Totally new to this whole world. Grabbed MMSLP, half way through it. Last night, I told the wife I needed to get in between her legs. She says, “sounds yummy, but let’s be romantic about it”. Ok, not really worried about how we fuck. We start drinking wine after kids in bed. Mood is set, conversation is good, and as I go to close- she says she would rather wait until the morning because she’s drunk. BS or maybe this what you guys refer to as hamster? Either way, from what I’ve read....the correct way to handle is to be calm and cool. I said, “so you’re saying no to me?”. She says, “is that ok?”. I say, “I’m not going to make you have sex with me, but I’m going to sleep”.

1.) WTF? 2.) Should I have handled it differently? 3.) How should I handle today?

Please give noob grace here...