What do you do if you dont like hookup culture/clubs/bars?

Fonzea- · 2017-03-23T19:28:10+00:00

Day game them when they're queuing up for their Starbucks cup of shit.

needless_pickup_line · 2017-03-23T20:43:02+00:00

Social circle game

brideboy · 2017-03-23T21:05:42+00:00

Talk to everyone and get really good at making casual conversation in everyday life.

Then start asking girls back to your house or to casual dates for some easy relations.

brinkleybuzz · 2017-03-23T21:21:56+00:00

guitar

Develop your skills and play gigs. They'll come to you.

ashleyshafer27 · 2017-03-23T23:16:54+00:00

Your answer was in your post. You're in college. You're constantly spoon fed hordes of bitches in all your classes. Interact with them.

WolfAlphaDad · 2017-03-23T21:40:18+00:00

Girls are everywhere. Library, stores, malls, gyms. Openers work best when they're based in context. I was at the grocery store, and passed a woman on three consecutive aisles. I.made a comment about us doing this dance all through the store. She laughed, and played with her hair. I introduced myself, complimented her choice of necklace (it was a Tree of Life, and I'm Celtic), and we started talking. Within about a min she initiated kino by leaning in a touching my arm as she talked. I got a number and was gone.

Seriously, anywhere women are in regular day to day places, are perfectly fine places to meet them. In fact, places like the grocery, and at parks, they're defences aren't as high as when they're out at a pub or clubbing. You just have to see the opportunities and make the first step.

Luis_McLovin · 2017-03-23T22:35:02+00:00

HAVE. HOBBIES.

ebringr · 2017-03-23T20:48:59+00:00

Do the hobbies that make you happy. Plenty of women like the same things you do

RPthrowaway_007 · 2017-03-24T04:09:34+00:00

Save money

Docbear64 · 2017-03-23T23:31:42+00:00

Playing the guitar at the beach ( if you live near one) sounds like an easy way to practice and have a good time . If an interested chick who you think is cute walks by then go for it right ?

Cunt_Robber · 2017-03-24T01:32:06+00:00

Is it that youre not into going out or that you haven't found a group of friends you feel comfortable doing that (or other social activities) with?

I consider myself lucky in college. I made friends with a couple friends my first year and together we started this "group" of friends that then would hang out together all the way until the last semester, and then some, as a few of us hung around after graduating. I did everything with these friends, threw parties, went on trips, judt hung out, binge watched Netflix, etc. I would end up meeting girls all the time and just getting to know the basics about them: where theyre from, what they study, what theyre into. If youre not into ONS maybe youll find a lucky lady to go steady with this way. But find some people first, set yourself up.

Abadalt · 2017-03-23T19:56:38+00:00

You probably live in a poor person place (like many of us do). Rich people places have women (pretty women) everywhere. Think places where you can accidentally run into people you don't know, and everyone has to walk. Town centers, cities, colleges, etc.

Work hard, get there. You can do all of those things, and still get laid on accident.

Title	What do you do if you dont like hookup culture/clubs/bars?
Author	brwntable
Upvotes	37
Comments	48
Date	March 23, 2017 7:17 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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