100 Dating Tips For Men From A PUA

g1h2 · 2012-02-26T21:36:41+00:00

You know the advice is good when you have PUA tips from Yoda

throwAwayObama · 2012-02-26T20:54:21+00:00

That was great. My biggest take home lession

The number one mistake men make with physical escalation is they think that kissing / hand holding comes first. These are heavy investments on the girl's part and they won't be welcomed without sufficient comfort and arousal. The first place you start the arousal process is with your hand on her lower back.

Running / cycling / swimming intensely for 20-50 minutes before a date is a great way to prepare. It gets your blood flowing which both sharpens you mentally and improves your complexion for a few hours after completion.

Mundane questions like "Where are you from?" "What do you do?" or "What are your hobbies?" are OK to ask. Every sentence out of your mouth doesn't have to be an avalanche of DHV rubbish or the most entertaining thing she has heard all day. Often just conveying the fact that you're normal is enough to score a date with most girls.

The Dunning-Kruger Effect, Lawrence Kohlberg's Stages of Moral Development, and Motivated Reasoning are three important reads for understanding basic hum-an psychology in pickup. Look them up in Wikipedia.

Net game tip: go for chicks without pictures up, they are either ugly and shy or extremely hot and hate getting spammed. You should be able to figure this out with a read through their profile and a few email exchanges.

aypez · 2012-02-26T16:54:00+00:00

This was quite an interesting read.

However, what do you mean by using the quote from 300?

"Give them nothing, but take from them everything." - Leonidas, 300.

If this means being vague/mysterious and letting them qualify themselves to you, then I understand. I just got a bit confused/worried that you were going against the pick-up 'rule' of leaving women better off than you first found them.

ColonelKurtzPhD · 2012-02-27T00:48:00+00:00

Internalizing all the tiny details of game will come in time.

A hundred times this! Game DOES become internalized.

You see that charming, fun guy on the corner with the amazing blonde in his arms? Chances are, he also had to get over his insecurity, bad posture, and approach anxiety. He came thru with it and now he doesn't even think about it, because he INTERNALIZED what he PRACTICED.

You can be this guy too, if you put the effort in.

AlephBaTa · 2012-02-26T19:27:48+00:00

Good list. I am happy there's a PUA out there who's not afraid to emphasize the importance of elite physical fitness as a practical necessity in pick-up these days.

noodlecat4 · 2012-02-26T23:12:42+00:00

Can someone explain> #88 :Don't shit where you eat.

murdahmamurdah · 2012-02-26T19:41:06+00:00

24 "No means no except when it means yes."

ಠ_ಠ I understand that sometimes women can be resistant but the phrasing of that is just far too close to rationalizing date rape for my taste.

keikenamarinai · 2012-02-27T00:37:18+00:00

Can you clarify point 33? Quote:

Sex is for you not them. Exit the slave mentality and focus on finding your own pleasure in the bedroom. Don't try to fit the square peg in the round hole just because someone else told you that's where it belongs.

CumClot · 2012-02-27T02:12:40+00:00

Ahh the lower back touching really helped me out. I just started doing it. Felt so natural.

AnAdventureCore · 2012-02-27T04:25:26+00:00

Sex is for you not them. Exit the slave mentality and focus on finding your own pleasure in the bedroom. Don't try to fit the square peg in the round hole just because someone else told you that's where it belongs.

What if I find pleasure in GIVING pleasure?

2012-02-27T05:04:20+00:00

Is that true about online profiles without pictures? I guess it doesn't hurt to try, but I would love to hear from people having success on this avenue.

b0b157 · 2012-02-27T07:34:47+00:00

Never thought I'd see a GoT reference on seddit! Upboat for you!

sinking_sunk · 2012-02-26T12:10:37+00:00

Fuck flavored chapstick. If I wanted to kiss a candle, I would have.

...would have stayed home with my flavored candle collection, that is.

Simon_oa · 2012-02-27T01:22:35+00:00

Net game will give you lots of practice interacting with women without the anxiety of approaching. It's a good place to start getting comfortable with women, and an easy place to score dates.

I really taught it was badminton and tennis ... but obviously it was online chat ... Still, what do you think of theses sports ? Don't they fit in this one ?

24rubikscube · 2012-02-27T02:16:42+00:00

It isn't opening for me. Don't know why. I'll try again tomorrow. Look forward to reading it.

chesterjosiah · 2012-02-27T05:15:37+00:00

solero85 · 2012-02-27T12:38:07+00:00

Alcohol increases testosterone in the short term. Testosterone makes you more confident and hornier. It also makes women more confident and hornier.

This is bullshit - you should cut this out. Maybe a really really really short term. But alcohol has a lot of negative effects -> it leads to excessive production of estrogen (female hormons) - thats why alcohol has such bad influence on working out and on muscle gains. A night of binge drinking can affect your workout schedule for 7-10 days (in a negative way) - there are a lot of studies who prooved this.

boozeboobsbudbbq · 2012-02-27T18:41:44+00:00

Treat your friends and brothers in the field with respect.

Box-Monkey · 2012-03-03T00:42:38+00:00

I really don't like #14. Alcohol is a crutch, though I suppose it will giev you an advantage. But when you are without it, like any crutch, it only leaves you falling down.

Edit: Fuck, #59 is pretty awful, too. I'm a firm believer in leaving people better off than when you found them.

puaCurveBall · 2012-02-26T21:38:15+00:00

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vinyl_brat_ · 2012-02-27T19:34:47+00:00

This is the most sexist, stupid shit I have ever read.

Whisper · 2012-02-26T23:34:29+00:00

Feminists are our friends. Without the sexual liberation of women there can be no sexual liberation of men.

Bwwhaahahaahahahahaahahahahh downvote.

You just told me that you don't understand the real dynamics of the sexual marketplace at all, you've just learned some of the buttons to push, more or less by rote.

Title	100 Dating Tips For Men From A PUA
Author	TokyoPickup
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Date	February 26, 2012 11:59 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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24 "No means no except when it means yes."