Weaponized kids

red-sfpplus · 2018-05-13T02:49:39+00:00

I truly DNGAF about the sex. Past being butthurt there

No, no you are not.

*She texts me constantly every time I go do one of my activities *

Boundary. If it's not a fucking emergency, you don't respond to shittexting.

DeplorableRay · 2018-05-12T23:50:26+00:00

There’s no way a woman finds you attractive, but won’t have sex with you because of a beard. If you were attractive enough to dread, she’d fuck you. Keep lifting.

red-sfpplus · 2018-05-13T01:48:37+00:00

Using kids in an argument is a hard boundary for me. I do not see it as a shit test. It is disrespectful to everyone. Most of all the kids and shows her true solipsistic nature

You can try the below statement. Or you can just nuke it plainly.

I do not negotiate with terrorists, taking (or trying to take) hostages does not change that fact.

She will read between the lines.

If she doesn’t then be more overt.

If you have a problem with me, fine. But don’t bring the kids up again. Period.

Bottom line it is your job to protect the kids. Esp from terrorists like her.

This is one thing that gets under my skin more than anything else about women. They will toss their own kids under the fucking bus if needed.

Rian_Stone · 2018-05-13T02:31:48+00:00

Big power struggle that I am determined to win by focusing on my mission

ever hear you shouldn't play with pigs in the mud?

She uses the kids as the moral high ground in many arguments that have nothing to do with the kids so it’s me being a bad father by not being in her frame.

She says this to hurt you, because she would be hurt if someone called her a bad mother. Do what you like with this into, except engage.

SteelSharpensSteel · 2018-05-12T23:09:17+00:00

Beard continues to grow.

Glorious.

"I don’t negotiate with terrorists"

Damn, son, someone just took his balls back!

Anything I can do to shut down the weaponized kids shit test?

Essentially, you need to own your shit here. Create a vision. Create a mission. Create a plan. Buy yourself a calendar to put on the wall. Fill it out, set the schedule. Additionally, do research and work to see what you can do to help your son with the situation. Own it.

This is not to say that you allow her to be shitty to you. THAT behavior needs to stop, per the normal ways of dealing with shit tests.

Persaeus · 2018-05-13T04:06:12+00:00

Relative to beard and her not fucking

“That’s not what she said or my girlfriends like it just fine.”

Relative to the shit testing on kids. It’s a very hard boundary. Ignore , or nuke it. If you can’t manage these kids “what exactly am I keeping you around for”. If that doesn’t work; hire a sitter and outsource the cunt.

No sex for 2 weeks , your a single father. Operate accordingly.

Fritz_Frauenraub · 2018-05-13T09:53:23+00:00

My wife pulled the same shit on me when I was starting to extricate from her frame. With her female acuity she knew that the kid was the chink in my SMPO and she was right--the blue pill conditioning associated with "being a good dad" was the prime factor in my betaization.

One time when I was leaving to do man stuff against her wishes she grabbed her coat and ran down the stairs past me to beat me to the door saying "oh no you don't. You're staying here to take care of your daughter!" To my shame, I actually got sucked into her frame and engaged in a ridiculous game of "who is more willing to leave the baby alone" chicken that lasted all the way down the stairs, out the door, through the vestibule, front door, courtyard, front gate to the sidewalk before I came to my senses.

Two things helped with this issue. First, working the hell out of Dread Level 1. Second, OYS as regards the child.

Rollo, in his masterpiece "Positive Masculinity" (the best book in the Rational Male trilogy) makes the theoretical point, which I had never seen articulated before, that there has been a society-wide movement of females using the child issue to gain control over masculinity and reorient male SMPO to beta ends.

drty_pr · 2018-05-13T13:20:17+00:00

The trick is to realize you fo your fair share with the kids and then figure out a way to not feel guilty for leaving.

creating_my_life · 2018-05-13T22:44:36+00:00

Your wife isn't afraid that you might leave her. Why is that?

gameoflibidos · 2018-05-14T14:39:43+00:00

start taking the kids and go do something with them and leave her alone when she's being shitty. If you take them with you a lot, she can't possibly be bitching at you for neglecting them at bedtime. Because that would be assinine

Chump_No_More · 2018-05-14T19:27:09+00:00

Using the kids to knock you out of your frame is bullshit, shut that down.

Otherwise, I see the rest of her behavior as affirmation that you're on the path to restoring you as your mental point of origin.

Her behavior is typical.

A woman will only give desire sex to a man her hypergamy deems worthy and shit testing is her innate strategy for satisfying her hypergamic doubt of your worthiness. If you're a beta chump, she has zero hypegamic doubt that you're a loser and the best you get is contempt.

So, it's either contempt or shit testing. And it never ends... only the frequency and intensity changes.

Understand that her limbic responses (sexual strategy, self-preservation) are immediate (out of necessity), while the emotional & cognitive are a bit delayed. So the sex increases until her hamster realizes she's lost control of the relationship and her hypergamic doubt kicks in and freak outs with hysterical use of strong emotion commence. You have a lot of negative momentum to overcome before it gets better.

Stay on target.

Title	Weaponized kids
Author	alphasixfour
Upvotes	7
Comments	35
Date	May 12, 2018 11:00 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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