When a girl rejects you, does this mean she thinks you're not hot enough?

wolvtongue · 2022-05-10T12:40:26+00:00

No, she just thinks your genes should not continue.

kriegmonster · 2022-05-10T12:43:46+00:00

No, it depends on the girl and what she values. It could be any combination of looks, personality, perceived competence, potential for career success, personal values and beliefs, and respect for you as someone who would pass a shit test.

ResponsibilityKey427 · 2022-05-10T13:05:56+00:00

It means you are not what she’s looking for.

Whether that’s looks, status, wealth, etc

gaifogel · 2022-05-10T13:07:59+00:00

It means she isn't attracted to you now. She might in the future, but that's unlikely and don't count on it. Trying to make her attracted to you will fail, almost always. You might be able to attract her if you stop giving her attention and start dating other women. Best is to move on

You might be the hottest person on earth, but she deems you not good enough now, or not a good match or whatever. One girl's opinion doesn't matter. If all girl's think this and say this to you, then you have a pattern

SnooPets1514 · 2022-05-10T14:06:08+00:00

Not at all. I’ve been rejected by a girl who’s now seeing an ugly af guy but he’s got a shit tonne of money.

When I got with my ex she suddenly popped up on the scene and sent me a message saying: ‘miss u let’s play soon’

Don’t try to understand a woman 😂😭

sexsex69420irl · 2022-05-10T13:16:38+00:00

Lmao, does it really Matter what she thinks?

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-05-10T13:52:32+00:00

Everything except a yes is a not. There’s a variety of excuses they’ll come with but it all meats the same thing. She’s just not interested.

AgentHit · 2022-05-10T13:16:30+00:00

She probably things you are the best, but not for her...

_Broatmeal_ · 2022-05-10T13:47:34+00:00

Not necessarily, there are plenty of answers possible. This whole sub needs a lesson in how to be a human fucking being

KDallas_Multipass · 2022-05-10T15:16:00+00:00

Reframe this question. when you push two magnets together and they are on the same poles, which of the two can be called "not attractive enough"? While there are certain minimum levels of effort expected by society, like grooming yourself, a rejection should never be taken to mean anything intrinsic about yourself. This is easier said than done sometimes but you got to remind yourself this over and over and over.

While she might be attractive to you, just because you're not attractive to her doesn't make you not attractive it just means she wasn't attracted toyou. Just a magnet with it's pole the same as yours. See the difference?

MistyMaisel · 2022-05-10T14:13:46+00:00

When you reject eating nuggies because you want a cheeseburg is it because you think chicken nuggies have no attractive features? No. It's because you want a cheeseburg and no matter how delicious nuggies are, they are never going to be a cheeseburg.

rhofire · 2022-05-10T14:19:48+00:00

does that mean you just arent good looking enough?

No, that's not what it means.

In general, it means your behaviour turns her off sexually.

kathruins · 2022-05-10T14:54:46+00:00

you two are looking for completely different things yet you decide that she must be acting on perceived attractiveness. thats so shallow of you. you cant come up with any other possible reasons she may not be interested? ya know, like the fact she wants to get married and you dont? LMAO what a joke. who even cares if she finds you attractive? even if she did, there's no guarantee she'd fuck you. because chicks (like most other human beings) have a lot going on and its not always "omg how many peens can i get inside me today?" just chill out and talk to people for the sake of talking to people. then maybe you can have sex for the sake of having sex and not some weird mind game/confidence building exercise.

Condor-man3000 · 2022-05-10T15:22:50+00:00

If it is an initial rejection usually it is based on superficial reason. I would say because you have established a friendship already there might be more to it. Being hot to someone you have a long term relationship with may include more than just looks.

Robofrogg1 · 2022-05-10T17:25:44+00:00

Just a ‘girls only go for the hot guys’ post in disguise.

yoitsappy · 2022-05-10T17:48:37+00:00

You're not Hot enough for her

Title	When a girl rejects you, does this mean she thinks you're not hot enough?
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Date	May 10, 2022 12:35 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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