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Calamity__Bane · 2022-03-09T22:19:59+00:00

I’m not, but a personal trainer for sex (essentially what you’re doing here) doesn’t sound like the worst idea if you’re not in a position to snag a committed relationship or a fwb and don’t want to constantly go out.

froze_gold · 2022-03-09T22:11:12+00:00

The closest I got to a sex for cash situation was when a gay man offered me $60 for him to blow me.

Partyboi27 · 2022-03-09T23:30:27+00:00

(26M) I'm in the same mentality, just got out of a three year relationship that ended terribly. Had a rebound who I was probably more into than my ex for about 6 months afterwards, this ended and now I'm kind of feeling that way towards relationships and rather just pay for sex and not worry of building unnecessary relationships I don't need, unless it's the right one.

It may be an unpopular opinion but I can understand your thought process and I think it's fine what you're doing.

Lord_corgi · 2022-03-09T22:39:59+00:00

I’m thinking about it, but I’m afraid i’ll fall in love with her and ruin my finances

Mo3 · 2022-03-09T19:55:44+00:00

No... But looking into it for the same reason. I don't know if I can get hard knowing I didn't seduce her into sex though...

2022-03-10T00:32:24+00:00

Bro at that rate that’s cheap as hell and she seems to be chill. Why not? It gives you some form of abundance and that’s key.

glam_kat_0405 · 2022-03-10T03:37:42+00:00

I am a 36F and I think what you’re doing is a kind mature thing, both for yourself and the world - much better than, say, meeting women and ghosting them. And, sounds like you’re improving your skillset in the process

Czekraft · 2022-03-09T20:23:55+00:00

I don't. Some would consider that a priority when traveling. How much does she charge you?

2022-03-10T01:23:35+00:00

I do this women waste time. Straight to the chase this way. So I can stay on the path of being great

TomUdo · 2022-03-09T19:22:29+00:00

Not occasionally.

Amkg2020 · 2022-03-10T01:29:05+00:00

It's bad for savings though isn't it I used do it quite alot pay for company and that jazz but yeah I don't think it's wrong to do but honestly it's definitely a red flag if you ever try to get in a relationship you gotta take it to your grave etc

Mo3 · 2022-03-10T04:46:00+00:00

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Charge36 · 2022-03-09T23:55:42+00:00

Strain you and train you endurance? Most girls don't want you to last more than 10 to 15 mins on penetration and plenty want less than that

FlatDistance5 · 2022-03-10T07:01:08+00:00

Only a few times, honestly the last time was when I was daygaming 5-6years ago. I approached a young lady great body pretty face invited her over to split a bottle of wine that night.

She came by in a see-through shirt with no bra (which I though was kind of weird since it was our first date). I think for both of us it was a real date, wasn’t initially transactional. I asked her out and she found me attractive. Her Body was waaay better than I originally thought. Gigantic ass small waist c/d perky cups. She drank I kissed her played with her tits after awhile I could see she wasn’t that into me which to me was kind of weird since she came over. So I drove her to her home…..but turned out to be a party 😕.

Me thinking about her body decided I’m going to give it another shot, she’s hot I wanted to see her again. Tried to set up another date and she said are you trying to fuck me, me confused as to what was going on, I said yea, but I want to know who you first. And she said $100 I said I ain’t paying for sex, hoe. She said well get the fuck off my line then…… hung up on me…

Welp, 1 call back, brief negotiation, and a bareback blowjob later…. It was the best 75 I’ve spent in a long time. I mean 30 mins sucking. I came 3x first time didn’t tell her because she couldn’t tell and I didn’t think it was an issue, but she heard me moaning. 2nd time I warned her she acted mortified because she hates cum. 3rd time I warned her and she moved right in time. It sucked because she was insanely gorgeous and I knew that was a 1 time deal. Mainly because I personally can’t enjoy a blowjob fully if you move out of the way when I finish. And 2 I enjoyed her so much I knew I was going to fall in love. Had to leave it alone

I say if you can avoid doing it don’t. Just work on yourself and try to attract women naturally. Why because that shit can be addictive. Especially if the women are attractive. It gets expensive real fast. It hurt my soul after that night To get rid of her number. Still have flashbacks

eddiebluudy · 2022-03-10T00:46:01+00:00

Ive been thinking about it too. I have no wish for relationship, Or even FWV, I rather just release the sexual energy, and continue about my business, I agree w you OP

cormacru999 · 2022-03-10T01:58:51+00:00

I think you should be a bit more honest about why you're doing it, because you don't need to do it for stamina & masculinity & there is no such thing as blue balls in the context you're using. I stopped dating & stopped having sex a few years ago because I couldn't put in the time & energy to do it AND treat the other person with real respect. My masculinity hasn't vanished or wilted & my penis & balls aren't going to explode if I don't release the sperm. lol I don't masturbate either. I do think part of your post is more about making yourself feel good by presenting yourself as this super stallion that has to give special instructions to the sex worker, & I wonder how true that, or by virtue of that, how much any of this is true or embellished, but I am sure that you really believe the idea that blue balls is real & that it would somehow impact your manliness, but you can jerk off & that would still meet that fantasy or misunderstanding you have. If some of the interactions are true, I would caution you because it sounds like you're developing a relationship with her & since I don't know if she's a full time sex worker or just some woman you created this pay for sex thing is, you may find yourself in a situation you didn't plan for.

For the record, sex work has always existed & I think has a place in society, & although I don't use it, I don't have an issue with it as a concept. However, its not regulated much, meaning its quite dangerous for women & others, like gay men or trans sex workers especially, & I would feel better if I knew that most men would avoid taking advantage but the fact is, many of the women who go into sex work come from abuse, or are drug addicts or mentally ill & when men do pick up on that, they almost always choose to take advantage of the women instead of at least not accepting the service.

Woujo · 2022-03-10T02:35:31+00:00

The purpose of seduction is to learn how to get laid so you don't need to buy a hooker. You can literally have the same relationship with lots of women without having to pay for it.

IF you are thinking about buying a hooker, go on sex worker twitter and just look at the terrible things SWs say about their clients. SWs generally HATE their clients; they look down on them.

AerodynamicCow · 2022-03-10T04:56:04+00:00

This is sad

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2022-03-10T00:03:18+00:00

“Not out of pure blue ball desperation”

Must be chicks begging ma dude all the time to pull his pants down but he refuses and stays loyal to prostitues

Now thats another level of fidelity👆

Ps: yep, everyone does. When they have no other choice. Or those with fat gf..

TheRiverOfDyx · 2022-03-10T01:46:01+00:00

I have no idea where to find one, I live in hick nowhere. So for me, going and finding a sex worker takes more effort than just talking to a girl

BobbyJoeMcgee · 2022-03-10T03:26:57+00:00

Eh no

missterrcammeraa · 2022-03-10T03:58:22+00:00

diegggs94 · 2022-03-10T04:04:16+00:00

Did you pay for the South Park watch?

sublimeonskunk · 2022-03-10T04:24:35+00:00

Prostitution is a victimless crime. So knock yourself out!

WindJammer27 · 2022-03-10T04:42:43+00:00

I'm gonna go this way eventually, and not out of lack of options. If you want a casual, stable relationship, this is probably the only way. Regular women, for a casual relationship, either they get bored of it and dump you, or develop feelings and expect you to do the same even if you swear you never will.

GhostNinja1373 · 2022-03-10T07:50:30+00:00

I at least have thought of it the laat few months but i go back and forth about it and the pros and cons.

I mainly havent done due to bills rent etc and the second reason cuz i live with family so cant exactly be bringing a girl over especially that type.

Over all i feel like it be nice to have a fwb and call a girl once a month or so but problem is making sure no feelings get involve and then theres the paying...dont need another bill on the list 🤐

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