I am F22. The guy this is about is also my same age. We work together but we don’t see each other often and if we do our interactions are limited to not more than 1 - 5 minutes (bc of the work dynamic & organization).

I personally felt this huge tension between us since the start. I genuinely think he is AT LEAST attracted to me. Almost every time we had a conversation or small talk he said something that adds to that conclusion.

Its the way he always stops to talk to me whenever we casually met at work. He even almost ran towards me to say hey (and talk) after i acted like i didn’t see him. He has said we should go out sometime, followed by a wink. When we were talking about his preference in girls with other coworkers he said my hair color, also a specific height size range, directly followed by „you‘re also said specific size range, right?“.

He asked for my insta as soon as he got a chance to (we were talking about socialmedia). I see his eyes searching for me sooo often. Idk, its just the feeling i get.

He hasn’t confessed anything but i think its cause he is more the proud type & kinda shy about his emotions. I also suspect he may have heard from someone that i am a lesbian.

Idk if in this day and age this specific thing means something but; we follow each other on social mdia and he likes every single story where i am filming myself. Like any selfie / video where i am at sight, he likes. Anything where u can’t see me, he doesn’t like. Even if i post 3 selfies / videos in a row, he will like them all if i am on them. One after the other.

Is that a signal? Is that some type of confession? He hasn’t texted me or anything yet tho, but i suspect its for the reasons i mentioned above. I would like to hear yall‘s opinion on this:)

Recently we have completely different shifts so we mag just see each other max 2 times a week so the whole “getting to know each other” process is slowed down… but i am definitely planning on saying something that could lead to a specific discussion about going out together or anything related to that. I will have to think about it.