I’ve had a lot of success (and failures) with women over the years, and these are the 35 rules I’ve come up with based on my experiences.

Long read but I’m curious to know which ones you guys agree or disagree with.

DISCLAIMER: These are just my opinions, and shouldn’t be taken too seriously.

  1. No girl is too hot to suck dick.

  2. A girl is allowed to be crazy, as long as she’s equally hot.

  3. It’s not cheating if you’re not the one in a relationship.

  4. Never use the boyfriend’s or husband’s condoms.

  5. Don’t eat where you shit. Never go after a neighbor, classmate or colleague.

  6. Never chase. Whenever you get cold vibes from a girl, leave her and move onto the next.

  7. Never simp. Don’t bend over backwards for any girl.

  8. If you don’t approach her, someone else will.

  9. Know more about the girl than she knows about you (especially in the beginning)

  10. Never tell her your intentions until you know hers.

  11. Never say “I love you” if you don’t mean it.

  12. Never have a dinner or movie as a first date.

  13. Best first date ideas are drinks, walks in the parks or a simple cup of coffee.

  14. Never go to a noisy place on your first date. Go to a place where you can comfortably have a conversation with the girl.

  15. If the girl was way too easy to fuck the first time, you will never value her.

  16. Whenever a girl tells you she’s a virgin, don’t act like it’s a big deal. Tell her you respect that, ask her why, and keep the conversation moving from there.

  17. Never sit across the table on the first date. Sit next to her.

  18. Break the touch barrier as quickly as possible.

  19. Always have enough money to pay for the date just in case, and offer to pay for the date, unless she insists otherwise.

  20. Go on your first date to a place you know reasonably well that is within 10 minutes drive or walk to your house.

  21. Before going out on a date, make sure that your house (or at least your room) is clean and welcoming. Lay the bed with a clean bedsheet.

  22. Open doors for her, be a gentleman and be nice to the people she sees you interacting with. (Don’t be a dick to waiters).

  23. Always be positive, nobody wants to be around anyone that is always complaining.

  24. Always have hobbies and stories ready to tell her about. For example it could be about when you got in trouble as a child.

  25. Don’t take yourself too serious, be funny and lighthearted around her.

  26. Use the FORD method. Get her talking about her Family, her Occupation, Recreation and her Dreams.

  27. Don’t be afraid to open up to a girl (even if it’s false honesty) let her believe that you’re open to her and not hiding anything.

  28. Never tell a girl you love her just because you want to fuck her.

  29. Be honest about exactly what you want. If you’re looking for love tell her. If you just wanna fuck, tell her. If she’s not down for that, another girl will.

  30. Men like what they see, women like what they hear. You have to communicate with a girl very well and tell her the right things.

  31. Cold approach is a number’s game. You will not always get the girl’s number.

  32. You will not be successful with all the girls you talk to.

  33. Set your boundaries early, be assertive, and don’t be too readily available 24/7 in the beginning.

  34. There is never the “right time” to go for a kiss. Go for it whenever you feel like it. (Be reasonable though)

  35. Never make plans with a girl further in the future than the amount of time you’ve been going out. Except if you plan on getting married to.

EDIT: 35 rules not 30.