Why are women so boring?

tombreck2 · 2015-03-14T22:37:46+00:00

Go volunteer or do habitat for humanity; you'll meet girls who actually do interesting things in their free time

RedPillGold · 2015-03-14T22:20:54+00:00

The hobby enjoyed by all women is social interaction. Seriously. They love the drama that comes with relationships and friendships. They even love the drama that their friends are experiencing.

Edit:

If you've ever wondered why a lot of girls watch TV shows where nothing happens but conversation - its the same principle. Keeping Up With Kardashians is one of the most uneventful shows on TV right now but Kim and the girls know how to create drama out of nothing and give their female viewers a chemical cocktail full of emotion.

karmasutur3 · 2015-03-14T23:06:28+00:00

I swear non of these girls were interesting

Because in our current culture, they don't have to be.

cheekybarstard · 2015-03-15T06:51:38+00:00

They're not all boring. Some of them are hilarious.

But i have to say, there's a good majority who are SOOO BORING.

I'm in my 30's, and i tell ya, i just don't try anymore. If they're boring, i don't respond. I come off as indifferent, because i am.

The worst is when you make a half decent joke, and they put you down for it. I tell them to get a sense of humour, and then ignore them.

Go for the girls who actually enjoy themselves. Oh, and that involves more then YOGA. Every. Single. Girl does YOGA. BORING.

gu4po · 2015-03-14T22:30:29+00:00

The short answer is, that to get what they want, women need not be interesting. They're simply not as eager to please, in non-sexual situations, as men are. The late, great Chrisopher Hitchens explored this subject in a brilliant essay for Vanity Fair, called "Why Women Aren't Funny" [Archived link on the Wayback Machine].

machimus · 2015-03-14T22:54:10+00:00

To be honest, a lot of people are really boring. This is what I use as my litmus test to ensure my RP assessment of a given woman is fair. Most men bore me to death as well, but that's not to say I'm impolite about it.

I'd say the difference is, women's hobby seems to be social interests, and since that also bores me the net effect is that women are more boring on average. That's why crazy women are so fun, although that's a lecture for another day.

mindfucks · 2015-03-15T00:34:19+00:00

It doesn't get any better with age, either. They just accumulate baggage.

Sepean · 2015-03-14T23:38:24+00:00

My dogs aren't interesting. They are incredibly boring to listen to in fact. However, they are fun to play with, rewarding to train and pleasant to pet.

This is the mindset you need to enjoy their company.

Rhunta · 2015-03-14T22:26:44+00:00

It is true that only a few women are interesting. You have to make it fun for yourself. Tease them and challenge them. If something isn't interesting make it interesting.

PublicallyViewable · 2015-03-14T23:15:33+00:00

They had no hobbies except from watching movies or listening to music or some shit. Only one of them did sports

They're plenty interesting. You're just not embracing them in the right way, or you don't find the same things entertaining. I broke up with my first and only girlfriend because of this. She didn't seem to do shit in my mind. I'm like "What the fuck do you do all day?", because I spend like 6 hours a day minimum of playing games, and even though it's pointless, it's an actual tangible hobby that I'm working on, whereas she was incapable of riding a bike, or playing games, or running, or even skipping fucking rocks on a lake.

But you'll find women have their own talents and own interesting values of their own, normally based more around social interaction. They're boring to you because you don't value this social interaction in the same way. To you, a movie is fun for the hour and a half, but ultimately a waste of time beyond that. To her, a movie is an experience to share with friends or loved ones that builds bonds and sparks fun discussion that will be relevant in future conversations. To you, music is something you listen to on your bus ride to school. To her, music is deeply connected to her emotion and is something which fully takes her in the moment.

real-boethius · 2015-03-15T02:00:55+00:00

Related: Why women aren't funny

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8S692f1tnuQ

SpinPlates · 2015-03-15T14:30:27+00:00

"I do not have a single female friend. I really don’t. I’ve never met a girl that is funnier or as pleasant to be around than one of my good male friends. Woman are not as pressured to be accepted by peers as men, therefore they do not hone their social skills as much as men. A young man is constantly practicing and improving his social etiquette and demeanor so the opposite sex will be interested in him, a girl just sits back and lets it come to them, generally riding on their good looks to make it through a social gathering without having to put too much brain power into the whole ordeal. This is why women are for the most part, boring as fuck. Thus why I do not have any female friends."

https://relaximhilarious.wordpress.com/2014/03/08/hydro-platonic/

drqxx · 2015-03-15T01:12:52+00:00

Travel abroad

You are young start looking into backpacking across Europe. (Assuming your in the USA)

through_a_ways · 2015-03-15T06:12:14+00:00

Women were not ever naturally selected to have interesting hobbies.

Innovative/curious guys could often become better hunters or providers, enabling them to have more children.

Women have never been culled, and men have been culled to hell. Hypothetically speaking, a eugenicist would do well to focus almost exclusively on the females of a species, as that's where all the weak genes get passed on.

Noculum · 2015-03-15T00:14:48+00:00

I've met lots of interesting women, and lots of boring men. My advice actually, is to talk to women from different countries. Sure theire English is shit but they have lots to say.

Luckyluke23 · 2015-03-15T04:16:16+00:00

becuse they don't feel like they have to try. i mean if you had 100 chodes throwing themselves at you would you bother?

then again they are 17( i'm assuming could be younger, maybe older)

you are part of the internet age ( which has fucked social interactions to all hell) so everyone is going to be boring.

i had a girl tell me once that she spend 3 hours a day look at facebook. FACEBOOK FFS and that was BEFORE instagram, snap chat, kik, everything else that came after it.

oldredder · 2015-03-15T14:07:35+00:00

Most women are stupid. Some are not. Almost every girl age 17 is an idiot with rare exception. Ya, there's the smart kids and also some of those smart girls are hot. It's a thing, it happens, good genetics doesn't always rob a girl of one or the other. But generally most women are boring as shit because they aren't smart, aren't ambitious and haven't done much.

Half the reason they slut it up, aside from needing dick inside her as a physical urge, is to brag about it later because literally nothing else she does in her life will be exciting, interesting or in any way worthy of a conversation.

She won't design buildings, computers, cars or build things with her hands 99% of the time. She won't understand advanced chemistry, physics or the real politics of war and money-laundering. What will she know?

Fucking make-up and celebrity gossip. Ya, that's real exciting.

Women aren't built mentally or physically like we are: that limits their ability to do the things we do or enjoy them at all. Trade-off: they can make babies, we men can not. As the species goes that's pretty important.

Johnny10toes · 2015-03-15T04:38:52+00:00

Do interesting stuff with them. They're sidekicks that you can bring anywhere.

errrzarrr · 2015-03-15T16:35:25+00:00

Girls have been diluded by modern frivolous culture that they don't have to do nothing at all, nothing. They've been told they don't have to learn or do anything useful; no cooking, keep neat clothes or keeping house clean anymore.

In the entertainment department they just sit and wait some jester appear and make some tricks. If he fails he will be given a cold face and be seen as a fool. He do it ok then she laughs. Good buffoon.

Want to eat with her? OK, burden is on you. Is your duty to have the nerve to approach (not even a single mistake tolarated here), make the proposal, if it's accepted you choose place, hour, correct weather, correct dish and pay. Don't try to be democratic or social by asking for opinions. You just somehow have to know it all.

No. They aren't boring per se. In fact, they are lot of fun. They just have been spoiled by our frivolous and marxist modern pussified culture.

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Fentrix · 2015-03-15T11:55:24+00:00

I can't but notice that girls are so fucking boring.

This is one of the biggest problems I have with dating. Too often women expect me to entertain them, but I'm not a fucking clown for their amusement, they need to put in or I'll become dismissive. I have too many, far more interesting things to do and people to be with to put up with a one sided conversation. One time, I was so annoyed, I pulled my phone out and started texting one of my plates.

Especially when you are so young like you it can be a huge issue, younger girls just are compeletely vapid. When I was 16/17, I was dating a 21 year old just to get away from that. However, all I can say is that you just need to keep meeting people and vet them better for being interesting before the date. When I'm in acquire mode (I'm not right now now. Kind of in "divest" mode lol), I'll meet 20+ women a day, most of which are short interactions. Even with all that, it can take weeks before I find a girl interesting enough for a second date. Months to find one that I want to spend a longer amount of time with. It's important to note that multiple long term relationships are my goal, so if it's not your goal this will be even longer.

I can say that it will get better as you get older. If you go to college, there will still be the vapid airheads but there will be a lot of women there that are there to learn and have an internal drive. College admission is a good prequalifier for you.

Hamilton5M · 2015-03-15T03:45:21+00:00

Blame evolution.

Find the strongest genetic pairing
Then find the strongest provider (not always the same male)
Be wary of all women who may replace you, to the point of hostility and violence.
Protect children to the death

That sums up women in their entirety.

Title	Why are women so boring?
Author	rpthrowaway50
Upvotes	7
Comments	93
Date	March 14, 2015 10:13 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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