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[–][deleted] 63 points64 points65 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
He probably has better pictures. That’s 97% of why someone swipes left or right. The other 3% is location/preferences. Or he’s had an account longer
Also just an anecdote but a lot of times people set their location like >50mi and can get a lot of matches. Not me tho that’s way too far
[–]KingOnixTheThird 37 points38 points39 points 3 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link
The easiest way to get 100+ matches on Tinder is to swipe in Manilla Philippines. It's a cheat code if you're a white guy. I'm like a solid 5/10 and I still get 100 matches in a week.
[–]lefthandedaf 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yeah but how do you meet them? lol
[–]william_103ec 25 points26 points27 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Next tutorial OP will reveal that part.
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Gotta pay him for a bootcamp to find out
[–]surfershane25 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Go to Manila, Philippines… try to keep up. /s
[–]KingOnixTheThird 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The filipina route works best for Australian or New Zhealand men because those countries are (relatively) close to The Philippines.
I'd really only recommend going this route to meet women (assuming you're looking for a serious relationship) is if 1. You're unable to meet a suitable woman in your home country and 2. You're 100% ready to settle down.
And the reason for this is because, if you're a filipina citizen, you can't just hop on a plane and go visit a 1st world country. In order for a filipina to come visit you, they have to go through an interview process (which by the way, takes 1 year just to even get the interview) and it has a very high denial rate. This means you will have to visit them first, and that's assuming you're doing the long-distance relationship thing. I would only recommend IF you're ready to get married, and that's assuming you wish to stay in your country and not move to The Philippines. And the reason for this is because if you two get engaged or married, it's much much easier for them to come live with you.
Now if you're simply going there and are living there for a temporary time, then meeting girls to short term date or hookup with should be a lot easier than it is in your home country. An average looking 5/10 man might struggle with even getting matches in America. This same 5/10 man could get 100+ matches and have 10 girls willing to meet up with him in a week! If he were living in Manilla. It truly is the easiest country in the world to meet a girl if you're white.
[–]5_7pickup 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Yeah but what’s the point? Is that really the kind of women you want as an American? Or are you gonna live in Manilla? These “cheat codes” are pointless because it’s not practical.
[–]adscrypt 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Filipina women make great girlfriends and apparently wives as well, from what I've seen
[–]5_7pickup 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
So you’re gonna import a GF/wife because you can’t find one in America? Hmm sounds like 90 day fiance…. can’t go tits up I’m sure lol.
Like would you be really proud to present a filipina gf/wife who speaks english with a heavy accent to your family and friends?
[–]ro0ibos2 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This thread reminds me of that episode of 90 Day Fiancé where that Thai girl was so disappointed when she learned that her old white fiancé had no money.
[–]adscrypt 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
lol who said anything about importing?
I'm not even the guy who suggested going there because it's so easy for white guys, as I'm not white - I only meant to say that it doesn't seem like it'd necessarily be as bad as you suggest I think, if circumstances allow
Going out of your way to like, bring a GF/wife back just to have a serious relationship? No. Why?
[–]King_Offa 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No neck Ed ahead of his times
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Haha does This help your algorithm though? because I will be in Manila in February:)
[–]adscrypt -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Damn. Must be nice being white.
I wonder what it'd be like to have things be way easier and get laid way more often just because I had less melanin
Wild
[–]KingOnixTheThird 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There's plenty of white guys that suck with women, so being white isn't necessarily going to make you a chick magnet.
Being a white guy in the dating market is like being in a college class and doing really good on one assignment. It definitely helps with your overall grade, but if you do bad on all the other assignments, you're still going to get a bad grade in the class. For example, you can be white, but if you're obese, ugly, with low social skills, then the white advantage you get in dating is completely nullified with all of your negative attributes and as a result, you'll still suck with girls.
[–]adscrypt 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Okay "if you're white in manilla it's a cheat code" guy
[–]baorange 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Move to Dallas or Houston and you’ll find out quickly
[–]adscrypt 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
legit curious as to what you meant by this - sorry am dumb (as you can tell by my current not getting laid at all status)
[–]baorange 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Actually I responded wrong. I meant living in those cities you get laid easily just for having MORE melanin
[–]adscrypt 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hmm...this knowledge may be...useful
You have my thanks kind internet stranger
[–]testthrowaway54321 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are you trying to say hispanic guys get more action in those places? Cause I still think a white dude with other things equal will do better.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LOL I tried travel mode on tinder in the Philippines and got no matches or likes there.
[–]BisonBull 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Only person visiting Manila is Peter Scully 😂
[–]ShameAffectionate15 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
1.) pay for gold. 2.) take professional photos. 3.) use fiver to come up with a cool bio thats unique. Then rake in all the like and matches only to get 30 out of the 100 to respond to you. Then out of the 30 maybe 5 to go on a first date. Then maybe u will get a girlfriend. But a very frustrating process mainly because most women stop using the apps after like 100 matches which most have already. Its better to take thise pro pics on ig and then use the explore page to dm girls.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I did that and didnt get any matches
[–]ShameAffectionate15 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Then i suggest u use photoshop to change the face up and maybe use a handsome filter. Not an insilt just being real
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I just wouldnt feel right doing that, being deceptive and all. I also dont know what I would adjust. I feel pretty good looking as it is. Unless you have some ideas?
Also as a guy I have no idea what makes a guy attractive.
[–]ShameAffectionate15 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Women do it all the time. Its common.
again what do I change about myself?
[–]ShameAffectionate15 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Face
[–]drakon6192 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Can you point me to more resources or elaborate on "explore page to dm girls". I feel like I have quite a solid profile presence overall (both Tinder, Instagram.. real life) but obviously Tinder is inefficient af. What do you dm a cute girl you saw on explore? Is it common and expected to slide in dm's like that of random people?
[–]ShameAffectionate15 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Its common. So click on the neighborhood ur in and see recent posts and start dming away! Good luck!
[–]drakon6192 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Damn had no idea this was a socially acceptable thing, lol. Time to game on. Cheers
[–]ShameAffectionate15 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
real quick. I learned a lot of girls do that to meet other girls to make friends. "Hey im new to the city and I dont know anyone but I came across your profile on the explore page and i thought ur profile was really cool. I would be interested in meeting up sometime if your down".
[–]Mc_Dickles 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Does he pay for tinder? Definitely more success vs a free account
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No he doesn’t even has Gold
not always. I paid for tinder for a while and got nothing
[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
hint. it's not he pictures, it's the guy. If he looks good he can have selfies and still have a ton of matches even if the ( shitty ) norm is that guy shouldn't take selfies. That' why tinder is shit for normal people and great for good looking people.
[–]thenamesoliver 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not true my guy
while good pics do make a small difference, maybe half a point, it way too little for OLD standards. women swipe right on the top 5% , you won't get there just with good pics.
[–]Canadian-Seductioner 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Probably has a good profile.
[+]Valuable-Driver-38320 points 3 years ago [recovered] (20 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 20 points21 points22 points 3 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link
The fact that he has all those matches even though he’s only 5’7 means he’s super good looking. Only guys with model looks succeed on dating apps. Sorry bro
[+]Valuable-Driver-38329 points 3 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hinge and bumble , you have to list your height though
[–]dheidjdedidbe 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
As someone who is always told I should model and who has good pics. I’ve never gotten a like or match on tinder.
[+]Valuable-Driver-3836 points 3 years ago [recovered] (10 children) | Copy Link
[–]dheidjdedidbe 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news bro, but if you were attractive enough to succeed on tinder. You wouldn’t need tinder.
[+]Valuable-Driver-3832 points 3 years ago [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link
[–]dheidjdedidbe 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
If they really thought you were that attractive, wouldn’t they want to date you ?
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[–]dheidjdedidbe 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Are these girls that say you are super cute, strangers? Or are they all acquainted with you ?
[+]Valuable-Driver-3833 points 3 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
That’s tough bro. take what I’m saying with a grain of salt, becuase I have no idea what you look like. But if you were a truly attractive man, women that you don’t know,would make it obvious they are interested in you. If you really wanna know if you’re attractive or not here’s a subreddit you can use. /r rate me . You can’t really trust your friends to give you an objective opinion on your looks because they are going to want to prioritize your feelings first.
[–]drakon6192 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ummm, girls dont care about looks 90% of the time. What girls care about is confidence, success, power, respect. So, on Tinder you need to portray all those qualities AND be superficially good-looking. Not only.
Same as in real-life, but in real-life the point is you can actually get away without the looks part, which is secondary.
[–]lannisteralwayspay 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Girls do care. But it’s just part of the equation.
[–]drakon6192 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's literally what I just said. It's definitely a secondary part to the equation however - unless you're way below the minimum threshold.
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well, are you sure that those people aren't talking about hand modelling?
Or maybe your pictures aren't that good & your profile isn't as good as you think.
[–]Valuable-Driver-383 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😭😂
Nah man, he’s slightly above average, no way near model looking.
[–]NotYourAverageBulI 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I get a lot of women on mine it seems like tinder girls has an affinity for musicians, athletes, guys with social status or other attractive women in the pics. And what ranks some really high in the algorithm is that he probably doesn’t swipe on every single chick he sees like 90% of guys on the app do. When it sees you do that it put your profile all the way to the back so women can’t see it. I only swipe right on chicks that I view as a 10 out of 10. Also if you really want to get a lot more views and matches use the new features that they come out with on the app
[–]booniedog1 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I used to be selective with my likes when I first made my profile. Now, a month in with barely any likes and matches, I feel compelled to swipe right on 90% of the girls.
[–]epimpstyle 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you approach women at parties I don't know why do you use tinder?
Online apps are very difficult because you compete with all the guys from the app and also the girl will take a decision whether she likes you or not in just a few seconds while on street you have the chance to talk to her and I don't know if someone has "balls" to go and try to talk to a girl from the street / mall /bus station...
[–]xpressvu1919[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Make your profile convey that you are a cool, good looking, successfull, exciting, funny person with an interesting and fun lifestyle and youll get likes. Id say its more lifestyle than looks that will get you likes. Im a solid 9; hot girls approach me all the time in real life and tell me, but online i get no attention because i post shit boring pics lol. Needless to say i gave up on the apps, but i hear if your in great shape; take a shirtless pic, or pics with animals/dogs it helps lol
[–]spgh0st90 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pictures are key. Obviously, you have to be attractive but you can make your profile stand out with better quality photos.
[–]vldmin 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah, bullshit. I'm 7-8/10, 6'6" tall, white, thin. Never got more than 30 likes. The algorithm stops showing you after a while. He probably pays for platinun which shows you more especially to the ones on witch you swipe. Or he is lying and using fake pics on his profile.
No he doesn’t pay for it, I checked it. When my other friend told me about the profile, I was thinking the same thing, but yeah then I saw it and that’s why I made this thread, because I couldn’t believe it.
[–]ozzzy83 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe he travels often so not all girls are from the same place? In my case, I used to get repeatedly awesome results, and loads of matches, and prove it again and again when creating a new account until July last year, then all of that vanished...how? They somehow tweaked the algorithm, so no matter how strong my bio I put in, or how good my photos I have, and I'm tall and handsome, I just can't get even the 40% of results that I used to have. Somehow the algorithm is now pushing me to only 40+ women. Strange.
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