How do you gain respect from your wife/partner, It's the goal of this subreddit. But I found out that this also starts to work with other people in your life: friends, acquaintances, family members, co-workers, etc.

The issue is, since you're the captain of your ship, and your acquaintances and friends, or someone you've just met, are not part of your crew, you need to treat them differently from your partner. I haven't found good resources on how to treat those people correctly, unlike the good resources I've found on how to treat your partner here in this sub.

So, I'd love to know the subtle differences in how you hold frame, leadership, and gain respect from other people too, not only your partner.