing crystals" and "essential oils."

But if you walk in there with Two neck tattoos and black fingernails, you're gonna get the whole show.

Crazy pussy is dope for a reason, as in you'd have to be crazy to stay in that environment and keep sticking it in.

But the pussy dope, so you keep playing chicken with a train.

After a while, you might find yourself "compelled" to keep sticking it in "somehow" - till the "oops" happens.

I don't want to have the conversation (their aren't enough apologies in English) with my son when he turns 18 after being born to a woman like this and living with her and him having black nails and been casting spells since he was 6.

[–]lorum_ipsum_dolorJr. Hamster Analyst 20 points21 points22 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

There's a reason the Lilith myth is one of oldest and most enduring in human history.

There's also reason modern feminists and new age types are so enamored with the notion of the rebellious female with unkempt hair who wants nothing more than to watch the world burn.

[–]Wumplin 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's like being a female 'Joker' lmao

[–]OverkillengineCasts Pearls to the Swine 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah made the mistake of trying to date one when I was younger, nearly a decade and a half ago now.

Decided to never repeat the experience.

[–]Fairwareprovidence 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The best case scenario is she wakes up one day to realize all the men are literally gone, off making their own 40k club and using their money on far more worthwhile endeavors.

[–]PirateDocBrownJr. Hamster Analyst 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Where does she ask for money?

[–]Land_of_the_Losersthe-niceguy.com 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's presupposed. As an unspoken condition for 'winning' her.

[–]PirateDocBrownJr. Hamster Analyst 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Never offer. If she asks, move on.

[–]DrDog09 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't forget the free STD as a future offering....

[–]bigdaveyl 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Here's one thing I find hypocritical of many of the "couples" that practice this: They have a rule where they aren't allowed to bring any if their other partners home. Because of that, I just view it as nothing more than sanctioned cheating.

[–]Ftpiercecracker1Jr. Hamster Analyst 76 points77 points78 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Purple hair, that's all I needed to see.

[–]Aromatic_Shop9033 22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

She's one of them Holdo-Sexuals. 😂

[–]Ftpiercecracker1Jr. Hamster Analyst 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Holdo?

[–]Land_of_the_Losersthe-niceguy.com 28 points29 points30 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I think it's a short-lived and poorly-written purple-haired character from one of the Disney star wars films.

Either that, or some minor town that got destroyed by the Hussites in the 1420s. I dunno. Six of one, half a dozen of the other. Who can tell nowadays. I'm just the dude who mops the floor.

[–]Aromatic_Shop9033 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Some silly purple haired woman in Star Wars.

[–]Ftpiercecracker1Jr. Hamster Analyst 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

never met her

[–]Adventurous_Link_847 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

a.k.a. Admiral Gender Studies

[–]Aromatic_Shop9033 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep.

"Muh oppressionzzz!"

[–]AdamsXCM101 16 points17 points18 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Kool-Aid head. Nope.

[–]Ftpiercecracker1Jr. Hamster Analyst 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If its not on the natural spectrum and its not Halloween it aint happening. Although to be honest if she wanted to do a little subtle coloring, even if its not on the natural spectrum, i dont think i would mind, but its has be subtle.

[–]Lord_Kano 67 points68 points69 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

She's 6 months away from "Where are all the good men?"

[–]SnakeEyeskidthrew her a dildo then went to play Zelda 39 points40 points41 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And a lifetime away from being able to get one...

[–]vegasbadboy702 70 points71 points72 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

“Am I doing something wrong”. No. You’ve DONE a whole lot of stuff wrong. Good grief, she’s got purple hair, a child, four dogs, she’s not sure what she wants but knows you have to be down with it being poly. I mean what guy isn’t looking for that situation?

[–]OverkillengineCasts Pearls to the Swine 42 points43 points44 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah see, most men are very wise to the fact that anything on the tier of relationship is going to end up with some imputed obligations, directly or indirectly for her expenses, of which her child is included in that calculus. The only time a relationship with a woman is free is if another man is stuck with the bill. Be it a husband, boyfriend, orbiter, or a relative like dear old Daddy handling her expenses. Otherwise, you are going to have to pay in some form.

She's basically expecting men to sign up to pay to be cucked/cheated on, and slapping a churched up label on it does not change the dynamic.

[–]KrazyJazz 38 points39 points40 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Jesus! What's not to like in such a wonderful car wreck? Who in his right mind doesn't want to be part of a purple haired (at almost 30), fat single mom's little harem on the prairie? Y'all are way too insecure and don't know what a real, open-minded women is! I bet y'all have small dicks. smh

Edit: /s, just in case.

[–]Joaquino7997[🍰] 26 points27 points28 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Looks like it's time for her to 'switch it up a bit' and get a cat, because that's the ONLY way any pussy is purring in her home.

[–]OverkillengineCasts Pearls to the Swine 26 points27 points28 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I mean if she was just looking for dick she could easily get that, plenty of guys will ejac and evac if no investment is needed.

But that means she is not getting her relation$hip needs met.

[–]madein1981 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ejac and evac! Haha! Well done 😂🤣

[–]SCCock 26 points27 points28 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

In nature bright colors is a warning to predators that the potential prey is poisonous.

Seems to be at work here.

[–]vtec_tt 28 points29 points30 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

there are so many of these wildabeasts out there across the midwest. fat, entitled, ridiculous.

want to know why so many men are checking out of society...?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, it's crazy to think men are over it, huh🤣.

[–]gorillalad 22 points23 points24 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

4 dogs, 4 dogs? 4 dogs! I wonder if even 1 knows sit as a command.

[–]BlackbarnabyjonesSuave Savage 20 points21 points22 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I wonder if even 1 knows sit as a command.

The hubby does.

[–]DoTheSnoopyDance 13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And watch.

[–]Sjohnsa526 18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Expecting a man to be willing to be a stepdad and share you when your a 5 is sickening

[–]BlackbarnabyjonesSuave Savage 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What's worse is if you take the deal, OR

you chad it up and just ding dong, and then give her the ding dong, and then dash,

Even if you pull this off,

you are one "oops" away from ruining a child's life forever by MAKING THIS CREATURE THEIR MOTHER.

Try explaining THIS MESS at the company picnic.

Or explaining it to the kid at 18 and having him NOT beat you to a pulp for fucking his life.

[–]hdjdjr3 13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You have not seen her tinder profile man. She is taking close picture because she is obese and does not want to show her body.

5 is average and she is far below that.

[–]Waratah888 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well atleast she's honest upfront, I suppose.

[–]AgentOrangeMRA 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well... she's a slut. And now we know how she became a single mother.

[–]Land_of_the_Losersthe-niceguy.com 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't care how tall you are if you have confidence

...But if you're short and confident, you're 'cocky' so she'll hate everything you say and do.

[–]LordBogus 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Suprised the comments are roasting her

[–]TachyonPhoenix 12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Barney that wants more meat than a German sausage factory.... Only a weak fool would even entertain this

[–]These-arent-my-pants 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She wants something poly but can’t get even one poor sap to sign up for that dumpster fire.

[–]sleepyweaselisawakePlowing his way through muck 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She wants a babysitter so she can fuck other dudes? Who wouldn't want that?

[–]Standard_Hat6784 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Any guy who's good enough to not be cucked by her has far better options than this.

[–]ObsidianAdonis 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Well, the good news from her profile is that every man is ghosting her, which means even thirsty, low value men are running away.

[–]Cristoff13Sr. Hamster Analyst 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She's not messaging average men. She's only messaging exciting, attractive men. At some level realises she can't get these men to commit, but she might get casual sex out of them. She's not actually "poly". Despite having this explained to her, she just refuses to listen.

[–]khatchewer 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Imagine being a woman and still losing in the dating marketplace. Pathetic.

[–]PirateDocBrownJr. Hamster Analyst 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I got no problem here. She can come over, Netflix and chill, and go home to her dogs, brat, and simp. The poison hair just means she's likely wild in the sack. The problem for me is a me thing, I don't do this for fatties. If she were thinner, I'd be on it.

Of course I'd double bag it. God knows what dose she carries.

[–]Sniffles_73 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She’s just answered her own question no guy is going to take on someone else’s kid single mom stay single. Rich guys won’t do it when they have options and guys don’t care about any kind of dating. Chivalry is dead and women killed it.

[–]Dunkman83 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

no one should own 4 dogs, unless you own 2 acre home or better, or if the dogs less than 10 inches long

[–]Previous-Hamster-587 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm down

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