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TrenHarder2022 · 2022-01-16T22:57:07+00:00

You got bored? Dude stop being a lame partner.

What if she was sucking off you and mid way she just left you hard.

The trick is you need stamina, most girls can’t come quickly, it takes them a long time. Yes at times you start getting tired but after some experience you learn how to adjust and keep going.

The easiest way I make a girl come is I tell her not to worry about time, have her relax and lay back, we’re gonna keep going until she’s satisfied. It only works if you actually mean it.

Most girls are also pretty insecure about their taste and smell, and being so exposed. You need to assure her that you’re really into it. Bust it open and eat it like your life depended on it. Note: harder is not better, you need to slowly ramp up and follow her body language.

Also clit is 95% where you want to be. Some girls have easily exposed and prominent clits, others have tiny hidden ones that are hard to reach. You teally just need to spend your time exploring it.

The end result is I end up providing the best head they ever got. I’m 33 now and it probably took me until late 20s to actually enjoy it, before that I would half ass it and avoid it.

Positive-Cloud5975 · 2022-01-16T23:00:37+00:00

“Her legs were trembling a lot and everything but I stopped cause I got bored” LETS START HERE, SHALL WE that’s a crime !!!!

Also you could use your fingers or a vibrator. Using lube also helps when masturbating someone with the hands. Maybe you could also ask her to show and/or tell you what and how she likes… if she is shy, just ask her to guide you

And if you realise a woman is coming NEVER STOP. Specially not because u “got bored”, what the hell

Also.. girls need more time to cum. Don’t stress. If she starts to think that she needs to come fast or else “you will get bored” she won’t come because she will be under pressure.

Orange11a · 2022-01-16T23:19:57+00:00

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TrendyLepomis · 2022-01-16T23:34:53+00:00

Stopped reading as soon as you said you get bored.

stop being a pussy and eat that shit. selfish ass

ProFriendZoner · 2022-01-17T02:18:29+00:00

No wonder she won't put out for you. She's waiting for a real man.

HotJNS · 2022-01-17T01:23:13+00:00

girl gives you head, no complaints. You give her head "fuck, im bored". Someone slap this bitch lmao

Edit: I would also like to say that, seeing a women physical twitch from my tongue gets me excited. My jaw might hurt for a hot minute or get tired but you could also ask for her to sit on your face.

AutistNerd · 2022-01-17T00:57:12+00:00

Troll right?

bigbodi45 · 2022-01-17T01:33:27+00:00

bro what ? i got BORED…. then you ask how to make her finish ?

Mak0wski · 2022-01-17T01:26:09+00:00

"got bored"??? Bro you sure you're not gay?

Different_Turnover60 · 2022-01-16T22:48:47+00:00

You can try changing your rhythm, go up and down, side to side, in circles. You can also do some teasing before. Like kissing her tights, kissing the lips. Give her compliments, telling her she’s sexy, her moans are hot. I did a “figure 8” but to her whole pussy. Listen to her moans and see what she likes.

zoric75 · 2022-01-17T01:22:33+00:00

Let her ride you with clothes on (jeans, panties, or naked) with her clit rubbing your hips or your penis with her movement, meanwhile use your hands to touch all her body while you suck/lick one of her boobs at the speed of her momentum ridding you. She gets friction of clit, you get to suck tits = orgasm. OBVIOUSLY with previous foreplay

TRASHBOAT_94 · 2022-01-17T02:47:55+00:00

OP, clueless, looking for advice. Reddit, smacks the living sh*t outta OP for being a dense Mfer

Health077 · 2022-01-17T00:19:07+00:00

Invite me

SuaveFuck · 2022-01-17T02:42:43+00:00

a guy getting to eat pussy and is so arrogant to get bored with it..... wow. now thats some shitty attitude right there.

jackzander · 2022-01-17T03:06:51+00:00

but I stopped cause I got bored

when I shove a finger in

This is either a shitpost or you're the most oblivious motherfucker on the planet

its_whot_it_is · 2022-01-17T02:12:25+00:00

Try sucking on her clit not just licking

ChurchofCaboose1 · 2022-01-16T23:35:30+00:00

Tbh I don't get the distinction between all the other forms of sex yall do other than piv. Is it a religious thing? If so, does she really believe her deity is like "oh ok, his fingers and mouth were there but not his d... She's still a virgin!"

Otherwise, suck it up buttercup. Women take longer to finish and it seems like a more passionate experience since my legs never shake but hers do.

Orange11a · 2022-01-17T00:39:10+00:00

I would suggest rubbing her the area around her clit with your fingers. Maybe alternate between that and oral and yes brother. You need to push through if you’re bored or getting a little tired. But you could alternate between fingering and oral if you’re getting too tired or a bit sore.

AdBackground5263 · 2022-01-16T22:55:49+00:00

kiss her neck, play with her tits, suck her nipples, run your fingers softly on her thighs turn her on to the point where she’s close to the edge then flick your tongue on her clit and finger her at the same time make love to the pussy and finally find her g spot play with it and she’ll definitely cum might even squirt

2022-01-16T23:09:18+00:00

Whisper these questions in her ear while you "play" with her : "Faster? Slower? Softer? Harder?". Adjust and adapt. Learn her secret cheat code. Or you can keep trying to guess and give up.

DTownPoly · 2022-01-17T02:37:21+00:00

The vast majority of people with clits primarily cum from clitoral stimulation, NOT from penetration. Just gotta find it first :p

2022-01-16T23:23:54+00:00

I went through the same when I was 18, still virgin and didn’t want to lose my virginity yet. I would orgasm from oral but not by just licking. You have to adjust the “pace” as you notice her legs shaking and getting close. Usually more licking in the beginning and then sucking until she cums. Don’t suck too strong please lol I don’t think sliding fingers will help much.

VibrantHades · 2022-01-17T01:51:37+00:00

Obviously using the phrase “I stopped because I got bored” puts you in a bad position here. Using “I got exhausted” would be better and understandable. I definitely get bored too, but it’s part of the gig. You gotta keep it exciting, if you’re bored, she’s probably bored and not gonna cum.
Avoid getting bored by having her moan a bit more, or switching up where you are pleasuring her. Go back and forth between each leg, boobs, neck, stomach, vag etc.
Spice up oral by doing 69 or modified positions like that.
When you are tired of your mouth, try using your fingers just to rub the outside or on the clit.
Use your hands to touch her nipples, her hair, maybe her butt if shes into it (don’t stick that back in the vag tho), her feet, holding her hands, or running your nails gently on her body generally.
Maybe use creative stories or find out specific kinks. My girlfriend likes hearing me prAise her like “you’re doing a good job” and shit. So I mention things that she is doing well in the moment and over the week. Like her vag, her hair, nails, boobs, schoolwork, running errands, bigger projects etc
Maybe watch porn with her? Find out what videos she likes and try to incorporate that into the fantasy/foreplay
Make sure you’re using a proper seduction voice thats slower, calm, and confident.
Use lube if she isn’t wet enough.
Build a stronger emotional connection with her. This one is the most important for her to cum deadass. But this is also in direct opposition to what you want probably
It’s not always bad if a girl doesn’t cum. She might like the sensation overall, and doesn’t see herself as being able to be made to cum by a man yet. It’s deadass more of a mental thing than what you can do physically. Girls will get attached and want to feel safe in that attachment

Orange11a · 2022-01-17T00:04:30+00:00

Finger her while you eat her out noob

thelambofdeth · 2022-01-16T23:22:48+00:00

Hand her a credit card

bobaho3 · 2022-01-17T00:49:19+00:00

Remember to breath with your mouth

Alonso81687 · 2022-01-17T02:15:59+00:00

Toys. Toys are a man's best friend. I'm 34 and will always ask my gf's or fwb to pull out their vibrators or any toy they use to reach orgasms when I'm not around. There are ones that suck on the clit, there are vibrators or the multi use ones that go inside and hit the g spot and hit the clit on the outside. Not only is it fun to be dominant with the toys they use to get off, they climax a lot faster than just penetration alone. And of course eating her pussy like it was your last meal on earth.... Women like enthusiasm.

GroundbreakingBus138 · 2022-01-17T00:48:02+00:00

Rubbing is always fun

2022-01-17T02:14:54+00:00

Don’t underestimate the boobs man you can get a girl really turned on by sucking, squeezing on the tits and then easily make her cum

ambiosa · 2022-01-17T02:35:41+00:00

Shove ur tonge in there then

Orange11a · 2022-01-17T02:56:04+00:00

You just have to push through it when it gets boring or feeling tired

wka007 · 2022-01-17T03:06:51+00:00

Use the force!

Foolforthought080 · 2022-01-17T03:17:18+00:00

Stimulation of clitoris, a lot of foreplay, sucking on her 🐱

weesome · 2022-01-17T03:35:00+00:00

You gotta be the most retarded person I’ve ever seen if this isn’t a troll

Psychological-Cow711 · 2022-01-17T03:37:54+00:00

Toys are a men’s best friend. Maybe give that try.

Ohhhwordddd · 2022-01-17T03:38:12+00:00

Your literally eating pussy how is that boring? Maybe don’t cum before you go down on her either way slurp it al up and do other naughtier things as well

originalgainster · 2022-01-17T03:49:19+00:00

THIS QUESTION IS NOT ABOUT SEDUCTION. GO ASK THIS ON R/SEX OR SOMETHING.

Geez, are there no mods in this sub?!

imadethisonthetoliet · 2022-01-17T03:54:36+00:00

Eat her out

Zimm10 · 2022-01-17T03:55:38+00:00

Stopped bc you got bored, aka couldn't quite figure it out and she asked you to stop/you gave up?

MetaphysicPhilosophy · 2022-01-17T03:55:58+00:00

Key thing: be very slow and tease her. Always start with the neck

https://youtu.be/mCEPFtEGXL8

Flyguylycan25 · 2022-01-17T03:57:07+00:00

I didn’t. Read thhe. Whole thing but my so before we had sex and I never ate pussy before so I didn’t know what to expect but I love her wet kitty and that made her cum if that helps be gentle women wil guide you I let my girls responses and reactions guide me and what she wants will make her cum

Flyguylycan25 · 2022-01-17T03:57:47+00:00

Suck on the clitttttt it is juicy wonders

Marinaraplease · 2022-01-17T04:22:24+00:00

Engage the clitorius

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