Honesty gets you a very long way

P7o7s7t7a7l · 2022-08-02T02:04:15+00:00

Assuming she's not gonna go ninja on me and spy off a telegraph and keep me monitored for my grandkids, I try to be honest. Cold souless creatures need not apply.

burakbenxd · 2022-08-02T00:38:12+00:00

What? Honesty works sure, but, depends on the circumstance. If I'm going on consecutive dates with the same girl, I keep mysterious. For instance, she asked me second or third date, "What are you looking for?" I said, "I'm looking for good chemistry! and see where things go :)"

I'm not going to sit there like a dweeb and say yes, I want a relationship baby i love you.

tlthang · 2022-08-02T05:28:37+00:00

In this sub, telling the truth means hey girls I want to bang everything that moves and say yes to me. That gonna go well

FranciscotheBull · 2022-08-02T11:54:49+00:00

I am only honest if it is a serious relationship or heading towards that. If it is just a conversation, I am being myself, but I am not going to spill out everything.

RemarkableStudio8823 · 2022-08-02T00:44:10+00:00

Mostly no. Honesty doesn’t get you far. Hiding your intentions while putting yourself first mentally will net you more positive results. I do go agree that delivery is everything, but the essence of seduction is just fancy talk for never revealing your hand. Go with the flow of having things work your way. Also the more honest you are the more the likely hood of girls disqualifying you.

plugdoc · 2022-08-02T05:20:48+00:00

i have to admit your right my friend

doobyscooze · 2022-08-02T04:53:40+00:00

Sexual charisma will get you a long way.

It's all about how you make her feel. Ever heard of positive reinforcement? Reward her when she cooperates. If she does the opposite, remove your attention.

sillypumpking · 2022-08-02T06:28:16+00:00

!remindme 3 days

Environmental_Cress2 · 2022-08-02T07:32:16+00:00

but remmeber plausible deniability

BagEmpty6931 · 2022-08-02T19:40:09+00:00

Telling exact truth doesnt seems to get me anything in life.

Truth should be packed and delivered in the form that will give me what I want and will not harm other side or give us both what we want.

You do not say "Guys, I'm not going out with you tonight because I dont have money", you say: "I'm busy tonight".

You do not say to girl: "Come to my place to have sex", you say "lets come to my place to make some dinner".

When girl asks you: " your friend told me you are bad swimmer, are you?", you do not say: "yes I am", you say " I think we all can improve our swimming because it not thats easy as it looks at first".

You do not say to job recruiter "my last job was the worst job ever and i hated it", you say "well, i had some good and bad days like everyone else".

idancegood · 2022-08-02T21:59:39+00:00

I think one important thing to remember for all you guys in the comments is that your attitude towards a bad situation matters a lot when talking about these issues with girls. Its ok to have issues, everyone does, just please...do not complain about them or come off as helpless to the girl you're talking to. Even if you don't have the answer to your problems right now, you should at least have the attitude of "i can fix this" when talking about it. No girl likes a pitty party

Of course there are extreme examples but in a general sense, you want to show you understand the situation you are in and are determined to improve it

EARLY20RAG3R · 2022-08-02T23:45:19+00:00

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Title	Honesty gets you a very long way
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	73
Comments	25
Date	August 1, 2022 11:50 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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