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[–]putcoolusernamehere 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I get what you're saying to an extent, it does make me cry a little bro tear when I see a guy who clearly has his shit together dating a girl who clearly doesn't. But from a logical perspective, that just makes it easier for the rest of us who are willing to get off the apps and meet in person.
I'm a guy who doesn't really have his shit together rn due to some mental & physical health issues the past few years, but even when I take my obese self out to do daygame I get good responses. It's like a large percentage of girls these days just have rarely if ever been approached irl and it really differentiates you.
[–]MaltaPepe 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
well said. another recent case i saw is a black muscled king with a local 6.5 chunky girl wearing a thong and trying to excite him non stop. another clear tinder couple and clearly she is using him for sex, thanks to tinder now women pump N dump
[–]Troklokhan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Some men just don't see a big issue with women having their shit together or not. Your standards are not other people's startandards.
[–]Death_Portal 4 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
upvoted this post cause it made me lol
i belive a fair dating app can be created but none is available in the market right now. i got good ideas but i am not an app dev
you'd go broke within a month, "fair" here generally means "more fair for the man" which also means there are even fewer reasons for women to sign up. women don't want "fair" they want "exceptional" and even with the lopsided advantage women have on apps, men are still drastically over represented on dating apps. a "fair" app would just be sausage city.
[–]runaround_fruitcop 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What does more fair for the man mean? What would that entail? And how would it be implemented
[–]FaithInStrangers94 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It would require a mass deflation event of all the average women (either appearance or being boring and uneducated) who’s egos have been inflated by the apps so that they become interested in average guys again
[–]runaround_fruitcop 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What does that even mean? So a woman who's page is getting more likes is shown less at certain times?
How can you gauge ego and stuff and subjective things like beauty on an app.
If you have an app with 100 men and 100 women. And there are 10 profiles that are women who keep getting liked.... how is it fair to bump that down if that's what the men who are coming to the dating app are looking for?
If there are 10 men's profiles that keep getting liked, then why would you bump those down because that's what the women are joining for?
I keep coming across this idea that instead of building yourself up you knock a woman down to your level.
If a woman you perceive as average is getting hot men then maybe she's not as average as you presumed?
Plus everyone likes different things. If her "ego" is so big because she keeps getting hot men liking her then is that really her fault or is it men's fault for swiping on anything with two legs and a hole (generalizing here to make a point)
It's so absurd that you see confidence in someone and get mad at them for not being attracted to you.
It's almost like if men keep liking the women you perceive as average but you're blaming the women for being well liked? It makes no sense to punish the woman for MEN liking her.
If you see what you think are average or ugly women getting hit on and a lot of matches, then again, maybe they aren't ugly or average. Food for thought
Idk kinda reminds me of how I've met a lot of guys who literally can't understand why women find benadict cumberbatch hot.
Your perception of beauty and attractiveness doesn't translate to every other person.
Not all men are looking for the type of women you like. So what you see as bleh. Average or ick. May be hundreds of other guys cups of tea and it's NEVER your place to purposefully make a person feel bad because other men find them attractive
But THAT or THOSE people don't find you attractive
[–]YoungAussiePrince 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The irony of this post is that everything you spewed is incel shit
and yet im d one with 1000+ fucks under my belt. and u r the soy latte numale cuck
[–]ilovefootball49 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I was just thinking that most people are favoring dating apps over old methods of dating, and I was trying to think of a way to even the odds. Since the average girl only needs to swipe twice for a match vs 20 swipes for a guy. So many girls have hundreds of matches and guys have like 5. I'm not going to abandon old dating methods that are hard, for these terrible odds. Some people swear to have success and it comes easily, but I can't seem to find the secret.
[–]aidsjohnson 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I never had much luck with Tinder. The most that happens is I match with a couple girls here and there, we talk, they ghost. Or they don't even respond at all. It's dehumanizing.
[–]PSM182 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tinder sucks for men because of basic gender features. Men rank looks as the top priority. Women do not rank looks as the top priority.
Tons of women are far more interested in status, success, personality and what the man has to offer. We see it everyday, it is natural. It is why tons of ugly guys have hot wives.
So here is the issue. Women go on tinder and all they can see if a few headshots and a one line bio. From there, you cannot possibly understand the mans personality, success or status. You have no clue what the man has to offer. There are tons of guys who get girls in real life because they live interesting lives and have status but suck at tinder because they do not look that great.
So what tinder has done is have women judge men based off of only one thing, a thing that most of them do not have as the top priority.
[–]ResponsibilityKey427 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
lol keep crying about it
[–]VNF420 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Be better.
[–]Electric_kundalini 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed. Incel mentality is the same as femcel mentality. Both complain about the opposite sex without trying to improve themselves.
[–]MaltaPepe -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
100% dependent on location and your ethnicity/looks. for example if u r a white 7/10 male in Thailand then Tinder will get you 3 fucks a day
[–]VNF420 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No
[–]Extra-Boysenberry 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Nah it gets me laid a couple times a month.
[–]MaltaPepe -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]5_7pickup -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Modern dating apps are fair. They use an elo system decided by the people who use the app. If your profile sucks it wont be shown as much as someone with a good profile.
Also tinder is not the only dating method. I find all my success via cold approach. Refer to my field reports.
[–]MaltaPepe 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
there r endless articles/research showing how tinder and co are not fair BUT hey you say d opposite so everyone is wrong.
[–]5_7pickup 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
How is it not fair? Its legit an elo system. Whats not fair about an elo system?
[–]MaltaPepe 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
im an OG pua. so u r saying that u actually get laid? i sense autism. notice how you swear by elo tech for human pairing. thats pretty autistic
[–]5_7pickup -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I get laid quite often via night game.
Bruh calls you autistic for having a differing opinion about an app 😑🤪
This may be your issue? Someone disagrees with you... and isn't even rude about it in any way and you call the autistic which shows you don't like when you're disagreed with and or that anyone who thinks a certain way MUST have what you probably deem as a mental deficit (which autism isn't)
"I sense autism" 😵😵💫 do you talk to people irl like this? This is so cold and rude and mean
[–]MaltaPepe -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
i just love these tinder couples. today i saw a guy that looks like Paul Walker in his prime (6pack and all) with another chubby 6.5/10. she even wore a thong no shame at all. clearly women are using tinder as free fast cock delivery and the app works perfectly well for them. all the while destroying society
I mean, if you don't think men use tinder as free pussy delivery, then you may be a bit delusional.
And if that's how people WANT to live their lives that's their prerogative.
I don't think it's exactly ahem nice. But it's their lives and I can't get mad at men and women wanting dick or pussy
How jealous.
[–]P7o7s7t7a7l 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I think dating apps fall short on gender identifying the technology. It's too easy for two girls to take on a couple as bf/gf....
I can't say this has happened to me, I don't use Tinder, but it's easy to run code on text so that the data is bought and sold as someone else. That's all my charm and charisma, CHOP!!!.... And there it goes on a third party site packaged as someone else. Probably catfished as a woman just so it run reverse game on dudes for all the marketing worth the data actually has. Talk to her, get ghosted gay...
What a bunch of headaches that will be in another nine years.
[–]P7o7s7t7a7l1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Don't let that discourage you.
Actually it's less about faulting Tinder or similar sites, and more about the data market place where data has become a compromise over privacy in some respects. With some awareness, using a dating app has all the exploits that other third-party sites have. Data is bought and sold just the same.
Poor man.
[–]Legitimate_Rape2553 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Most of these apps have bots as the majority of users just like Twitter. They should be permanent banned from the App Store, but they pay Apple and Google to keep them in the stores.
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