Enter Chad cont.

bsutansalt · 2017-11-03T16:31:38+00:00

Smells like a troll. Removed.

BobbyPeru · 2017-11-02T21:04:05+00:00

1) What is your evidence she’s cheating?

2) Never abandon the residence

rasgaroht · 2017-11-02T21:00:05+00:00

isn't one of the rules in this case something like : "don't leave your home"

AlphadustBeta · 2017-11-02T21:07:31+00:00

Fortunately I am not experienced in these matters, but it seems to me you rationalized an excuse for leaving. I hope for you, your kids and, yes, your wife, that you do become a better self. Maybe that long stretch of sobriety will help you determine what you want.

drty_pr · 2017-11-02T21:35:22+00:00

It's your house. Why would younot go home to it?

Alphaphux · 2017-11-03T01:24:27+00:00

Why do I feel like you’re trolling all of us?

simbarlion · 2017-11-02T21:44:30+00:00

I remember oily balls.

This move will at least flush out her true intentions. Try to keep a straight head on for all of your interactions from this point on.

Let her do the talking. Don't accuse. Ask her what she sees in her future.

Best of luck.

thatboyjeff · 2017-11-03T09:39:22+00:00

I just dont get where her going into the backyard means something is up.

I also feel like we're missing more of the back story. Guess I gotta go through your post history, but I wont, because something feels off..

screechhater · 2017-11-03T11:07:00+00:00

Hey man congrats on your direction

I can only imagine the thoughts racing in you mind with the lie that finally did it for you

Stay strong and don' let her manipulate you. And, she is fucking someone else, from all you have written

Good luck

chachaChad · 2017-11-03T15:31:11+00:00

Well, good for you that you decided to do something even if that something was burn it all to the fucking ground in a messy display of childish emotion.

IndependentKirk · 2017-11-03T16:16:39+00:00

I am divorced and went through the whole "Is she cheating? Is she not" (she was) thing that you have been going through. Luckily I had no children with her so it was a clean cut. You have thrown an awkward poorly timed grenade into the relationship. You can at least hang your hat on that simple act of will and take the last remaining shred of dignity that it will give you and begin to build a new life. For myself, I held onto my principles that divorce was wrong, I made a commitment, and we could work it out. She left me. I should have dumped her whore ass at the curb when I discovered the cheating but I didn't and it really affected me for a long time. So good for you, at least.

But you really need to cut out the substance abuse.

bigOlBeta · 2017-11-03T17:02:44+00:00

Not a troll, just slow at implementing

bigOlBeta · 2017-11-03T21:03:47+00:00

I’m a shit head, a douchebag, a dumbass, and an asshole with the same problems that everyone else has

Title	Enter Chad cont.
Author	bigOlBeta
Upvotes	6
Comments	31
Date	November 2, 2017 8:57 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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