Was with my ex for 2 years. It ended badly with her lying, cheating, branch swinging and talking a bunch of shit about me afterwards. She's been with the guy for 6 months or more now, we've had no contact, but her actions have been... strange. She still asks about me and drives by my home and places I'm known to frequent.

The new guy is much older, out of shape, looks naive as hell and an obvious downgrade from me. She has looked miserable the few times I have seen her.

Last night was the first time we were in the same bar at the same time. I was talking to two women at the side of the dancefloor when my exes new partner approached me. He asked if I was (name). My ex was standing behind him, she gave me a wave and a smile. He then introduced himself as her partner and extended his hand to shake. I took a sip of my drink, looked him in the eyes and said "I'm not shaking your hand" then he went into a rant of abuse! He started swearing at me, called me pathetic and seemed real angry. The two women I was with were like "what the fuck is this about?" then he walked off with my ex who kept looking over my way.

I took one of the girls to the bar and we had a drink together. I filled her in on who the guy was, she had figured, begged me not to fight him and told me that I was 10 times better looking than this guy. We started getting friendly at the bar, talking, hugging a little and then she started kissing me.

Everytime I looked out over the venue, my ex was looking at me, trying to get my attention. I gave her none. Even as she danced with this guy, she was looking over his shoulder at me. At one point the guy went to the bathroom, I watched her through the mirror behind the bar, she just stood there watching me and this girl.

After a little while, the new girls friend came over and I suggested we all go to a different bar. We downed our drinks and the three of us walked out the door with my ex clearly watching me every step I took lol

So... thoughts? How'd I do?

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