Turning down makeup bj after arguments.

SteelToeShitKicker · 2018-10-18T20:32:01+00:00

If she wants to pay tribute to the king and say sorry with a BJ, why would you refuse?

Sometimes you noobs really just overthink shit.

BostonBrakeJob · 2018-10-18T21:44:08+00:00

Turning down the bj would be an ok power move. But if you REALLY wanna show the bitch, farm her monthly bj out to a dude. That'd show her who the fuck is in charge!

/s (I put this here because you might actually be retarded enough to take this seriously.)

screechhater · 2018-10-18T21:41:59+00:00

What in the fuck are you reading ???

We need to send your dumb ass to tutoring

MrChad_Thundercock · 2018-10-18T21:05:41+00:00

Only if she swallows...

RedLiftingStraps · 2018-10-18T21:04:26+00:00

Way, way too many nested convoluted levels of "if I think this then she thinks that then should I think this or that?". Living in your head, not in the actual present moment.

BJ's are good.

FF0000_captain · 2018-10-19T01:00:05+00:00

The fact that you practically keep a mental log of arguments to predict the next bj says a lot about whose frame you're in.

RPWolf · 2018-10-19T14:25:47+00:00

Sweet mother of God!! You are seriously analyzing BJ frequency and contemplating turning it down?? For what?

I swear to fuck, some of you new guys bitch about the stupidest shit ever.

Do you like your wife? If so, take the fucking BJ and cum down her throat.

Also, don't fucking hold on to a bullshit argument and throw it in her face 4 days later, thats horse shit that you even thought about it again.

[deleted] · 2018-10-18T22:31:34+00:00

I've got some issues in my marriage, but I've never put that much thought into such inane things.

You can't see your fucking cloying hands in front of you, by the fog of your overthinking all this shit.

rocknrollchuck · 2018-10-18T23:02:05+00:00

You need to let the little head do the thinking on this one.

SuperCrazy07 · 2018-10-19T06:40:45+00:00

Ok, I'm gonna take the unpopular approach.

I occasionally turn down BJ's from wifey. I don't have a dead bedroom (other issues, yes, but not that) and sometimes I know she wants to suck to grab frame and it's just like...I'm good.

She can't be shitty and then suck it and all is good 100% of the time. I'm actually a little surprised that so many endorsed people were ok with accepting pathetic "I'm sorry" BJ's.

RuleZeroDAD · 2018-10-19T15:03:22+00:00

I would never turn down a blowjob after an argument.

I would hate fuck a bitch's face though...

ChokingDownRP · 2018-10-19T15:14:41+00:00

Not only should you let her blow you, you should take what you want from the BJ - push her head down, pull her hair, cum in her mouth or on her face...however you want it. Stop making it about her, or about the argument and make it about you. She may protest your actions, but inside she wants you to man up and take what YOU want.

RedPillCoach · 2018-10-21T17:03:49+00:00

You are overthinking this.

If you want her to suck your dick I suggest you let her suck your dick.

This is far less complicated when you just ask yourself a simple question: What do I want?

Do you want to play stupid games and win stupid prizes or do you want a blowjob?

InChargeMan · 2018-10-19T13:25:34+00:00

Dude, you post way too much. This isn't your personal diary. Put in some work and figure your shit out on your own. Ask people for help on real issues, not this bullshit.

CalvinRichland · 2018-10-18T22:55:46+00:00

You sound like a girl. Overthinking blow job... wtf

straius · 2018-10-19T07:33:02+00:00

Do you want to sleep? Or do you want a BJ? Think no further.

470_2_700_nm · 2018-10-19T17:34:57+00:00

Like could you not get her to say I’m sorry while your dick is in her mouth over and over again? Again and again? (Insert multiple muffled “I’m sorry”) here.

spexer · 2018-10-19T18:10:05+00:00

Man you are so far into her frame.

'Why is she doing this! How should I respond to her?"

What the hell man. Do you. If you want it at the moment, take it. If you don't, don't.

chachaChad · 2018-10-19T14:00:36+00:00

Dude... if she didn't want to blow you, she wouldn't. A woman who doesn't want your cock in her mouth will find a way for that not to happen. She may not act like the cock hungry whore you see in porn but, on some level, she either enjoys it for herself and/or enjoys doing it for you.

You're a mess emotionally. Sounds like you a big baby. Calm down. Stop reacting to every little thing with an emotional meltdown.
When you get shot down, control yourself. It happens. Remember, you're awesome if she's giving you a beej or not. Doesn't mean she doesn't love you. Don't let a little rejection break your frame.
If you want less blowjobs, by all means, turn down the offer with some fake, lame ass excuse that she'll see through. It's not going to sound natural and it just makes you look more like a pouting child.
My guess is she's blowing you in order to connect with you on some level and to also do something that she knows makes you feel good. After people have blow ups, there is a repair period for the relationship. Tiny things that get resolved right away can be dismissed between the two of you quickly with a smile and a joke. Bigger things can take hours or days for you both to come back to some sort of equalization. Yes, we both lost our shit at each other but it's resolved now and we both love each other so let's demonstrate that somehow. Could be with a joke, a smile or a blow job.
She's not KEEPING YOU IN HER FRAME. Stop that shit right now. She's not some evil mastermind with a game plan on to trap and manipulate you. That's just victim talk. You're not a victim. You're a grown adult. Time to start acting like one. You're putting yourself in her frame hoping it will result in the type of behavior you want from her. That's a convert contract and it's good way to worry about shit you can't control.
You need to read the books in the sidebar. Until then, you calm the fuck down with all your emotional neediness. You don't need sex. You don't need love. You don't need a women in your life to make you complete. Stop that shit. You need you. You're and adult and you can meet all your own need yourself. Start your reading and, in the mean time, calm down. Stop trying to over thinking everything and control your wife's behavior. If anything, you should work on being awesome. Take a real good look at just how well you actually have it and how good your life actually is. Is anyone threatening your safety? Do you have enough to eat? Are you dying of some rare illness? No... then get back to work on your mission, take care of yourself and start taking care of your family like you love them.
You didn't go into detail about your wife verbally abusing your children. That is not acceptable behavior if that's what she actually did. It's hard to know if that was real or just you whining.

When someone, anyone is verbally abusing your kid, you, as a parent, have a responsibility to protect your child. When you see it, you leap into fucking action and you stop it. You don't go off the handle and lose your cool. You stay calm and move between the child and the adult. You interrupt her and you get the child to safety.

In a calm voice your tell you child, "Honey, Mommy and Daddy need a moment. Let's get you to your room. Everything will be fine. Mom and Dad are going for a chat let's get you busy playing with your toys. OK. I'll be back shortly. I love you."

You then return to your wife and ask to speak to her in private. DO NOT HAVE A YELLING FIGHT IN FRONT OF YOUR KIDS. Go somewhere where you can talk and tell her that her behavior was abusive (use the fucking word) and that it is not acceptable behavior and you will not allow anyone to abuse your child. She's going to go ballistic at this point. Let her. Stand right there and look her straight in the face and let her talk. Hold your ground. Your child needs you. Are you man enough to stand up for your child? Let her yell. When you speak to her, you speak calmly. You tell her what she did. You tell her it's not acceptable and that you will not allow it. She'll come at you with all she's got. Who are you to talk you short, fat bald fucker with a tiny dick? What about you? You always yell. Your mother's a bitch. What about... Don't engage any of that shit. It's just an attempt to get you to focus on something else. Keep on track until you have her commitment to change her behavior. If you've been shitty to your kids, you tell her that you're taking the same commitment and that together, both of you will be better parents.

You came here looking for advice on how to get your wife to give you a better blow jobs but the real problem here is that you're weak man and bad parent.

Here's some simple advice directly related to the BJ... If she offers tonight, instead of you being a boring little beta boy about it, why don't you be awesome and have fun with it. If she's giving you what you need, can you figure out what she needs from the interaction to give her something in return?

*Full Disclosure... When my son was little, there were a couple of times my wife went full on ballistic at him and I didn't intervene because I was too afraid of her reaction. I regret not stand up for my son when I should have. That's a rotten feeling to live with.

Title	Turning down makeup bj after arguments.
Author	jimmyjohncocks
Upvotes	2
Comments	26
Date	October 18, 2018 8:22 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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