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CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-06-11T23:41:38+00:00

“Does it really work” sounds like you are thinking of seduction as tricks. Tricks don’t work. But seduction isn’t about tricks or pick up lines, it’s about making the girl feel intense positive emotions. You do that with social skills and a confident behaviour. If the girls can feel strong emotions with you then you can escalate things sexually and romantically

Therocksays2020 · 2022-06-11T22:35:30+00:00

It gives you tools. Some people will use them bette than others. Confidence grooming and game have made a lot of difference for me personally

earsurgery9 · 2022-06-12T08:01:09+00:00

it 'works' but it's not what you think it is. You can't use 'game' to make a girl sexually attracted to you. That's marketing nonsense. Of course. There's no magic verbals or techniques you can use if you're not her type. You can't negotiate attraction

But having 'game' will mean you convert a much higher percentage of girls who are into you, into sex, than someone who has no 'game'.

Santiagopls · 2022-06-12T09:42:33+00:00

What worked for me was to stop reading and start doing.

ReadyTelephone2395 · 2022-06-11T22:35:23+00:00

It doesnt work.

You cant negotiate attraction. You just need good social skills if she's into you.

When she's into you, just dont mess it up.

If she's not into (your not her type) no amount of game will make her attracted to you.

coachmelloweyes · 2022-06-12T12:17:55+00:00

I believe it works but too much will regress your results.

You need to use it to find what actually suits you and double down on that.

Discard the things that don’t gel with your natural personality. And remove the parts of your personality that are antiseductive.

burncushlikewood · 2022-06-12T04:39:18+00:00

Oh yeah absolutely, I was the typical rags to riches story, virgin in high school, never kissed a girl. Turned it around big time, people used to make fun of me for getting friendzoned. This seduction stuff is legit, I've studied many puas and figured out what to do. Lost my virginity when I was 16, banged a few girls. I studied mystery method, read vin DiCarlo books and watched Richard la Ruina's YouTube videos. I've done over a 100 approaches in the night club setting. This stuff works man trust, you just have to put in the time

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-06-12T06:20:55+00:00

It definitely works but what is pickup anyway. Conveying Ideal man qualities. So kind of fake it till you make it. After those traits are become a part of you you don't really have to think about what you're doing anymore

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-06-12T01:58:04+00:00

I think it got worse actually.

Southofsouth · 2022-06-12T04:20:00+00:00

Yeah, chasing and being a good guy is sooooo counterintuitive. In appearance is the right thing to do, but the reality is that it hurts your chances a lot.

goodguygonebad6789 · 2022-06-12T14:28:44+00:00

As an introvert myself, it has helped massively. I can talk to the hottest girl anywhere without flinching. I can flirt like a man without being ashamed of it. I am a very structured guy myself, so it has given me the tools (triangular gazing, question game etc.) to approach dating and succeed at it exponentially increasing my chances than what I would had without learning seduction. It's also made me a realist and pragmatist, based on experiences of other men and my own lived experiences, meaning I know what actually works (knowing what you want and going after it like a man) versus what I think works (trying to befriend women to...I'll let you fill the sentence).

ParticularAmazing112 · 2022-06-12T16:09:56+00:00

The biggest thing I needed was inner game which I learned from seduction. I use seduction tricks even when I don’t need to seduce(ex: marketing, etc).

Seduction is essentially just having the right social skills and knowing how to use them. A good book I always recommend is How To Make Friends and Influence People. Yes I know, you don’t want to end up in the friend zone. But if you know how to use the things in that book, you can leave a lasting impact on someone just by the first few minutes of getting to know them.

So to answer your question, yes seduction works but seduction isn’t simply about getting someone in bed. If that’s all you view it as, it might not work for the most part.

ksmith11011 · 2022-06-12T16:52:36+00:00

I wouldn’t say there’s an after. You’re always learning through trial and error. But the simple answer is yes, you’ll see more opportunities, you’ll make fewer mistakes, you’ll learn the markets you’re most successful in. It does add up.

Although in my experience I always feel like I have so much further to go. I rarely think of myself as being successful with women, even when I land a really cute girlfriend I’m just thinking it’s a fluke every time.

alzirian314 · 2022-06-12T17:30:24+00:00

Learning how to read cues and body language will help u in every interaction u have. So it helps a lot. Knowing when to pull back on what ur saying how to lighten a mood and how effectively to talk to different types of people is some of the most valuable information u can have.

marshall_strud · 2022-06-12T20:14:38+00:00

0-100. My life changed in every way possible

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