"Successful" at loneliness

mustangfrank · 2023-11-28T23:00:48+00:00

Something is not right. Any woman, and I mean any woman can find a man to marry her. I suspect she wanted only the top 10% or less. I copied the comments from this site to post here. I think it explains everything.

Western women and girls are positively bombarded with affirmation from the moment they're born. On the other hand, she's also been told that masculinity is "toxic' and that "Boys are stupid" and that she should "Throw rocks at them." Is it any wonder that so many women think that their only real challenge in life is weeding out men they don't want?

From her perspective, she looks at herself and sees a goddess. She thinks, "I am absolutely fabulous, which means that I can have any man I want." Then she looks at all the men around her and thinks, "Gross! Only a few of them are worthy of me."

What kind of profile would she write? Probably one designed to wave off the "bottom" 80%. Why bother with the bottom feeders? She deserves nothing but the best. They should be beating a path to her door, right?

She's so wonderful that all she has to do is make the "top" men aware of her existence and availability, and they'll fight to qualify themselves to her. Isn't that how it's supposed to work?

In her fun years, she fucked for fun, but now it's time to "get serious" and put out an ad for daddy applications. Up until now, she'd ask dudes at bars for free drinks or appetizers and they'd give them to her. So why not do the same for a provider daddy-type? His needs, as always, are immaterial. A Good Man is there to provide. It's what he should want to do, unquestioningly, no matter how little there is in the deal for him. It's what he should scramble to do, and if he doesn't want to, then he's not a Good Man. He's not supposed to be acting in rational self-interest, he's supposed to be acting in HER interest, like the unthinking, self-sacrificing, non-human workhorse he should be.

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2023-11-29T01:09:12+00:00

Wasted her youth on hookups and now the only men who want her are 20 year olds looking for easy pussy and men she's not attracted to. Such is the life of the modern western woman.

Land_of_the_Losers · 2023-11-28T23:40:25+00:00

A perfectly lovely human being

I'll need a second opinion.

M_Ptwopointoh · 2023-11-29T01:24:26+00:00

college boyfriend (until age 21)

N = 1

happily single for a couple years

N ≥ 5

started dating again around 24 ... I didn't have another committed relationship until 32

N ≥ 10

I finally became so lonely that I did try some things that were really bad fits for me ... hookups ... friends with benefits

N ≥ 20

It's probably not a safe assumption that the college BF was #1, but at least its implied to be monogamous. Longest relationship was the very first, absolutely nothing stable or marriage-track since then (or ever, if the first one wasn't). But it's totally a big mystery why there's not a line of eligible bachelors waiting to get down on one knee and throw their lives away, what could the problem possibly be? Definitely not anything to do with her or her choices.

Joaquino7997 · 2023-11-28T23:34:56+00:00

So here I am, a perfectly lovely human being

I can see men having a hard time with dating, because as we all know, even women don't know what women want.

However, this right here is often said by over-educated, unappealing women. There are men on dating apps and IRL out there looking for someone special and all they seem to get is rejected for the most trivial reasons.

This woman is full of shit and in dire need of an enema.

Illustrious_Bus9486 · 2023-11-29T14:05:37+00:00

She wants a man who has options and can't understand why they will not choose her over those options. So much for that Masters degree.

silly_birb_Banned · 2023-11-29T13:31:16+00:00

"Where are the men that pick up the pieces?"

TwizzlersSourz · 2023-11-30T18:56:08+00:00

No woman is ever lonely.

Lonely in their dictionary is defined as "no commitment from Chad."

I have a coworker who complains about being single. She isn't model quality but is well-endowed, outgoing, and pretty enough. She is single by choice.

wellimout · 2023-11-29T14:57:11+00:00

Serious question: does it literally never occur to women to try celibacy until a man agrees to commitment? I mean, look at what this lady tried:

.1. Short-term dating, with guys that peaced out with 1.5-4 months

translation: she went on dates and had sex with men who never really wanted commitment. They just wanted sex. They got sex. Then they "peaced out"

.2. Hookups or longer-term lovers

translation: she let guys pick her up at a bar and fuck her (a hookup) and when she liked him she would keep coming back for more (lovers) but he never liked her. And if he could pick her up in a bar, he could pick up other women so ...that's what he kept doing.

.3. Friends with benefits

translation: she knew a guy who could lay pipe well, and was cool with her coming over for easy sex. They never even went on dates. This was a total waste of her time if she wanted a relationship.

had my last partner ... for 1.5 years, and he turned out to be commitment-averse

In all of these situations, if she had simply demanded commitment up front, these men would have say "nah." Instead, she gave up the sex, and wasted time - time, the most precious thing a woman has, because no woman has ever existed who was more attractive at 34 than she was a 21. Her "buying power" on the marriage market decreases every single day - tick, tock, tick, tock ladies; that's your buying power slipping away from you.

...slipping away while you flit from guy to guy with no plan. You "want" a life-long relationship, but you do fuck-all to obtain it.

I had a college boyfriend for 3 years

translation: she believed the lie that there was no rush, and she would be able to have whatever she wanted whenever she wanted it. Reality: she could have obtained marriage from a hundred different men while in college, especially if she didn't fuck them first.

Helpful-Towel857 · 2023-11-29T15:39:47+00:00

She's fat with a 30+ n-count.

Champter24 · 2023-11-29T17:48:26+00:00

in my local sub a 30+ chubby woman was asking why she cant find men to have relationship with

then she complained over bald men, so the men laughed her out, that as a chubby woman, she should be dating bald men, upon which she came with her hamster wheel, "what she prefers tee hee"

EfficientSimplicity · 2023-12-12T06:24:26+00:00

She’s so lovely no one wanted anything to do with her

Title	"Successful" at loneliness
Author	polishknightusa
Upvotes	98
Comments	61
Date	November 28, 2023 10:47 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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