Are girls really that easy?

Woujo · 2017-05-07T14:19:22+00:00

No. Guys here, like guys everywhere, lie about how awesome they are with girls.

GlassJ0E · 2017-05-07T16:58:17+00:00

Keep in mind the stories found here comprise a "highlight reel" of sorts.

I expect that the tales of extended courting, wasted time, and outright dismissal are grossly underrepresented on this sub.

muirnoire · 2017-05-07T14:27:48+00:00

This sub is currently infested with blogger wannabes spinning bullshit to get hits.

Ragondux · 2017-05-07T18:02:46+00:00

I'd say girls are "easier" than nice guys think, which doesn't mean they are easy, or that it's easy to become the kind of guy who easily fucks them.

The key to understand this is that (good looking) girls always have the option of being slutty. Maybe most of the time they are very prude, but if at one point in their life they are horny and relaxed, there is a dozen available guys around. A girl isn't "easy" because she was easy once (or twice, or more). It's the same difference as being drunk sometimes and being a drunk.

MonkeyFist4150 · 2017-05-07T15:44:46+00:00

A girl pretty much knows within 3 seconds if she's gonna suck your cock. You can't read minds, however so you just have to play the game until she actually does.

nefosjb · 2017-05-08T01:11:24+00:00

why don't you just go out and try to make out with a random girl on the street and find it out ? a lot of guys here just lie or exagarate about their interaction here just to feel good about themselves

tony18215 · 2017-05-08T03:00:37+00:00

I used to be like you naive..I used to think all girls had self respect and guys were always the pigs...I was wrong..Alot of girls are like us and want sex and just want a fun time.I realized this when I turned 20 and was in uni..Once I found this out I got more chicks and lots of hookups/one night stands.I used to be passive and felt like girls wanted a guy to respect them and wait for sex.Now im a little more aggressive and forward and alot of girls like it and give the pussy up that night.If I know a girls interested now I go for a kiss or grind on them and hold there hand and then even ask them to get it on.Old me would of been shy and maybe said hi and got a number and wouldnt get any action for weeks or ever

ethical_slut · 2017-05-08T06:57:25+00:00

Women can be just as promiscuous as men.

Though what a woman is comfortable doing at any given moment is going to be much more specific as well as dependent on their mood and context of the situation.

Playing to the situation, a persons receptiveness and their specific preferences will generally get desired results no matter what their sex is.

Women are sexual creatures with physical needs and desires. Entice one with something they want in a way they feel comfortable and there's a good chance they will go for it.

Present anyone with attraction and minimal to no negative consequences and they will be inclined to act on it.

In this regard, appearing conventionally attractive goes a long way. Otherwise you have a short window of time to convince someone that they desire you for whatever reason. Reading people and their receptiveness is crucial otherwise you can waste your time.

Typically, it is attractive/charismatic guys that approach women when they are most receptive to making out and hooking up. Festivals, clubs, parties. Venues where it is socially acceptable for women to do those things is where the magic happens. You're not going to convince anyone upon meeting to make out with you in a library or grocery store.

Tldr; Women want sex too, but great sex served on a silver platter only when they feel like eating.

Zetland · 2017-05-08T10:02:24+00:00

I've slept with the past six girls I dated on the first date, so I feel like I'm in a good position to answer this question. And my answer would be yes and no. Girls are easy in that they enjoy sex, so they want to have a lot of it. But unlike men, sex isn't a win-win scenario. They don't want the social stigma and, at least on some primal level, they don't want to risk getting pregnant from a guy who won't be able to protect or provide for his new family.

Of the past six girls, three of them were new to the area, so there wasn't really a risk of people finding out about them, two had recently split up with their exes, in most cases they were saving me an expensive taxi journey back to my place. This was in a university town too, so it's a much less conservative atmosphere - some girls felt empowered because they were doing what they wanted regardless of what people might think.

So it's possible, but it really depends on how attractive you are and what the social risk is.

kalolilo · 2017-05-08T10:50:23+00:00

Girls are sexual beings just like men, maybe even more sexual.

However, they can't show it because guys like you will tell them they're slutty.

To rephrase your assumption, girls are not easy in general. They are "easy" when the guys has really good game, i.e. can make her comfortable and attracted at the same time, and is completely non-judgemental.

You can even sleep with girls within 10 minutes if you're good and the situation is right. Stop judging girls for that. They are only human beings that were hurt some time, that are just trying to make it and enjoy the time on earth they have.

chickenshitmchammers · 2017-05-07T23:59:17+00:00

Dudes lie, but I've also seen some real shameful shit in my day. And even taken part in a few of those scenarios.

bolupua · 2017-05-08T01:23:57+00:00

Is not that easy even if you pay them to fuck.

Even if she like you, you have to date her and just then, they will let you fuck her.

And that, if she likes you. If she don't like you or couldn't care less...good luck.

Jack__Knife · 2017-05-08T16:45:10+00:00

Not everything that goes on deep inside of a woman's mind, (we would be endlessly discussing it) but on sexual matters. Her deepest, darkest carnal ways, that she will hide from everyone, except a real man who knows how to unleash it.

Does it always happen? No. But the more often it happens, the more often it happens. Weird.

Are girls slutty? Yes. You just need to be the key to unlocking that inner slut!.

How?

You need to understand, although just as, or more lust-worthy. It's different for women. Sex starts and ends in her mind. Her roller coaster ride of emotions and sensations that attack her brain while you two are doing the mating dance. (Date).

sort-of-single · 2017-05-09T19:25:50+00:00

Only if you are in the right place at the right time and dont say anything to fuck it up.

Statistics lesson for this sub:

Lets say you have 100 girls in your Bio 101 class. 30 of them go to bars/clubs sometimes. Out of those 30, 12 cant hold their alcohol, out of those 12, 2 are in shitty relationships, out of those two, one finds you attractive.

Right place? Bar/club, right time? Right after that girl that finds you attractive reads an all caps text from her boyfriend. This girl is 1% of the starting group of girls. You made out with her within minutes of meeting her because mostly luck, and some seduction at the very end of the chain of events.

Had you tried anything on the other 99 girls you would have failed unless life events led them into a position of vulnerability.

luaudesign · 2017-05-08T15:57:40+00:00

Women are people, too.

Title	Are girls really that easy?
Author	Pluglord
Upvotes	16
Comments	65
Date	May 7, 2017 1:51 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/69re2x/are_girls_really_that_easy/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/are-girls-really-that-easy.1424379 https://theredarchive.com/post/1424379

Comments